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About Me

Artist ISO medium, Romantic, Lover, Traveler. (Yes, I have a lot to say.. hit me up even if you don't! :-) I'm a creative sort, inspired by music and everyday life. I have a thing for old worn architectural elements. I look for beauty in places where its not so obvious and try to bring it out and show it off. Photography is something I play with, I enjoy it, but its not a career for me...its a great way for me to share what I see with other people. I love hiking, playing frolf (disc golf), I love kayaking...but I don't currently own one so its difficult to pursue that one. I am a plant enthusiast, I have many plants which I enjoy. If I had a yard I would have gardens for both food and flowers! There is so much to say, these profiles are not easy for me to fill out because I am always wanting to say more, or less, or just change it around and say something different. Take everything here with a grain of salt, but also take it somewhat seriously. There is a lot of info I have not disclosed as I do not wish to be that open about somethings up front; they don't pertain to our ability to meet each other and begin to build a relationship. Relationships come in all shapes and sizes, people never simply fit into one box or another. I consider my self very open to possibilities, although if you are under 25, I doubt we will work out. Additionally if you are over 35, I don't see us spending 50 years together and THAT is one the most important things to me. I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. If you are over 35 and contact me, we could become friends, but if you are interested in dating and romance I will want to know about your families lifespan history...seriously bring documents proving longevity to the first date ;-)~I want to get a CDL and go over the road, at least for awhile..it would be great to find a partner who would want to do the same thing. I am working towards that end. In a few years I would like to commit to getting a degree, not sure what exactly, perhaps psychology. Maybe I'll be a therapist. haha! I want to live in many different cities, first in the US and South America. I would at least like to see Europe, not sure I ever want to live there, but perhaps a year or 2 in a few different places. I'm a feeler and a healer. I am deeply intuitive and perceptive. I feel what you feel; I'm very sensitive in that way. I love that I get to be alive! It feels so good to be part of existence and to be aware of that. The longer I am here, the more I think we are all just here to help each other, to teach each other, and to ultimately bring joy into peoples hearts. That's what makes me unique. I want to live my life in a way which is uplifting for myself and the people around me. My over all taste in music varies and it would be hard for me to say I don't like any...except I don't care for live acoustic and rock...I know, some people look at me funny when I tell them I don't like live music. I don't why, but generally speaking I don't want to go to a concert or catch a live band. HOWEVER!, Jazz or electronic are different! I would go out to place where there is a jazz band or a club spinning records, especially if I know and like the dj. Inspite of my love for club music and Jazz clubs, I am not the type to go out every weekend, or even once a month. I like being at home too, but I like a balance, and enjoy going out to restaurants, or having people over, or going to friends and families places to share meals! So you could say I am quiet and low key, but I like a lot of variety! Lets do something we will never forget! I would say, read this section, but I know casual is what works best! I don't expect a fairy tale date, nor do I want a fairy tale wedding :-)I might be overdoing this, but I am actually a little annoyed most guys don't have more to say. I can't stand seeing 'lets get drinks or coffee, and see where it goes' Put some effort in!!! Get into your imagination! go back to your childhood dreams of what finding the love of your life would be like! It doesn't all have to be real, or realistic, it doesn't even have to happen, but at least have enough guts to put yourself out there! I know so many of us have been hurt, I fell in love with a man I thought I would spend 'forever' with. I know I am okay, I'm great actually! I still want to be sensitive, and I want your sensitivity too. How will I ever know if I want to go out with you if I don't know what you want? Maybe it will turn out to be drinks or coffee, but find a way to say it so it sounds like its the whole world. I was thinking this morning about how I get up on Saturdays and make a nice breakfast. I do it because it makes me happy. It reminds me of when my Mom would make cinnamon rolls on Saturdays and I guess I continue the tradition. My point is that its something simple, but it means the whole world to me! I want you to romance me. I'll romance you back ;-) I'm intelligent, sophisticated, able to hold a conversation about many topics, although sometimes I can be a little shy at first but generally I'm outgoing. Although I am putting a lot out there and into this, I want you to know our first date could be really quiet and low key. Just remember, I want to share a meal and a bottle of wine...maybe some good beer if you're not a wine kind of guy. Those of you who 'don't drink', sorry, this is where you find out we will never be a match. I don't drink all the time, actually its only about a couple times a month, its just important to me that we can share a bottle of wine together or with friends some times. NO 12 STEP PROGRAM PEOPLE!! I'm not putting up with your issues. I am a bit traditional, I want to go out to a restaurant, drink wine, and celebrate life! Whether we go to the beach, make a day of hiking, or find something neither of us have ever done; I want to be thrilled, scared, I want to giggle, I want share emotional stories of triumph and conviction, I want to laugh and smile, I want to play and joke. If we are stilling grinning ear to ear by dinner, you have won a second date! We should be spontaneous...I wouldn't be surprised if our first date lasts a week and we find ourselves driving across the country just because. I'm not saying that has to happen, but I am open

