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Contessa, 50

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About Me

Fun, laid back. optimistic, full of life. Enjoy the outdoors, new adventures, new foods, etc. Am open minded. Into the beach, all outdoor activities. Enjoy laying by the pool with a good book (and maybe you! :-) Will respond to a gentleman who is REcently divorced, Legally separated, or a widower, after a LOng marriage, who lives alone. (IN NJ!!) I like a man who is funny and intelligent, and knows how to have a good time! I appreciate an educated man, a deep thinker, and a high intellect. I also like good manners! ;***Asking to meet on the first message....not cool. Neither are form letters). Should you write me, please be a dear and tell me when you were divorced, etc., and about your kids/people who live with you. :-) A drink, watching the game, a beer, pizza,...anything, early, after work. A dip in the pool. (I do not drink coffee!).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jordan

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a mother of 2 great kids. I like to laugh and have fun. I have a free spirit. I am looking for someone who wants to go out and have fun and enjoy life.

  • Gaila

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ehhh......What's Up Dude?I have no children, no secret boyfriends, no psycho ex's. I come completely drama and baggage free. I love to laugh and joke around so someone with a sense of humor is definitely what I'm looking for, I can get a bit goofy sometimes! I'm a very easygoing person so whatever we did I'm sure we would have fun. WARNING....I do burp a lot....BUUURRRP....pardon me! There is a good probability that I may sometimes act silly and immature......my belief is you only live once!"Growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional".I LOVE music, preferably rock and alternative, some 80's, 90's hair bands, some metal...it varies depending on my mood. But I can’t stand country music. I love my iPod Touch....I know it sounds silly but I do! I did play the guitar years ago and wish I would have kept playing.....especially by Eddie Van Halen! I love going to NYC whenever I can there's always something to do there. I also love long passionate kissing, so you must be a great kisser. I believe in living life to the fullest and enjoying every day."We do not remember the days, we remember the moments."I've been told that I'm funny, cute, sexy, affectionate, smart and fun to be with. Also been told I have cute toes (seems that's a good thing). The only absolute necessity you should have is a SENSE OF HUMOR!! (And good looks wouldn't hurt either) Besides that just be yourself and be honest....no playing games!I am NOT looking for perfection, only the perfect man for me.I also should warn you that I love fast cars=========Catch me if you can==========I am looking for someone that likes to have fun and a great sense of humor is a MUST because I like to goof around with people a lot. I usually have my family and friends laughing most of the time.I LOVE how a man looks in a pair of jeans, I think that is definitely sexier than a suit and tie!You MUST love dogs! I lost my little boy, a Bichon, who was almost 16 years old. My life will never be the same without him...I miss him so much. I'm still not ready to get another dog since losing my little guy...maybe someday.If you like doing anything fun and spontaneous, it could be going to a concert, going for a drive with no destination, having fun at an amusement park or arcade, or riding a rollercoaster ten times in a row....that's fun!! You should be a kid at heart because age is only a number and I'll never lose the kid inside of me no matter how old I get. Don't take life so seriously have fun, laugh and enjoy each day the best you can. Be easygoing, confident and comfortable with yourself. Being somewhat intelligent, articulate, and attractive are great qualities that I also look for in someone. If your idea of fun at the beach is laying in the sun baking all day than I'm not the girl for you. I haven't "tanned" in the sun in over 15 years. No sun = No wrinkles. There must be honesty, trust and most of all communication. Be able to have some give and take in a relationship and never take the other person for granted. There also must be chemistry between us, not just on the physical level but also a chemistry between our minds as well."What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."**If your profile is misspelled, has improper grammar, written in all lower case letters or consists of only two sentences than I will not reply to you. If you can't take the time to write a thorough profile than you're not too serious about meeting someone. **Please have a picture if you contact me (and not one of you shirtless in a bathroom mirror). No picture, no response.And please have hair on your head.....I like to run my fingers through some hair. ***NO BALDIES AND NO SMOKERS*********Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Plentyoffish.com website and all services offered by Plenty of fish (POF) do not have my permission to use any of the information or pictures in my current or future profile to use or share with affiliates for any purpose. If you've actually taken the time to read my profile and you share my affinity for Kisses Slow and Cars Fast then send me a message.

  • Terina

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Looking to meet a great gentlemen, who is fun, adventurous and can make me laugh! I enjoy, music, theater, traveling, the arts and taking in a game. Thanks for checking out my profile & hope to talk soon :-)

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