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Pamila, 47

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About Me

After a slight hiatus from meetville, I'm back and committed to finding that special someone... I've met my fair share of questionable fish.... really looking for the one with integrity. Honesty is HUGE for me, so if that's not you, best to keep moving on. I am very grounded and stable... mother of ***year old boy, whom I absolute love and is the center of my world..now that he is a busy teenager, its time for me to focus on some fun and adult conversation. Not to mention he's actually dating now and I'm not liking the Friday night Starbucks scene while I'm waiting for him. LOL! I've been told I have a great sense of humor and am a great listener.... I'm not in to drama and don't do well with insecure people... too old for that now! Ready to move on to the next phase, knowing exactly what I want and what I don't. Always up for happy hour and wine tastings and trying new things.I'm looking for a man that is confident and secure with himself. I am involved in alot of activities and am looking for someone who is also very involved. I'm not interested in giving up the activities that I love, nor would I ask a man to give up the activities he loves. Obviously the goal would be to find things to do together, but we won't always love doing the same things. I'm also not looking for the "stalker"....I don't need to talk to you every hour and you shouldn't need to talk to me every hour... we are both grown ups with busy lives and should respect and understand that about each other. That being said, good communication is still the foundation of a good relationship so if this is a weakness, we're probably not a good match. My future fish should also love God and be family oriented as these are the 2 most important things in my life. I come from a very stable and close family and looking for someone that is also close to their family. If you don't speak to most of your relatives, not a good fit. I'm not about material things, but at our age, a fish should be financially sound enough to enjoy life.....The right fish will also be someone that takes care of himself... I still workout regularly and enjoy hiking, backpacking, golf, boating and pretty much any outside activity. Finally, if you are under 38 years old, please don't bother sending a message, we will not be compatible. Thanks! Let's make it simple..... coffee or lunch!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Allie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm looking for the man whose smile brightens my day :) Whose laugh cheers me continually and whose Faith in God inspires me to be a better person. One whose character never waivers, and honesty and friendship I value endlessly. I have been widowed for about 10 years... the ocean and landscape are beautiful (and no tornados!!! ;) I have a fun loving personality. I love people and believe there is good in everyone and that many times it's up to us to bring it out in them. I'm comfortable in just about any setting and with just about anyone (I can hold my own:). I have a great sense of humor and do believe laughter Is the best medicine!!! We should all laugh and smile More! :)I'm looking for a man with strength of the heart, mind and soul. (I think that about covers it;) When you're with someone who brings out the best in you, and you in him, you know you've found someone special. I believe in Romance ... it's the wind in the sail!! You would be Available, fun, kind, Intelligent, Honest and have a great sense of humor. You would enjoy moonlight walks on the beach (why...doesn't everyone put that?? :), Great conversation, travel, thunderstorms (aren't they amazing), a good concert, theater, a game (Go Mets!! ..orrr is that Yankees?? :) or just hanging out doin' nothing in particular (and these are just a few), but these things are only as special as who you share them with. I want a co-conspirator with whom to navigate and share in this next part of the journey!Taken from another profile.............;Never love anyone who treats you like you're ordinary", . Coffee (or latte:) ... something simple.. We'll take it from there!WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. (It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.)

  • Petunia

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello, I would like to meet someone who has traditional values yet the ability to think way out of the box. I have always blended both. I love cooking and staying home and being with a special person. I equally have an urge to go to new and undiscovered places. I consider myself to be intelligent and open minded. I enjoy learning more about myself and how to experience my spirituality fully. I also enjoy things that are analytical. There are many great philosophers and scientists that are brilliant who combine the spiritual and the science such as e.g. Gregg Braden, Deepak Chopra, Dr. Christian Northrup, Dr. The person whom i would like to meet will fully understand that we are both. I appreciate the simple things in life albiet complex in nature and I may possibly be somewhat of a contradiction. However, i embrace it all and know who i am and know what i want from life. I love to cook a meal, (new or traditional), have a relaxing drink and then talk through the night. This is how i choose to live. I am very spiritual and help others by guiding them so please understand this. If you are referring to sex and over complimentary in that department do not bother contacting me as you will be wasting both our time. Be respectful always! Please do not refer to me as honey, etc. common "really"?I love romance, deep conversation, spontaneity, and fun. I am a thinker and so appreciate someone who both compliments that and also like the earthy and fiery aspects of life. One who loves adventure. I appreciate someone who is fun-loving on their off time and dedicated to their profession. Very much enjoy new ways of healing e.g. crystal bowls, Angel groups, physics, self-help, and hard core science. I love it all! I would also like to humbly add that if you are incapable of intimacy, and that is your truth, please be real. If you have a million girlfriends you strewn along so that you never have to have intimacy with one woman, do you really think that an educated, self-actualized woman is not going to pick that up lol! Good luck regardless. Hey, we are all learning and there is a learning curve i know. I can laugh at myself because i honor myself. I appreciate the same in others.Please be self introspective and open minded. We are here to grow after all. I have a love to celebrate life and to think about life at the same time. Maybe our paths will cross. I would like to add that i did want to respond to a few people but when looked to their profile they were gone. So,....i tried and good luck. One must take each day at a time you know. If you do not have a picture please don't contact me. Be real!Happy New Year! ***The first date could be anywhere. I enjoy many varied foods e.g. Indian, Middle Eastern, Italian, etc.If i do watch television it will usually be the history channel or food network.I have become attached to food network i must admit lol!

  • Precious

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I've tried this once before and it was fun... so - I'm fishing again... never know what is out there until you take a dive. I love to hike and be outdoors. I do not have any pets but love animals and would love to own a dog or three. I have decided, after long dreading the term 'Bucket List' that i have one... and here it is:I would like to Tandem (Just done that!), Zip Line and possibly find a man who still wears a watch, preferably one that is not digital and a man that is genuine.I like to listen to music: most types from rock to county... The type of books i enjoy are similar to my taste in movies - funny and or action thrillers.I have an opinion so if you ask me what i would like to do please don't expect me to say - I dunno know ... what do you wanna do...and - I have a question:Why is it that members of the male species seem to find so appealing about taking a picture of themselves while in the drivers seat of their car? On a first date i might like to walk around a park, enjoy a nice cup of coffee, tea or soda or share some appetizers and laughs and not just send a text back and forth.

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