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Chandra, 50

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About Me

Last summer I did not have a friend with whom I could go for some late nigh swimming which I used to do back on the Croatian coast of the Adriatic Sea. The planktons are sparkly there.It was a European life that I decided to change fourteen years ago. I was born, raised and educated over there. Four years ago I moved again. This time back East closer to the Old Continent.;weird" state a lot.My happiness comes from watching simplicity and complexity life is surrounding me with. I exercise my mind and body doing yoga and still a beginner I feel all benefits of this great art in the world of fitness. Regardless of the fact that I consider myself well educated and read, the moments, when I recognize how little I know, rejuvenate me over and over. Classical music is my little secret passion. I love opera. Endlessly. But do not impose that weakness of mine on anyone.Being politically aware is essential. I am not afraid to express my politically incorrect opinion in a healthy productive discussion.The kitchen is a place where I can perform pretty well creating dishes that have the smell from old Mediterranean recipes. With a glass of good wine the evening could be almost perfect. Going out without make-up doesn't scare me and the same comfort I feel in the little black dress. Loyalty and devotions are my big characteristics. I am a pet lover, especially for cats and dogs. What is missing are those fun and loving moments of intimacy with someone special. I am a sucker for tall guys that have read something in their lives beside cartoons. Some definitions about his IQ would include a sense of humor, especially ability to laugh at his own expense. The ideal one would be on the level where he recognized that casual dating is left for those with less self-respect. You have to be able to speak freely your mind, to be my friend, partner and lover. A man who knows his strengths and his weaknesses and manages them properly and who understands a need for time of silence and personal space for himself as well as for others is the man I am looking for. He will be open for slowly developed but A REAL RELATIONSHIP, timely, physically and hopefully emotionally available.I hate doing this but I have to add one BUT. You may be all this above but if you are a 70's mustache, biker with tattoos all over, guy, PLEASE I AM NOT YOUR TYPE neither you are mine.:)Oh, did I mention how I do not care at all for the contacts without photo.;self-inflicted" photos taken in front of bathroom mirrors. If the chemistry is there, anything anywhere can be a perfect setting for the fist date.WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Crista

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an ATTRACTIVE, SWEET, SASSY, INTELLIGENT, WELL SPOKEN, CLASSY, ELEGANT, SENSUAL, GENUINE & DOWN TO EARTH woman.My inner beauty, coupled with my physical beauty.... is a unique combination, of which, can only be experienced through getting to know me.I am a loving, nurturing, caring, compassionate & passionate woman.I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, generous and kind.I am simple and enjoy things that way....I am very easy to please... The littlest things make me truely happy...; KNOWING EVERY DAY IS A GIFT!!I believe in NEVER giving up on what you believe in. I am a very down to earth, fun loving person. I love to walk on the boardwalk, while listening to my favorite tunes. I often find peace down by the shore, where I love to just enjoy the sound of the waves. I appreciate nature, in all it's forms. I love animals... especially dogs. I love all music (except rap!), gardening, movies, traveling & meeting new people & making new friends. I enjoy spending time with friends & family. Those moments are priceless!I LOVE being a MOTHER (to my 2 awesome kids) & find the greatest satisfaction & sense of pride & accomplishment in seeing the fine young adults they have grown to be!!!!I have a great way with people. I am very sociable & outgoing. I have often been told, that I am alot of fun... Sometimes I can be the life of the party!! I have and enjoy a good sense of humor.I don't take myself or others too seriously.I am NOT quick to judge others.I am open minded & more importantly............ I have an OPEN HEART!! I know how to laugh, have fun, & be spontaneous.To me, a good night with my soulmate could be something as simple as curling up, side by side & watching a movie together. Communication is very important to me. I think it is essential for a successful relationship!!I believe TRUST, HONESTY, &I firmly believe that you cannot effectively love another person, unless and UNTIL YOU LOVE & RESPECT YOURSELF !!Lastly, I believe that LIFE IS TOO SHORT... it is up to us, to be the best person that we were put on this earth to be. I hope to find that special person that I can grow old with. To me, growing old with your best friend, is the greatest gift one could ever hope for.I am eager & waiting with and OPEN HEART, MIND & SOUL...... to give all of myself to the ONE who can and will..... love, respect, appreciate & grow with me, IN LIFE & IN LOVE!!!!!! Any place where we can talk & hear eachother & get to know a little about oneanother.A quiet restaurant, a coffee shop, the beach, a park.....The place is not as important and the CHEMISTRY, CONVERSATION & CONNECTION....... and hopefully, there will be one! :)

