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Artist ISO medium, Romantic, Lover, Traveler. (Yes, I have a lot to say.. hit me up even if you don't! :-) I'm a creative sort, inspired by music and everyday life. I have a thing for old worn architectural elements. I look for beauty in places where its not so obvious and try to bring it out and show it off. Photography is something I play with, I enjoy it, but its not a career for me...its a great way for me to share what I see with other people. I love hiking, playing frolf (disc golf), I love kayaking...but I don't currently own one so its difficult to pursue that one. I am a plant enthusiast, I have many plants which I enjoy. If I had a yard I would have gardens for both food and flowers! There is so much to say, these profiles are not easy for me to fill out because I am always wanting to say more, or less, or just change it around and say something different. Take everything here with a grain of salt, but also take it somewhat seriously. There is a lot of info I have not disclosed as I do not wish to be that open about somethings up front; they don't pertain to our ability to meet each other and begin to build a relationship. Relationships come in all shapes and sizes, people never simply fit into one box or another. I consider my self very open to possibilities, although if you are under 25, I doubt we will work out. Additionally if you are over 35, I don't see us spending 50 years together and THAT is one the most important things to me. I want to spend the rest of my life with someone. If you are over 35 and contact me, we could become friends, but if you are interested in dating and romance I will want to know about your families lifespan history...seriously bring documents proving longevity to the first date ;-)~I want to get a CDL and go over the road, at least for awhile..it would be great to find a partner who would want to do the same thing. I am working towards that end. In a few years I would like to commit to getting a degree, not sure what exactly, perhaps psychology. Maybe I'll be a therapist. haha! I want to live in many different cities, first in the US and South America. I would at least like to see Europe, not sure I ever want to live there, but perhaps a year or 2 in a few different places. I'm a feeler and a healer. I am deeply intuitive and perceptive. I feel what you feel; I'm very sensitive in that way. I love that I get to be alive! It feels so good to be part of existence and to be aware of that. The longer I am here, the more I think we are all just here to help each other, to teach each other, and to ultimately bring joy into peoples hearts. That's what makes me unique. I want to live my life in a way which is uplifting for myself and the people around me. My over all taste in music varies and it would be hard for me to say I don't like any...except I don't care for live acoustic and rock...I know, some people look at me funny when I tell them I don't like live music. I don't why, but generally speaking I don't want to go to a concert or catch a live band. HOWEVER!, Jazz or electronic are different! I would go out to place where there is a jazz band or a club spinning records, especially if I know and like the dj. Inspite of my love for club music and Jazz clubs, I am not the type to go out every weekend, or even once a month. I like being at home too, but I like a balance, and enjoy going out to restaurants, or having people over, or going to friends and families places to share meals! So you could say I am quiet and low key, but I like a lot of variety! Lets do something we will never forget! I would say, read this section, but I know casual is what works best! I don't expect a fairy tale date, nor do I want a fairy tale wedding :-)I might be overdoing this, but I am actually a little annoyed most guys don't have more to say. I can't stand seeing 'lets get drinks or coffee, and see where it goes' Put some effort in!!! Get into your imagination! go back to your childhood dreams of what finding the love of your life would be like! It doesn't all have to be real, or realistic, it doesn't even have to happen, but at least have enough guts to put yourself out there! I know so many of us have been hurt, I fell in love with a man I thought I would spend 'forever' with. I know I am okay, I'm great actually! I still want to be sensitive, and I want your sensitivity too. How will I ever know if I want to go out with you if I don't know what you want? Maybe it will turn out to be drinks or coffee, but find a way to say it so it sounds like its the whole world. I was thinking this morning about how I get up on Saturdays and make a nice breakfast. I do it because it makes me happy. It reminds me of when my Mom would make cinnamon rolls on Saturdays and I guess I continue the tradition. My point is that its something simple, but it means the whole world to me! I want you to romance me. I'll romance you back ;-) I'm intelligent, sophisticated, able to hold a conversation about many topics, although sometimes I can be a little shy at first but generally I'm outgoing. Although I am putting a lot out there and into this, I want you to know our first date could be really quiet and low key. Just remember, I want to share a meal and a bottle of wine...maybe some good beer if you're not a wine kind of guy. Those of you who 'don't drink', sorry, this is where you find out we will never be a match. I don't drink all the time, actually its only about a couple times a month, its just important to me that we can share a bottle of wine together or with friends some times. NO 12 STEP PROGRAM PEOPLE!! I'm not putting up with your issues. I am a bit traditional, I want to go out to a restaurant, drink wine, and celebrate life! Whether we go to the beach, make a day of hiking, or find something neither of us have ever done; I want to be thrilled, scared, I want to giggle, I want share emotional stories of triumph and conviction, I want to laugh and smile, I want to play and joke. If we are stilling grinning ear to ear by dinner, you have won a second date! We should be spontaneous...I wouldn't be surprised if our first date lasts a week and we find ourselves driving across the country just because. I'm not saying that has to happen, but I am open

