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Pamila, 47
United States, Idaho, Sandpoint

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About Me

After a slight hiatus from meetville, I'm back and committed to finding that special someone... I've met my fair share of questionable fish.... really looking for the one with integrity. Honesty is HUGE for me, so if that's not you, best to keep moving on. I am very grounded and stable... mother of ***year old boy, whom I absolute love and is the center of my world..now that he is a busy teenager, its time for me to focus on some fun and adult conversation. Not to mention he's actually dating now and I'm not liking the Friday night Starbucks scene while I'm waiting for him. LOL! I've been told I have a great sense of humor and am a great listener.... I'm not in to drama and don't do well with insecure people... too old for that now! Ready to move on to the next phase, knowing exactly what I want and what I don't. Always up for happy hour and wine tastings and trying new things.I'm looking for a man that is confident and secure with himself. I am involved in alot of activities and am looking for someone who is also very involved. I'm not interested in giving up the activities that I love, nor would I ask a man to give up the activities he loves. Obviously the goal would be to find things to do together, but we won't always love doing the same things. I'm also not looking for the "stalker"....I don't need to talk to you every hour and you shouldn't need to talk to me every hour... we are both grown ups with busy lives and should respect and understand that about each other. That being said, good communication is still the foundation of a good relationship so if this is a weakness, we're probably not a good match. My future fish should also love God and be family oriented as these are the 2 most important things in my life. I come from a very stable and close family and looking for someone that is also close to their family. If you don't speak to most of your relatives, not a good fit. I'm not about material things, but at our age, a fish should be financially sound enough to enjoy life.....The right fish will also be someone that takes care of himself... I still workout regularly and enjoy hiking, backpacking, golf, boating and pretty much any outside activity. Finally, if you are under 38 years old, please don't bother sending a message, we will not be compatible. Thanks! Let's make it simple..... coffee or lunch!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

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