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Dollee, 46
United States, Idaho, Sandpoint

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About Me

I am 3 years divorced from a 22 yr marriage and am quite sure what to do with my new freedoms. I know I crave good company and someone to share new experience with. I am an "out of the box" thinker consumed with new ideas and concepts, curiosities and passion. Long, in depth, thought provoking conversations are "mental masturbation" for me. (Not to be confused with traditional phone sex; o No She did NOT just say that! ;) So if you like to keep it "simple" and narrowed we will not match. Know that I am the type to go above and beyond, the type to leave inhibition behind (less bungee jumping n rock climbing), the type whom lights the back yard with candles. I am appropriately passive, one who enjoys hammocks and LOVES the kitchen. I am sensible but have been described as somewhat of a hippie chick but with situationally appropriate reserve. OOHH I like the way THAT sounds! I am a writer wanna be if you haven’t noticed. You’re my test readers ;) Your opinion counts. I intend now, to feed the intellect in me, maintain the mother, live the music, humor the domesticate & the adventure seeker, enjoy the competitor, the ambitious soul, the friend and lover in time. I love to laugh and goof, and confess both an *** and dorky side. I could really use some help learning how to relax more.I recognize that people are investments to a degree no matter the type of relationship. One cannot expect a return without first investing and maintaining and ONLY time will tell. I believe we are porous beings and no ONE being, be it spouse, child, friend or family, is capable of filling in ALL the holes and gaps, no one should make that demand or have that expectation of another. It's a guaranteed fail, as some of those holes are custom sized for the love we have for ourselves. Without those voids filled no one will ever be enough. If you're seeking ownership, I do NOT subscribe! Physical and emotional possession should NEVER be confused with the possession of love! With that said, I do believe in monogamy and in equally shared responsibility. I believe in encouragement, support, inspiration and love given mutually and not motivated by guilt, demand, obligation or selfishness. With the right person I look forward to sharing my endless supply eternally. I am a pillow fluffer by nature and an excellent nurse but will avoid an obvious chronic "patient" for anything less than love. I keep a “total disclosure policy”. No mystery here. I make no attempts at pretense or fake personality. I’m hoping that statement would be a relief for some.I am the PROUD mother of 3 boys (20, 17 & They are self sufficient and most days my entertainment committee! They are the kinda pay back you really want from your kids. They are my greatest teachers. I've had to toughen up to raise them but chopping wood for ME is now a distant memory ;) Never a complaint! We all share cooking, n cleaning and they sew for ME! Ultimately, I am ISO a fellow with high energy who can relate to my concepts. Couch potatoes need not apply. I am ISO one from whom I can learn and who's open to education. A secure man is important, one who doesn't go into auto-DIS-trust after the first date. I'd like to meet someone to start a NEW life with not someone whose life I'm to enhance or vice versa.I like that one to have a wide open heart, wide open eyes, windows and doors (figuratively again)! That one would seek to encourage, enlighten and inspire and I would do the same. Dreamy huh? Possible though! I know I have the strength. I have no climaxing conclusion, no final sales pitch with the exception to say, my mind, heart and hopes are open for considerations. If your interest is genuine and your prison record is clean and u can control ur drinking don't hesitate. I think I have a limit on how big a book I can write so I'll leave off here. Thanks for reading and to those whom care to write a gentle review :)Well wishes and good luck. First you’ll need to bring your imagination, a bottle of wine, or scotch (Dewars) if you’re easily rattled.’re naturally driven to the rescue. It’s a 3 month ride, fraught with dangers untold. This fortress is surrounded by a moat filled with the rare spotted flying piranha, guarded by Phil, a monstrous fire breathing purple dragon with green spots (favorite colors), 4 stories tall with a bifurcated tail and yellow horns. His teeth are like Ginsu knives and claws scalpel sharp. His nostrils flare the size of dinner plates and smoke billows out like an un-damperd wood stove! Are you wearing ur big girl panties? :)) Are you getting ready to run? Anybody? I digress. I'll warn you, there WILL b some challenges! It' not too late to turn back. All you've lost so far is a few hours of your time reading this crazy novel! No harm no foul. You’ve been warned! OK, you’re in? OK, SO, in keeping with my honesty policy, I’ll remind you, it won’t be easy! So gear up in your chain male (highly polished), grab your sword and mace and maybe an extra snack and drink and come save me! Life as you know it is about to begin or end! Please arrive on a proud sturdy white stallion, prepared to do battle. You may have to consult with the Wizard on how to attain one as you DID ride here on a donkey. Whose idea was that? NOTE: Be especially careful with the dragon, his fire is projected multidirectional! Got a good visual yet? LOL Never seen THAT b4! Oh yea, don’t show up on Wed. nt is beans and frank nt.If you make it past him you'll then be