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Pamila, 47
United States, Idaho, Sandpoint

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About Me

After a slight hiatus from meetville, I'm back and committed to finding that special someone... I've met my fair share of questionable fish.... really looking for the one with integrity. Honesty is HUGE for me, so if that's not you, best to keep moving on. I am very grounded and stable... mother of ***year old boy, whom I absolute love and is the center of my world..now that he is a busy teenager, its time for me to focus on some fun and adult conversation. Not to mention he's actually dating now and I'm not liking the Friday night Starbucks scene while I'm waiting for him. LOL! I've been told I have a great sense of humor and am a great listener.... I'm not in to drama and don't do well with insecure people... too old for that now! Ready to move on to the next phase, knowing exactly what I want and what I don't. Always up for happy hour and wine tastings and trying new things.I'm looking for a man that is confident and secure with himself. I am involved in alot of activities and am looking for someone who is also very involved. I'm not interested in giving up the activities that I love, nor would I ask a man to give up the activities he loves. Obviously the goal would be to find things to do together, but we won't always love doing the same things. I'm also not looking for the "stalker"....I don't need to talk to you every hour and you shouldn't need to talk to me every hour... we are both grown ups with busy lives and should respect and understand that about each other. That being said, good communication is still the foundation of a good relationship so if this is a weakness, we're probably not a good match. My future fish should also love God and be family oriented as these are the 2 most important things in my life. I come from a very stable and close family and looking for someone that is also close to their family. If you don't speak to most of your relatives, not a good fit. I'm not about material things, but at our age, a fish should be financially sound enough to enjoy life.....The right fish will also be someone that takes care of himself... I still workout regularly and enjoy hiking, backpacking, golf, boating and pretty much any outside activity. Finally, if you are under 38 years old, please don't bother sending a message, we will not be compatible. Thanks! Let's make it simple..... coffee or lunch!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Gaila from Sandpoint | Woman | 47 years old | Capricorn
    Gaila

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ehhh......What's Up Dude?I have no children, no secret boyfriends, no psycho ex's. I come completely drama and baggage free. I love to laugh and joke around so someone with a sense of humor is definitely what I'm looking for, I can get a bit goofy sometimes! I'm a very easygoing person so whatever we did I'm sure we would have fun. WARNING....I do burp a lot....BUUURRRP....pardon me! There is a good probability that I may sometimes act silly and immature......my belief is you only live once!"Growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional".I LOVE music, preferably rock and alternative, some 80's, 90's hair bands, some metal...it varies depending on my mood. But I can’t stand country music. I love my iPod Touch....I know it sounds silly but I do! I did play the guitar years ago and wish I would have kept playing.....especially by Eddie Van Halen! I love going to NYC whenever I can there's always something to do there. I also love long passionate kissing, so you must be a great kisser. I believe in living life to the fullest and enjoying every day."We do not remember the days, we remember the moments."I've been told that I'm funny, cute, sexy, affectionate, smart and fun to be with. Also been told I have cute toes (seems that's a good thing). The only absolute necessity you should have is a SENSE OF HUMOR!! (And good looks wouldn't hurt either) Besides that just be yourself and be honest....no playing games!I am NOT looking for perfection, only the perfect man for me.I also should warn you that I love fast cars=========Catch me if you can==========I am looking for someone that likes to have fun and a great sense of humor is a MUST because I like to goof around with people a lot. I usually have my family and friends laughing most of the time.I LOVE how a man looks in a pair of jeans, I think that is definitely sexier than a suit and tie!You MUST love dogs! I lost my little boy, a Bichon, who was almost 16 years old. My life will never be the same without him...I miss him so much. I'm still not ready to get another dog since losing my little guy...maybe someday.If you like doing anything fun and spontaneous, it could be going to a concert, going for a drive with no destination, having fun at an amusement park or arcade, or riding a rollercoaster ten times in a row....that's fun!! You should be a kid at heart because age is only a number and I'll never lose the kid inside of me no matter how old I get. Don't take life so seriously have fun, laugh and enjoy each day the best you can. Be easygoing, confident and comfortable with yourself. Being somewhat intelligent, articulate, and attractive are great qualities that I also look for in someone. If your idea of fun at the beach is laying in the sun baking all day than I'm not the girl for you. I haven't "tanned" in the sun in over 15 years. No sun = No wrinkles. There must be honesty, trust and most of all communication. Be able to have some give and take in a relationship and never take the other person for granted. There also must be chemistry between us, not just on the physical level but also a chemistry between our minds as well."What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."**If your profile is misspelled, has improper grammar, written in all lower case letters or consists of only two sentences than I will not reply to you. If you can't take the time to write a thorough profile than you're not too serious about meeting someone. **Please have a picture if you contact me (and not one of you shirtless in a bathroom mirror). No picture, no response.And please have hair on your head.....I like to run my fingers through some hair. ***NO BALDIES AND NO SMOKERS*********Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Plentyoffish.com website and all services offered by Plenty of fish (POF) do not have my permission to use any of the information or pictures in my current or future profile to use or share with affiliates for any purpose. If you've actually taken the time to read my profile and you share my affinity for Kisses Slow and Cars Fast then send me a message.

