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Richard, 40

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***I have tried uploading photos on this site, both from my computer and phone. The photo on here is the ONLY one the site will display. *** Does anybody want a relationship anymore - you know, things like holding hands, cuddling, doing things (besides sex) together, or have all the a**holes out there destroyed it for those of us who want that? I'm on here for one reason - to find ONE special person to be in a relationship with. I'm not looking for a f**k buddy, ***, or endless e-mails and IM's. If that's what you want, please move to the next profile.A few words about me - I'm kind of shy, but once I get to know you, I open up. I'm quite witty and have a good sense of humor. I have no problem laughing at myself. I am known to be a smartass, but it's all in fun. I would never intentionally hurt someone. That being said, I am quite intelligent and can carry on a decent conversation about just about anything. I am not perfect, who in this world is? I do work out and yes, the time is measured in hours, not minutes per week. I'm just not religious about it. A lot of it has to do with my schedule. It would be nice to find someone that would enjoy going to the gym together though. Not in a competitive way, just things are more fun with someone else.I am more of a home body than a clubber or bar rat. I would much rather sit outside and listen to nature (even the geese on the pond behind my building that really need to get themselves a clock) than what passes for music these days. I like music, mostly older stuff from the 50's and 60's up until about early 90's. Yup, I even listen to country, but tend to lean more towards country-rock than the old twangy stuff. I like to cook, and actually think I'm ok at it. Well, at least I haven't poisoned myself yet and if I cook for you, you'll have to sign a waiver of liability before we eat (my attorney made me put that in). Believe it or not, I like doing housework. Well, almost all house work. I hate dusting as my black and glass furniture will attest too (what was I thinking?). I would gladly help with the housework, even doing the dishes.I am a romantic at heart. I love candles and burn them quite often, even if it's just me around. (Who am I kidding, my animal 'kids' couldn't care less about them) Buying flowers or gifts for no reason is important to me. I like to let you know that I'm thinking about you. I am very affectionate and not afraid to show it. I am kind and don't like violence of any kind. I am a good listener and try to help those around me in anyway I can, even if it's just a shoulder to cry on. I don't have any human children, just my 2 cats and my bird. Yes, cats and birds can live together, you just have to have a bird that's bigger than the cats. I like to cuddle up on the couch and watch a good movie over most TV shows on now. I don't care too much for reality TV. I don't really watch a lot of tv, but when I do, it's usually some science related stuff (History, Science or Discovery Channels). I like All seasons for different reasons. I like the fall because the leaves are changing and it's colorful. I like the summer because that's the best time to do outdoor things like swimming or fishing. I like spring because you see the first color after all the white (well, more accurately mud around here) after winter and thunderstorms. I love thunderstorms! I like winter because I'm one of the few people that live in Chicagoland that actually likes snow and doesn't mind the cold. I like to take walks, but again, they are better with someone. I like holding hands, cuddling and kissing, so you must like these things as well.As I stated above, I am not perfect. I do not have the perfect abs or the perfect body, but if you want someone who will treat you right, never put you down, or ***, and will be there to support you no matter what, look no further. You'll find I'm everything I've said I am and more, but you have to invest the time to get to know me. Open for anything - let's meet for coffee or a drink and take it from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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