challenged by THE Wizard. He’s brilliant and crafty and guards her closely. You'll have to answer queries the likes of which Zeus himself is still debating! Answer incorrectly and you’re thrown in the moat where you’re given the opportunity to eat or be eaten! Answer correctly and you’ BOY I'm having fun! Approach the sleeping princess with caution (late sleeper), b sure she's not STILL the Ogre. You must use all your physical strength to complete this last task in order to free her majesty. Survival of the fittest is the test here. You must use your pinky finger only to bend the cage bars to break the spell. Just go with me on this it gets better I promise. If you're able to endure this test the doors will magically open , she (I) will fall helplessly, hopelessly into your arms in lustful love forever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Ehhh......What's Up Dude?I have no children, no secret boyfriends, no psycho ex's. I come completely drama and baggage free. I love to laugh and joke around so someone with a sense of humor is definitely what I'm looking for, I can get a bit goofy sometimes! I'm a very easygoing person so whatever we did I'm sure we would have fun. WARNING....I do burp a lot....BUUURRRP....pardon me! There is a good probability that I may sometimes act silly and immature......my belief is you only live once!"Growing old is mandatory, growing up is optional".I LOVE music, preferably rock and alternative, some 80's, 90's hair bands, some metal...it varies depending on my mood. But I can’t stand country music. I love my iPod Touch....I know it sounds silly but I do! I did play the guitar years ago and wish I would have kept playing.....especially by Eddie Van Halen! I love going to NYC whenever I can there's always something to do there. I also love long passionate kissing, so you must be a great kisser. I believe in living life to the fullest and enjoying every day."We do not remember the days, we remember the moments."I've been told that I'm funny, cute, sexy, affectionate, smart and fun to be with. Also been told I have cute toes (seems that's a good thing). The only absolute necessity you should have is a SENSE OF HUMOR!! (And good looks wouldn't hurt either) Besides that just be yourself and be honest....no playing games!I am NOT looking for perfection, only the perfect man for me.I also should warn you that I love fast cars=========Catch me if you can==========I am looking for someone that likes to have fun and a great sense of humor is a MUST because I like to goof around with people a lot. I usually have my family and friends laughing most of the time.I LOVE how a man looks in a pair of jeans, I think that is definitely sexier than a suit and tie!You MUST love dogs! I lost my little boy, a Bichon, who was almost 16 years old. My life will never be the same without him...I miss him so much. I'm still not ready to get another dog since losing my little guy...maybe someday.If you like doing anything fun and spontaneous, it could be going to a concert, going for a drive with no destination, having fun at an amusement park or arcade, or riding a rollercoaster ten times in a row....that's fun!! You should be a kid at heart because age is only a number and I'll never lose the kid inside of me no matter how old I get. Don't take life so seriously have fun, laugh and enjoy each day the best you can. Be easygoing, confident and comfortable with yourself. Being somewhat intelligent, articulate, and attractive are great qualities that I also look for in someone. If your idea of fun at the beach is laying in the sun baking all day than I'm not the girl for you. I haven't "tanned" in the sun in over 15 years. No sun = No wrinkles. There must be honesty, trust and most of all communication. Be able to have some give and take in a relationship and never take the other person for granted. There also must be chemistry between us, not just on the physical level but also a chemistry between our minds as well."What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us."**If your profile is misspelled, has improper grammar, written in all lower case letters or consists of only two sentences than I will not reply to you. If you can't take the time to write a thorough profile than you're not too serious about meeting someone. **Please have a picture if you contact me (and not one of you shirtless in a bathroom mirror). No picture, no response.And please have hair on your head.....I like to run my fingers through some hair. ***NO BALDIES AND NO SMOKERS*********Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. Plentyoffish.com website and all services offered by Plenty of fish (POF) do not have my permission to use any of the information or pictures in my current or future profile to use or share with affiliates for any purpose. If you've actually taken the time to read my profile and you share my affinity for Kisses Slow and Cars Fast then send me a message.

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I love to laugh; a sense of humor is a turn on. I enjoy being around people who are curious, kind and have a passion for all they do. I am easy going. I'm looking to meet someone with similar interests as well as someone who can introduce me to new things. My son just went off to college; I'm loving the ability to be spontaneous again. What more do you want to know?“Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other.” -Dalai Lama XIV Make it easy meet for a drink or coffee and see what happens.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

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