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  • Ardith from Sandpoint | Woman | 49 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Ok hate to start out a profile like this but seems to be necessary ....please I beg you but if you are married,not legally separated do not contact me.Yes,you are a player.ok then...I enjoy, yes I have to say it ... walking on the beach but I'm looking for sharks teeth or just sitting there watching the waves. I know everyone says it but large masses of water gives off energy.Nature's greatest way to show it. I love taking pictures of about anything. I find almost anything interesting through a lense.Want to change careers if possible. I like almost any type of music but rap got to go! Classic rock to classical. I love to laugh and I do crack myself up. I am quirky.I can cook.I am going to try and get.I am a giver but in all things it needs to be equal.so.... can you make me laugh,smile? I am not in a fantasy world;I realize and not wanted the knight in shining armor.Dents, scratches are more realistic.Means you are real and not afraid to get involved.By the way...I am logged in on a phone app.does not mean I am on here fishing.Seems people might think that is all I do.Sorry.I work and do have a life.Would love to hear from you just nibble on the line...catcha later...I know tDating now a days seems trickier. I have met players,friends,crazies,users,men drama queens.In saying that each time you meet or just text it's just apart of the quest to find your match. alrighty then smile!!! :-P hope your quest or fishing will be a success.This has become quite a quest. :-} oh and since this is mobile...it says I'm online all the time. I'm not.!!! Leave me a message I will answer. A first date for me could be a ghost walking tour at night.I always wanted to do that or a late dinner.Anything where we can talk and get to know each other.Tell me some jokes that I will probably not get.Please just dont be married.One surprise that is not fun to receive!!!

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  • Stefani from Sandpoint | Woman | 47 years old | Capricorn
    Stefani

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am the girl for someone who is: laid back, easy going in the sense that you can truly enjoy the simplest things in life, you are nice just because it is a choice to smile *** frown at others. It is easy to judge others and look down on them, but sometimes there is more to the situation then meets the eye. I am new to dating and find I am learning new things about myself as I go along. Basically, I am calm, relaxed, trustworthy, intelligent, and quiet. Family is important to me. I enjoy being home, doing art, listening to music. I love going to the shore, going to MUSEUMS, movies, laughing, learning new things. I have two wonderful children and don't want any more of my own.I am interested in meeting someone trusting and fun, with whom there is a mutual connection where an easy going relationship can grow. I want the best guy in the whole world, but I am slow to meet up. I get shy and like to take my time to chat to see if we even have enough in common to converse. Art is one of the biggest parts of my life. I am interested in different things for a first date. I love Sushi and Music. A first date can also be a casual cup of coffee to see if we like each other enough for a second date. Chemistry is very important it is either there or it isn't there and shouldn't be forced. I prefer to just take things slow and relaxed.

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