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Mervin, 38
United States, Pennsylvania, Beach Lake

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About Me

I'm definitely a social person but tend to be the quiet one in the group, it just takes me a bit to warm up to someone new. On an average weekend you can find me checking out a band - probably country but anything good will do, looking for a new restaurant, sharing a round of drinks with friends or just lounging on the couch watching a movie or catching up on the DVR. During the week you'll catch me at the gym - sometimes before work, sometimes after; out for country night (Tuesday) and playing team trivia (Thursday and maybe one other night) or playing sports. Beyond that, I'll try pretty much anything. I also like to travel and it would be fun to have someone to site see with. I've seen most of the US and a few other places. I don't know if I would saying cooking is an interest but on that note I do cook - prefer the grill to the stove (I also clean up after myself but I am by no means a clean freak). Aside from that some of my interests include history and nature and those are a couple of my favorite cable channels. I'm not a big sitcom fan - more drama / action/adventure / sci-fi - and sports of course, mainly football and UFC. I can talk about almost any topic and enjoy a good conversation - serious or not. I'm not a fan of "20 question" type conversations though…maybe a result of my job. I have my masters degree in IT and have been working in IT for over 12 years (in law firms); aside from that I have been in the military and worked in law enforcement.I am very close to my family and will always be there for them. Both of my parents are disabled and I do as much as I can to help them when they need it. I have a younger sister and a niece. I have great friends and consider myself very lucky in that respect. *Demonstration of my sense of humor* Doesn't everyone say this if you're going to? I mean, is it kind of redundant right - like someone is going to say "I hate my family and have no friends"?? What am I looking for? The romantic in me (don't ask me to admit to that in public) is looking for that love at first site (?), happily ever after thing. Is that out there? Maybe…but I'm not in a rush, I guess it's one those things I'd rather do right the first time. I believe in finding someone who compliments my lifestyle as well as I compliment theirs. We don't have to have everything in common but at least a few things would be good! ;) That said, I'm looking for someone who I can have a good conversation with about anything or just sit back and relax and stare at the stars on a clear night. A sense of humor is required - hopefully odd or at least capable to dealing with mine (and my dad's)! Hopefully we can learn something from each other as well. A first date should be about getting to know each other better. As much as I enjoy concerts and sporting events, I'd rather keep it low-key - something where we can chat without yelling over whatever is happening. An idea that would be fun is checking out a museum, dinner, coffee shop, walking around - hopefully the weather will make that a more pleasant experience soon!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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