  • Petunia

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello, I would like to meet someone who has traditional values yet the ability to think way out of the box. I have always blended both. I love cooking and staying home and being with a special person. I equally have an urge to go to new and undiscovered places. I consider myself to be intelligent and open minded. I enjoy learning more about myself and how to experience my spirituality fully. I also enjoy things that are analytical. There are many great philosophers and scientists that are brilliant who combine the spiritual and the science such as e.g. Gregg Braden, Deepak Chopra, Dr. Christian Northrup, Dr. The person whom i would like to meet will fully understand that we are both. I appreciate the simple things in life albiet complex in nature and I may possibly be somewhat of a contradiction. However, i embrace it all and know who i am and know what i want from life. I love to cook a meal, (new or traditional), have a relaxing drink and then talk through the night. This is how i choose to live. I am very spiritual and help others by guiding them so please understand this. If you are referring to sex and over complimentary in that department do not bother contacting me as you will be wasting both our time. Be respectful always! Please do not refer to me as honey, etc. common "really"?I love romance, deep conversation, spontaneity, and fun. I am a thinker and so appreciate someone who both compliments that and also like the earthy and fiery aspects of life. One who loves adventure. I appreciate someone who is fun-loving on their off time and dedicated to their profession. Very much enjoy new ways of healing e.g. crystal bowls, Angel groups, physics, self-help, and hard core science. I love it all! I would also like to humbly add that if you are incapable of intimacy, and that is your truth, please be real. If you have a million girlfriends you strewn along so that you never have to have intimacy with one woman, do you really think that an educated, self-actualized woman is not going to pick that up lol! Good luck regardless. Hey, we are all learning and there is a learning curve i know. I can laugh at myself because i honor myself. I appreciate the same in others.Please be self introspective and open minded. We are here to grow after all. I have a love to celebrate life and to think about life at the same time. Maybe our paths will cross. I would like to add that i did want to respond to a few people but when looked to their profile they were gone. So,....i tried and good luck. One must take each day at a time you know. If you do not have a picture please don't contact me. Be real!Happy New Year! ***The first date could be anywhere. I enjoy many varied foods e.g. Indian, Middle Eastern, Italian, etc.If i do watch television it will usually be the history channel or food network.I have become attached to food network i must admit lol!

  • Paula

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Do you live your life in such a way that should it ever flash before your eyes, it will be worth watching? If so, then you are in good company. If you embrace life’s simpler pleasures and can find the extraordinary in the ordinary, then follow me. The fun is about to begin!When we first meet, if you sense a fun loving, genuine, down-to-earth, compassionate and “bursting at the seams” with enthusiasm for life, then please do not abandon that initial conclusion. Warm, friendly and approachable, I like to make others feel right at home when they are with me. No drama (who has the time?); no games; just the real deal. I am always quick with a smile and a kind word.Multifaceted yet far from complicated, I enjoy a variety of interests and can easily transition from a day at the beach wearing flip flops and shorts to getting all dressed up for an elegant night out on the town. However, a comfy t-shirt and a familiar pair of jeans are my go- They suit my relaxed demeanor.I believe the best love is the one person who makes you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself. That is the kind of love I can offer to the right man and that is definitely the kind of love I seek.I value good company and believe in complete and total honesty and open communication between two people. I admire a man who is confident and self-assured yet unfamiliar with ego and arrogance. ***, he is one for whom kindness and compassion are ***, honesty is a lifestyle and laughter is a habit…heavy emphasis on the laughter. That’s the best medicine. I should know! After all, I am a nurse!I love adventures in travel and my passport is my favorite book. I also love chicken tikka. Musically, I am all ears, but, please, no operaSo, if any of this resonates with you, then what are you waiting for? Let’s make that initial connection and see if there is exciting possibility written all over this! A place that we can get to know each other. Coffee, drinks???

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