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Phelim, 36
United States, Vermont, Chester

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About Me

I am a Licensed Massage Therapist. I surround myself with people that I can further along in their journey and they in mine. Some light hearted things about me go like this... I have a lot of seriousness in my life. I want something fun, whimsical. I am outgoing, but not a type A kind of party animal. (Mostly to hide my shyness.) I like to dance at clubs at home out at the grocery store. If I feel the beat I gotta move to it.... OK, so that is a little weird, I know. Some obvious things I like are; movies, fancy dinners, the beach (at night), music, etc. Mostly, I like to be home and chill to some music or movies etc. As said above...lol I have been single for a few years now and want to have fun but have hope for the future. I know I don't want to rush anything. For about 6 months now i've been hitting the gym trying to get fit. i am not getting any younger and i felt i was too scrawny. Since then, i've gained 30lbs, i've got a lot more self esteem and sense of humor, i'm eating healthy and i feel great. i would also like some one who is into being fit as well.now, to get rid of these disgusting cigarettes!PS. You may think i'm narcissistic for having a shirtless pic, but i'm proud of what i have accomplished. It took me y months to look this average. lol First dates are awesome...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Electro House Jazz English German Indian Italian Adult Animation Horror
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