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Antuan

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    I am a highly ambitious guy with a masculine demeanor. I enjoy my work, sports and traveling. Not on here to find hook ups, that is the last thing I desire. Been fortunate to have three great long term relationships, sadly two ended with cheating bf's and one was young love. I wrote this to make it simple though:I am honest, I am caringI am happy, I am full of lifeI am sincere, I am positive I am an old soul, I am thoughtful I am relaxed, I am easy-goingI am clever, I am a listenerI am level headed, I am stable I am intelligent, I am funI am spontaneous, I am responsible I am confident, I am at peace I live life to the fullest because life is exactly what you make of it. A dinner date downtown is ideal with a walk along the river and the stone arch bridge up through gold medal park. Otherwise, hitting up a sporting event followed by a night cuddling up on the couch is fine by me as well. The best dates just happen, not everything needs a plan. I love spontaneity..just not surprises.

  • Ridley

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    Young, educated professional who enjoys life and new adventures. I'm fairly easy going and tend not to take things too seriously. I work as an HR Manager for an international consulting firm and am finishing up my master's degree in May. When I'm not busy with that I like to travel, spend time with my nieces and nephews, and explore new places.Looking to meet new people who have a similar passion for life and have an idea of what they want out of it. If you are adventurous, outgoing, can hold an intelligent conversation, and aren't afraid to be goofy, hit me up. Good conversation is key on the first date, so anything that facilitates that is usually good in my book.Start off with coffee or drinks. If that goes well, maybe a bite to eat, going to an event, or bumming around town (some kind of shared experience).

  • Marquis

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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    Hi guys,I really hate these things, its so hard to explain my personality with a bunch of words on a page....but I'll give it a shotThe first thing I will say is that I am an animal lover, first and foremost. I believe animals are in equal standing with humans. Elephants and Dolphins have intelligence that matches humans, why can't other animals too? If you believe that animals are without a soul, or unable to understand us because they are "just animals" stop reading now.I love music, it is a force that transcends anything, language, race, religion, and all of that other stuff, if you only have one common bond with another human being, it is probably music. I respect all types of music. A person can love Mozart and Brittany Spears. I love reading. Whether it be a book, or an interesting blog, or a great article, I believe it all has some form of Knowledge, and Knowledge is power.I think intelligence and education is important.;don't care" about grammar, or spelling, or things of that manner, I have no time for you. I am not saying you have to be an English teacher, but at least make an effort. I do not believe in violence, at all. It does not solve a damn thing, it only spawns more violence. If you can not solve a problem like a mature, civilized adult, then honestly, I don't want to know you. To me, it means that you think you have something to "prove", when in actuality, non-violence has actually proven something on its own. Being a man isn't about how good you are at throwing a punch, its about when knowing not to.I also believe in good manners. The words "please" and 'thank you" should not be reserved for formal settings. Also, good manners go beyond please and thank you; if you don't know how to hold a door for someone, or knowing that talking with your mouth full is not endearing, or that in a place like a church, or a movie theater, or a library, you don't hold an in depth conversation, then you have never been taught what real manners are. I am not a religious person, but I do believe in having a belief system. Having a belief system helps us navigate through our every day life, morals, and values, and self respect are important, and sharing a life with someone means having at least similar beliefs. Sex is good, but if there is no intimacy, or passion, then there really isn't a point. I live to travel, and experience new things. Being stagnant and staying in the same place all the time, makes for a very dull life. Nature is beautiful, there is nothing better than laying in an open field, and staring up at the stars having an intimate conversation.I adore my family, but it is not a subject that I plan to talk about on the first date, I want you to know ME first, they will come in time. I have no tolerance for drama, I am too old and too mature for it, and I don't want it in my life. I also have no tolerance for prejudice or hate of any kind, I do not pass judgement of any kind on any one for any reason, I live my life the way I see fit, and I let others live theirs too. Katherine Hepburn put it the best "No apologies, no explanations". Also, I don't do the "needy" thing. If there is no trust, there is no relationship. If you expect to be texting or be together every single waking moment of the day, then please stop reading now and move on. I am a grown up, I behave like a grown up, and I expect the same from you. I am also out and proud. It has taken me a long time, and really hard work to get where I am, I can not be with someone who is "closeted" or afraid of showing their love. If I am going to be in a relationship, I want to be able to hold your hand, or kiss you, or cuddle you, even in public. I want to be able to meet your family, and introduce you to mine. If you are still going through the struggle, I can respect that, I have been there, but I have moved past it in my life. It goes back to the no drama thing. So, this is a little bit of me, I have plenty more to say, but I am sure you are as tired of reading as I am of typing, if there is anything else you want to know, don't be afraid to ask...and on that note, if you are going to send me a message, please make sure it contains more than "hi", tell me something interesting. Hmm, a first date......maybe dinner, to start off, but you really can't get to know someone while gnawing on a half masticated animal. After dinner maybe we could just go for a walk or a drive, maybe find a quiet spot where we can start to get to know one another.

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