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Zelma, 35
United States, North Carolina, Newland

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About Me

Well what can I say, I've been on here before without any luck but I'm willing to give it a try. I am looking for an unrealistic dream I think......I want a male friend that I can talk to every other day or so...see once a week to go out and have fun with...a friend that knows my family...who adores me for me and flirts but doesn't expect more...a best friend that one day when the time is right...we choose each other for love. Ahhh .....what a dream, is it too much like a movie to desire?I'm a busy mom, full time employee, and student as well but I'm want to start talking to a man that's understanding and real. First and foremost a Godly man that will strengthen his spiritual journey with me, by actively talking about God, the bible, and maybe even go to church with me :) My best friend, someone who can make me laugh and looks at the world from an optimistic view. A man that has his life in order and can take care of himself but wants to share his life with someone. Someone who is motivated and goal driven, but also has strong family beliefs. Someone who is patient, caring, thoughtful, and energetic that likes to do things and wants to help me experience life to it's fullest.A little bit about me, I am a very strong and independent woman but would really like to share my life with someone. My main priority in life is God and I am very active in church. My next priorities include my 2 wonderful children that fill my heart and soul. I am a very passionate person, someone who always sees the bright side of things. I am a glass is half full kind of person who absolutely loves to laugh. I can laugh at just about anything, even myself! I turned healthy 3 years ago learned quickly what’s in my foods. I prefer to cook my own food because I know how it’s prepared but do like to go out to eat once in a while. I’m the healthiest that I’ve been probably in my entire life and I want someone that has that in common. I really enjoy running and do that every other day along with running race's at least once a month.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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