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Shante, 46

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About Me

Ok here it goes I am a swf looking for a s,d,wm who is local and between the age of 41 to 51. Someone who loves his family and it would be nice if you have kids. I am looking for someone loyal, passionate, trustworthy and someone who doesnt drink alot and doesnt do drugs. I would love to find a man that is ready for a relationship and has a job that still gives him time to spend together with me. If you meet this description and you like what you see send me a message and I will tell you all about me. My grandma always told me if a man wants you he will do whatever it takes to be with you, so I'm here waiting for the right guy that wants to be with me.LOOKING FOR LOVE IN ALL THE WRONG PLACES LOOKING FOR LOVE IN TOO MANY FACES SEARCHING YOUR EYES LOOKING FOR TRACES OF ONE THAT I'M DREAMING OF HOPING TO FIND A FRIEND AND A LOVER I BLESS THE DAY I DISCOVER MY LOVE!!!Looking for someone who actually wants to get off this stupid dating site and start to share life with someone who is definitively worth getting to know, come on and take a chance.Only interested in men that know how to court a real woman. Do not talk to me about sex or physical stuff. On my first date with a man maybe dinner very good conversation then a walk on the beach weather permitting talking for hours and if there is a connection then who knows.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

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  • Irmalinda

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am looking for a person with the confidence to be silly. Someone who laughs easily and can make me laugh. Upon first meeting me, people sometimes think I'm standoffish. The truth is I'm shy, and it takes me a while to feel comfortable. But, given the time, people realize I am worth the effort:) If you take the time to get to know me, you'll see I am a very caring, intuitive person, and have a kind and loyal heart.I love traveling, running and walking my dog in the woods. I love going to NYC for all it has to offer. Dining, music and theatre. Lately, leisure time has been hard to come by, so when I have time, I enjoy eating good food, take pleasure in good wine and appreciate the company of good people.

  • Leighton

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    You know what they say - life is a journey - well, I got into the wrong car and drove down the wrong path, hit a few bumps. But, now that I'm going the right way again - and I am looking for a good man. I am looking for a relationship, a partner in life. I want someone who is kind, honest, sincere and down to earth. I am very affectionate, I love to hug, cuddle and hold hands. I am very loyal - I will be there for someone when they need me. I am also very trusting - but I am not a doormat. I like people who are "real". I don't like people who pretend they are something/someone they are not. I hate drama. You have to have a sense of humor. I love to laugh and try to make others laugh. I am sarcastic, but I can take it as well as I can dish it out. The only kind of games I like playing are board games, not mind games. I don't care if my date and I are sitting on the couch watching a movie or out at dinner - as long as we enjoy each other's company - that's what matters. My goal is to be happy. To share my life with someone who wants to be with me, and someone who wants to make me as happy as I want to make them. Relationships are give and take -it has to be equal, feelings have to be respected and taken into consideration.I can cook. The question is: Can I cook well? Not really. But I do try - my son and I do have to eat - nobody has died from my cooking yet (that I know of).Well - that explains it - hopefully there will be somebody out there who is looking for what I am looking for.....Per Plenty of Fish recommendations: I have no hobbies, but I'll try anything once -My goals and aspirations? Really, I just want to meet somebody I can get along with, and enjoy my lifeWhat makes me unique??????????? Music? I like any music from the 80's and Alternative The relationship needs test - are they kidding? Did you see how long it was?Yes - the pictures are very recent - I took them myself - I had to. I go on vacation, but I am the one who pictures.... something very casual - going for coffee or a drink...

  • Carleigh

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    " Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr. SuessHi. :)First and foremost I am the proud and lucky mother of amazingly cool 11 year old twin boys! (I know, I know!!! But MINE really ARE the best!! lol) I would not be on this site if I was not serious about pursuing and having time for a romantic relationship. That being said, things DO come up when you have children, and I would like to meet someone who understands and respects that. Good. Got that out of the way! :))I am very energetic. I am outgoing and love good conversation. Laughing and smiling are a must!! I am NOT a couch potato! Love to work out and run.I take good care of myself and I am always told I do not look my age. Certainly dont act it...kind of silly and goofy I guess. But I know when serious is called for. Definitely like spontaneity and trying new things! I love to go out to dinner locally (somewhere on the water is my favorite! I am just as happy curled up on the couch on a cold rainy night with a glass of wine, some great music, or a movie, and someone special to enjoy it with!! (a fire in the fireplace would be a big bonus!)The beach is probably my favorite place to be. Luckily I live very close.I do love Sunday football...but there is always the DVR (lol) if a better offer arises!I would just like to meet someone who I am attracted to inside and out. Who means what they say, and says what they mean!!Not interested in playing games or just "hooking up". So if you are, Im definitely not for you. If you are not affectionate and do not like kissing much, Im also definitely not for you. Im a very physical person. I like contact! But not a bit clingy...does that make sense?If you are funny, honest ,athletic, playful, adventurous, romantic (now Im pushing it arent I??) and sincere about finding someone to make life just that much better...well then we may just get lucky!!! A casual place for a drink. We will KNOW if we want to stay for dinner, or just part friends. :))

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