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Arjun, 37
United States, Louisiana, Fort Polk

Offline, last seen Tue, 23 Dec 2025 10:40:26

About Me

"You Cannot Love Someone, Unless You Love Yourself First" Therefore, because I Love Myself, my current goal is to change this profile from "A Few Extra Pounds" to "Thin" AND ..............Hello Gentlemen... Serious, Open-Minded, HONEST NON-PLAYERS, Who Love to laugh and go with the flow! I'm going to share what essentials I'm seeking in a significant other. If you're able to accommodate me on this and feel we may be a match I’m interested in hearing from you. If you don’t, I wish you the best of luck on your search. I'm seeking an honest individual that is a phone person (I do NOT do constant texting) who can maintain mature and intelligent conversation and understands that I'm not in any rush. With that in mind, detailed communication is the key ingredient. Therefore, if you're not able to specifically and clearly state what you’re looking for, I can tell you this will not work. Be true to yourself. I'm looking to build on a friendship and if we are a true match, I'll consider long term. Truth be known, I am dating several people and will not engage in any sexual activities until I feel I found the one. I want someone that is open-minded and not only has a positive outlook on life (all-a-while realistic), but loves and embraces life. I will remove negative influences and role models from my life, without a second thought, without a second glance. If we have been stable, exclusive and committed for a while, I will have faith and continue to work on any indifference to unite as one pair. These are mandatory essentials and I will not reconsider.JUST TO ELABORATE A LITTLE BIT MORE.I am very much into being a hopeless romantic (good old fashion romance) and while I strongly believe in everyone being an individual......this is a quality I must have in my partner. Things like writing letters, ***, notes, strong and intelligent positive conversation and not only making but also constructing physical and emotional memories/keepsakes. Creating a strong bond between me and my monogamous/exclusive partner. The only reason I do not believe in constant texting, is because I believe texting has become an impersonal method utilized for conversation purposes. I will NOT do that. Using texting for something light such as: “I’ll call you shortly, Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening wishes, Thinking of you etc.” are GREAT merely because that falls under romance……….as far as I’m concerned. Essentially, I’m seeking the type of strong connection where I know I can go to my partner with anything and get a positive and supportive response, as he will get from me. Especially since it involves something that has to do with me and my life only (my personal choices and endeavors) and not ours and I am merely sharing it for conversation purposes.....getting to know each other. Coincidentally, this is another way of knowing our relationship is growing, when I feel comfortable coming to you and sharing. In my perspective, this is personal and should only be kept between me and the person I am dating. Therefore, I'll leave this area blank because in addition, it also gives us something more to talk about. *** NOTE:*** I will not agree to a first date until we have established steady communication via phone, common interests and a comfort level with each other at the very least.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Chinese Vietnamese Boxing
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