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Algernon

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    Man. 28 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 25-35

    Hey what's up! I usually delete it after finding nothing on here, but in a small town sites like this are the only way to meet people.. I eat, sleep, and breath health and fitness. My hobbies are the gym and crossfit competitors when possible.. I love animals and have a GREAT circle of friends.. I don't see myself getting in a relationship soon, but maybe somebody will prove me wrong.. I live alone with my 2 dogs and have a very chill life Monday through Friday. I usually find something fun to get into on Saturday.if you do not have the desire to work out or be healthy, you need not apply. I'm not saying you have to be in tip top shape, but you must at least want to be. I'm known for my loyalty and sense of humor.. If you're interested in learning more, hit me up!PS - if I already know you, there is a 99 percent chance I'm not interested in you in a romantic manner. No hard feelings!

  • Jedidiah

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    Man. 26 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 23-33

    I'm looking for friends and guys to possibly date. If I had some people I already know when I move there, that would be super cool.I'm very social, passionate, easy going and extremely honest and straightforward. A friend once described me as a party looking for a place to happen.I've been ballroom dancing for 8 years, am a disaster trained responder, am studying Unmanned Aerial Vehicles and can pretty much fix anything.I am a very emotional being, am extremely affectionate and love to experience life to its fullest. I jump in with both feet right off the bat which sometimes gets me in trouble. I'm not really afraid or that insecure about much so I like to just go for it.Looking for guys that are outdoorsy, athletic, masculine, social, passionate, honest, open and confident. As a first date I would love to hangout all day. Then walking around talking, getting some ice cream, doing some ridiculously fun activites and maybe seeing some sights. As the day got later dinner would be easygoing but unique, preferably with tiki torches on an outdoor deck at sunset. Followed by a live band, dancing and some fruity alcoholic beverage. Then off to the beach for a bonfire and a blanket to gaze at the stars. That would be a very ideal first date... really a fantastic date in general, but a great way to get to know someone in many facets over a long period of time. Go big or go home right? :-)

  • Demetrius

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    Man. 30 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 27-37

    I'm a really friendly person that's looking for someone special to share the next chapter of my life with. I tend to be a bit shy at first, but who isn't? I have a great circle of friends; most of which I've known for many many years. I have a smaller family, and am very close with my mom. For most of my career I've been in banking, and went to skool for Accounting. I finally decided that banking made me want to rip my hair out, so I went for a change. I know have a bit of a unique job which is very flexible. I really like having the ability to travel, sleep in, or not have to deal with countless phone calls when I'm not there. I'm also into real-estate, and have some dealings in it on the side. Growing up I always wanted to be a realtor, but realized I'm not digging the idea of clients dragging me into bank owned homes with no heat in the middle of January at midnight on any given Sunday. Aside from travel/weekend trips, I like going out and having drinks with friends, shooting pool, going out to dinner, kayaking, fishing and hiking. I love Chinese/Thai food, and hate mornings. I'm perfectly content sitting here typing this at 2am. Some may say that I sleep the day away - I feel they sleep away the night :-) I drive fast but move slow, and i'm probably running about 15 minutes late to wherever I'm supposed to be. Other than that, I'm a pretty considerate person, and looking for the same in someone else. I don't want to be smothered, unless I wanna smother you back. I think we sometimes hide behind technology too much. I don't want to message back and forth 60 times, to then move on to ***, and then three weeks later start texting. After a week of that, it usually turns out that you've flaked, and dropped off the planet. If we click, I'm down to let you buy me dinner...or maybe a pony. Just kidding. Being gay makes for an odd dating experience sometimes. Who pays for dinner? The guy? Lol...who drives? THE GUY? That's weird. I'm down for something traditional like dinner, or something different. For some reason I usually end up planning the date, but like it when the (other) guy makes the plans. Unless he picks a restaurant I don't like! I think it's nice to first meet somewhere casual to see if there's some vibe. It's no fun realizing that it isn't gonna go anywhere but the waiter JUST dropped off the appetizers. I don't like to see movies during a first date. Who's bright idea was it to go sit next to someone in the dark, and not converse for two hours? So, to sum it up....I'm down for just about anything....except a movie :-)

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