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Matthias, 38

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About Me

So I guess this is where I am supposed to tell ya a little about me, and what I am looking for. Pretty simple I guess-but makes you stress out in trying to cram all your stats and hopes and ideals into a small paragraph. But here goes… First off, I am an old fashioned kind of guy who loves being in a relationship. I am a LTR kind of a guy, and would love to meet the same. I’m just an easy going, laid back kind of a guy, who prefers to stay at home with a good movie. I am an average guy. I don’t have a six pack, nor do I go to the ‘gay church’, aka THE GYM! I like to relax with a nice glass of wine at dinner, sharing it with someone special, as we talk about our day. I don’t get upset or angry very easily--and love to laugh. Some tend to think that I am a huge smart-ass, as I tend to use my quick wit in a variety of situations. At first, I am shy, just observing what is going on around me. But once you get to know me--and I feel comfortable--well then watch out! ;) I hope to find someone to share my life with that isn’t all ‘wrapped up in the scene’. Someone that isn’t shallow or self-absorbed and isn’t concerned with what others think. Someone that smiles when he sees me, as if there is no one else in the room. Someone who thinks about me ‘just because’, whether it is just a random thought-- Someone that can know what I am thinking and feeling if I have had a shitty day without me even saying anything. Someone that laughs at my corniness, and thinks it is the most wonderful thing in the world. Someone who just likes me and likes being with me for me--and hurts when we are apart. I tend to like guys around my age. Someone who is mature and knows what direction his life is going. Someone who wants to develop and share a life with another, in good and bad. Isn’t that what life is about? I am also dealing with a chronic illnesses, so you must be okay with that (it's nothling deadly-so no worries! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Wil

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    Man. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm happy. It's good to be able to say that and mean it. The last few years of my life have been a journey of huge personal growth for me and I am ready to travel the way with someone. I feel like I've matured 15 years in the last three. I've made personal victories in coming out to people, accepting people for who they are, believing that I am worthy of love, not feeling guilty about setting personal boundaries, knowing who I am, and making sure I take care of my own needs, among others. It has been hard, but I am glad I invested my time in this journey.I am a well rounded guy who has a positive outlook on life. The two words that best describe me are "calculating" and "adventuresome". Well... I'll throw in another - I am very playful. I love going on adventures... learning... growing. I smile and laugh often. I enjoy doing lots of things, but care more about who I do it with than what I do. I am a Christian and my relationship with God is a central theme in my life - not to be misinterpreted as preaching to people, but more how I treat others and behave. I accept others for wherever they are on that spectrum, but really need someone to connect to on that level to make a relationship work well for me. I think my ideal first date is pretty simple - let's meet over coffee or dinner and just talk. Alternatively, if we share a common interest, like hiking, I'm totally open to trying something more nontraditional - like a hiking date. I'm pretty open and care more about who I spend my time with than what I do.

  • Marco

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Open to different things, dates or LTR. I\'m taking it easy. I think that i have many good qualities, but i will leave those for you to find out. If you’re curious about finding it you, write me.

  • Jamar

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    Man. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I am a down to earth, funny, intelligent, and passionate guy who doesn't take myself too seriously. I recently finished a doctoral degree and post-doc fellowship, which consumed much of my life for the past few years. With that behind me, I am more open to and ready for a serious relationship. I love what I do for a living. I am a psychologist who specializes in early childhood and family intervention. I am passionate about my work and find it incredibly gratifying. However, by no means does my work totally define me. In my free time I love to do yoga and run. My motivation for physical activity comes more from my investment in my physical and mental well-being than for my aesthetic appearance. I have practiced yoga three days a week for a few years now, and I run in the fall and winter (I love early morning runs when the air is crisp and the sun hasn't risen yet). I also feel like I've been away for a long weekend after a long day of skiing. I believe in taking care of myself - body and mind.As active and I can be at times, I also have a lazy, bumming-around side to me. I love sleeping in on Sundays, reading and drinking coffee in bed, going to movies, and watching football, The Voice, or Top Chef.Something good to know about me is that my family and friends are an important part of my life. I am a very loyal friend and person. I have solid relationships with my family and friends, and I love seeing my friends and family at least a couple of times a month for a long dinner out, with lots of laughter and good conversation.My family has definitely shaped the value I place on family.-fashioned: I'm looking for a partner who also values family, whatever that may look like. I like first date environments that can be brief if they need to be, like coffee - in the event that one person realizes early on the fit isn't there. But, I also like having the option to expand coffee into a long walk, to a restaurant for dinner possibly - in the event that there is a good fit, and conversation flows naturally.

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