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Lester, 35

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About Me

Hmmmm, let’s see.... I don’t like most guys, but because I am not interested in most guys, that’s what makes those few unique individuals that I do connect with all the more special ;- Definitely nothing rushed :-) I do not have a specific “type” of guy that I am attracted to. To me, it all depends on the chemistry between the 2 people :) Yes, I have dated outside my race and do not have a problem with that - which is a question I get often. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff...life is too short for that :) I am independent but far from being a feminist. I am a hard worker, work a lot of hours and am a single, confident, hands-on mom to my 8 yr old son.....which explains this online dating situation :-) I keep my son away from my dating lifestyle and will not bring anyone around him unless I find the one and am ready to commit and take it to the next level. Family and friends are most important to me in life. I've learned that money and opportunities come and go, but your friends and family are always there to help you when you need it. So, tell me...what’s your story? What are your pet-peeves and what makes you weak in your knees from joy and happiness? As for the qualities in men I find attractive, besides physical attraction ... he’s got to have a down-to-earth attitude, genuinely all-around good person, be confident in himself, have a job he loves but that doesn’t control his whole life, is not afraid to choose the restaurant, has a sense of humor, trys to get the most out of life, be able to hold an intelligent conversation... and most importantly, does NOT try to be someone he is not. Just be yourself :-)If you want to know anything else, please don't be shy and just ask me :-) First date….not sure!!! I am willing to entertain any reasonable offer :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    !!!To an amazing child. I work full time, I'm independent, stable, hilarious, I can cook, throw a footbal and look amazing in a black dress. I have an extremely interesting job that keeps me grounded.I am Irish and lebanese!!!! I want to find a guy that is witty always smiling, genuine and does what he says. I go to the pats games a couple times a season, huge fan on concerts and will try anything once.I'm 5"9 and want a guy taller than. I love country music and hip hop. I'd like to date someone who lives near me and wants to hold my hand. I go to church often it gives me perspective on life, it's not a most but I'd love for the man in my life to come with me.I love swimming, tennis, huge poker fan and going to the pub with my friends.I think it's important that my mate understand that I am a mom first and that my schedule isn't meant for spontaneous last minute plans. I've noticed lately that my dates have no problem with me picking up the first date tab, what happened to chivalry?!Best advice I've been given was you can't act like a guy and expect to be treated like a lady. Please know the difference between your and you're I apologize to you if I don't seem real eager to jump into a forced awkward intimate situation that people like to call dating. I don't like the feeling. You're sitting there, you're wondering do I have food on my face, am I eating, am I talking too much, are they talking enough, am I interested I'm not really interested, should I play like I'm interested but I'm not that interested but I think she might be interested but do I want to be interested but now she's not interested? So all of the sudden I'm getting, I'm starting to get interested... And when am I supposed to kiss her? Do I have to wait for the door cause then it's awkward, it's like well goodnight. Do you do like that ass-out hug? Where you like, you hug each other like this and your ass sticks out cause you're trying not to get too close or do you just go right in and kiss them on the lips or don't kiss them at all? It's very difficult trying to read the situation. And all the while you're just really wondering are we gonna get hopped up enough to make some bad decisions? Perhaps play a little game called "just the tip". Just for a second, just to see how it feels. Or, ouch, ouch you're on my hair.

  • Nell

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I am looking to meet a fun educated man who is honest, a good conversationalist, and one who has his priorities straight. I am down to earth and I am looking for depth as well as someone who is quick witted with a sense of humor that can keep me smiling.

  • Oneida

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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I am generally a happy, outgoing person. I like to stay busy, am not incredibly impressed by people who have a lot of money, and like to have randomness in my life. I am loving it so far! I have met so many great people. Hopefully this site will help me meet some more ;)I absolutely love to travel and want to see the world. My favorite country so far has been Germany. I loved the people, towns, culture, and the fabulous beer. I have a good sense of humor and am definitely looking for someone that can make me laugh. I am pretty sarcastic, and like it when some one can give it right back to me and keep me on my toes.In my free time, I like to spend time outside, hike, read, find new places to explore, and watch movies. I am pretty open to anything on a first date. I like the traditional dinner and a movie thing, but also like to mix it up a bit.

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