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Essie, 50

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About Me

Somewhat old fashioned girl. Looking for a gentleman for this gentlelady. About me: smart, shy, creative, a bit clumsy, nerdy, loving and affectionate, loyal, and generous. I am a big hugger and love being close, holding hands. I am as comfortable in hiking boots and my running shoes as I am dressed up - as you can see by the pics.I have a young son - a late blessing in life. He is a monster, a mystery, my joy. Trying to be healthy - I love to run several times a week and I eat healthy for the most part. I enjoy being in nature and just soaking up life outdoors. Fishing, camping - by a big bonfire - better than being at the mall. Not a TV watcher - it's on for my son. Love a good movie though and cuddling on the couch.- GO FLYERS. I would sit happily by your side at most any sporting event. Like day trips and exploring this big world of ours. Looking to start simply-and just let it grow. I am in no hurry - life takes as long as it takes. Yes I want all that comes with the process - time for work, time for play, time for chaos and time for romance. Coffee, drinks, something simple that we can talk and meet. It can easily go from there if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Toccara

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Looking for an honest guy that makes me smile.Work hard and enjoy my time off with friends and family. If you are into going out to dinner and enjoying good conversation and company that would be great. Coffee or a drink and see where it goes. No pressure or drama.

  • Pamila

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    After a slight hiatus from meetville, I'm back and committed to finding that special someone... I've met my fair share of questionable fish.... really looking for the one with integrity. Honesty is HUGE for me, so if that's not you, best to keep moving on. I am very grounded and stable... mother of ***year old boy, whom I absolute love and is the center of my world..now that he is a busy teenager, its time for me to focus on some fun and adult conversation. Not to mention he's actually dating now and I'm not liking the Friday night Starbucks scene while I'm waiting for him. LOL! I've been told I have a great sense of humor and am a great listener.... I'm not in to drama and don't do well with insecure people... too old for that now! Ready to move on to the next phase, knowing exactly what I want and what I don't. Always up for happy hour and wine tastings and trying new things.I'm looking for a man that is confident and secure with himself. I am involved in alot of activities and am looking for someone who is also very involved. I'm not interested in giving up the activities that I love, nor would I ask a man to give up the activities he loves. Obviously the goal would be to find things to do together, but we won't always love doing the same things. I'm also not looking for the "stalker"....I don't need to talk to you every hour and you shouldn't need to talk to me every hour... we are both grown ups with busy lives and should respect and understand that about each other. That being said, good communication is still the foundation of a good relationship so if this is a weakness, we're probably not a good match. My future fish should also love God and be family oriented as these are the 2 most important things in my life. I come from a very stable and close family and looking for someone that is also close to their family. If you don't speak to most of your relatives, not a good fit. I'm not about material things, but at our age, a fish should be financially sound enough to enjoy life.....The right fish will also be someone that takes care of himself... I still workout regularly and enjoy hiking, backpacking, golf, boating and pretty much any outside activity. Finally, if you are under 38 years old, please don't bother sending a message, we will not be compatible. Thanks! Let's make it simple..... coffee or lunch!

  • Hoa

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm an easy going, low-maintenance, family loving woman with a young outlook on life making me seem younger than my age. I don't let a lot of things bother me. Most people are comfortable with me and seem to spill their guts without provocation. I work with the public so I'm always "on" to make others feel their best and at ease. I'm affectionate, sensual, happy, a flirt, love to kiss and talkative most days. Age is not an issue; its about attraction and maturity. I'm not stuck-up, have a sense of humor and can even laugh at myself! Laughter is a necessity of life. I spend a lot of time with my family, helping my parents. I don't go out much at all. I don't need a bunch of girlfriends to have a b*tch fest about the men in our lives. I say move on and find someone else. I have enough children and family members to keep me busy without that drama! I love the country, fall, anything from Bath and Body Works, Renaissance Festivals, most all music genres, depending on my mood. Since I don't have children at home I don't really cook, but I like to eat and try different foods, however, I'll make a deal: You cook, I'll clean! I love movies, mostly sci-fi and action. I'm always open to something new.I'm looking for an easy-going man, tall (not just taller than me), family loving (loves his mom especially), affectionate man who is willing to take it slow, become friends, get to know each other and see where that leads. If I want something, I will let you know. So I'd like a man who wants a straight forward, speak her mind kind of woman in his life. He treats a woman like a lady, polite, holds the door open, holding hands, but doesn't mind giving and recieving that little smack on the a**, love to kiss and shows some classy pda! My ideal: Has a pic without having to send it to my phone or ***'t have hair coming out of your ears, nose and hanging off your eyebrows. Don't smoke (I don't mean marijuana), its a definite deal breaker. Don't expect me to give you "something" because you took me out, I just won't be pressured into that. Do smell good, be down to earth and willing to have a woman as I described above. Good luck fishing!

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