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Evon, 47

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About Me

I've never signed up to an online dating site, never felt it was for me...am still not convinced it is, BUT I have seen friends meet really good quality people on here so I've decided to give it a try. So here goes....wish me luck!! I'm a pretty uncomplicated woman. Like to keep things light and stress free. Love to laugh, am quick witted, and have been told I have a good sense of humor. I am about peace of mind above all else and am quite comfortable being by myself enjoying the company of family and friends if that's what is required to attain it. However, I am confident it is possible to find the right person whose personality compliments mine and vice verse...which brings me to this :)I never really explored the idea of "hobbies", which now that I am being asked to "talk about them" leads me to acknowledge I don't have any (not sure if that's good or bad). I do have a love for Live music and have many friends who are musicians and do my best to support them and local music. My work is important to me. I love what I do. I believe in working smart not hard so I do arrange my schedule to have ample time off. Downtime is very important to me and it's vital that the man I spend time with has a healthy balance of work, family, and recreational time. I firmly believe it is possible to be a successful professional without being a workaholic.My youngest just turned 18 yrs old and is well on her way to being an independent young woman. So I am thrilled to be at a point in my life where I can be spontaneous when the mood strikes. I enjoy being able to pick up and go with little to no pre planning and it's this type of lifestyle I look forward to sharing with the right person.I've recently heard a term that I think suits me perfectly. I am a bona fide "Lazy Dater" and I totally own it! Meaning, I like to be able to meet for a drink after work, or a quick meal WITHOUT having to plan a day trip around it. So, I'm keeping my "area of exploration" down to preferably 30 mins drive time between "us". It's hard enough these days finding the time to do the things we HAVE to do let alone try to find the time to do the things we WANT to do.I do not date outside of my race. Nothing personal, I hope you understand. Nor do I date married men, and, yes, I consider Seperated to STILL be married. Something casual, stress free, with no expectations. I believe strongly in the physical/chemical attraction between people. Although I recognize the importance of an intellectual connection and it is VERY important to me, it is naive to believe some type of physical attraction is unimportant. So, coffee, lunch, maybe a drink after work, all seem like good starts to me after getting to know a little bit about each other first.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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