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I am 3 years divorced from a 22 yr marriage and am quite sure what to do with my new freedoms. I know I crave good company and someone to share new experience with. I am an "out of the box" thinker consumed with new ideas and concepts, curiosities and passion. Long, in depth, thought provoking conversations are "mental masturbation" for me. (Not to be confused with traditional phone sex; o No She did NOT just say that! ;) So if you like to keep it "simple" and narrowed we will not match. Know that I am the type to go above and beyond, the type to leave inhibition behind (less bungee jumping n rock climbing), the type whom lights the back yard with candles. I am appropriately passive, one who enjoys hammocks and LOVES the kitchen. I am sensible but have been described as somewhat of a hippie chick but with situationally appropriate reserve. OOHH I like the way THAT sounds! I am a writer wanna be if you haven’t noticed. You’re my test readers ;) Your opinion counts. I intend now, to feed the intellect in me, maintain the mother, live the music, humor the domesticate & the adventure seeker, enjoy the competitor, the ambitious soul, the friend and lover in time. I love to laugh and goof, and confess both an *** and dorky side. I could really use some help learning how to relax more.I recognize that people are investments to a degree no matter the type of relationship. One cannot expect a return without first investing and maintaining and ONLY time will tell. I believe we are porous beings and no ONE being, be it spouse, child, friend or family, is capable of filling in ALL the holes and gaps, no one should make that demand or have that expectation of another. It's a guaranteed fail, as some of those holes are custom sized for the love we have for ourselves. Without those voids filled no one will ever be enough. If you're seeking ownership, I do NOT subscribe! Physical and emotional possession should NEVER be confused with the possession of love! With that said, I do believe in monogamy and in equally shared responsibility. I believe in encouragement, support, inspiration and love given mutually and not motivated by guilt, demand, obligation or selfishness. With the right person I look forward to sharing my endless supply eternally. I am a pillow fluffer by nature and an excellent nurse but will avoid an obvious chronic "patient" for anything less than love. I keep a “total disclosure policy”. No mystery here. I make no attempts at pretense or fake personality. I’m hoping that statement would be a relief for some.I am the PROUD mother of 3 boys (20, 17 & They are self sufficient and most days my entertainment committee! They are the kinda pay back you really want from your kids. They are my greatest teachers. I've had to toughen up to raise them but chopping wood for ME is now a distant memory ;) Never a complaint! We all share cooking, n cleaning and they sew for ME! Ultimately, I am ISO a fellow with high energy who can relate to my concepts. Couch potatoes need not apply. I am ISO one from whom I can learn and who's open to education. A secure man is important, one who doesn't go into auto-DIS-trust after the first date. I'd like to meet someone to start a NEW life with not someone whose life I'm to enhance or vice versa.I like that one to have a wide open heart, wide open eyes, windows and doors (figuratively again)! That one would seek to encourage, enlighten and inspire and I would do the same. Dreamy huh? Possible though! I know I have the strength. I have no climaxing conclusion, no final sales pitch with the exception to say, my mind, heart and hopes are open for considerations. If your interest is genuine and your prison record is clean and u can control ur drinking don't hesitate. I think I have a limit on how big a book I can write so I'll leave off here. Thanks for reading and to those whom care to write a gentle review :)Well wishes and good luck. First you’ll need to bring your imagination, a bottle of wine, or scotch (Dewars) if you’re easily rattled.’re naturally driven to the rescue. It’s a 3 month ride, fraught with dangers untold. This fortress is surrounded by a moat filled with the rare spotted flying piranha, guarded by Phil, a monstrous fire breathing purple dragon with green spots (favorite colors), 4 stories tall with a bifurcated tail and yellow horns. His teeth are like Ginsu knives and claws scalpel sharp. His nostrils flare the size of dinner plates and smoke billows out like an un-damperd wood stove! Are you wearing ur big girl panties? :)) Are you getting ready to run? Anybody? I digress. I'll warn you, there WILL b some challenges! It' not too late to turn back. All you've lost so far is a few hours of your time reading this crazy novel! No harm no foul. You’ve been warned! OK, you’re in? OK, SO, in keeping with my honesty policy, I’ll remind you, it won’t be easy! So gear up in your chain male (highly polished), grab your sword and mace and maybe an extra snack and drink and come save me! Life as you know it is about to begin or end! Please arrive on a proud sturdy white stallion, prepared to do battle. You may have to consult with the Wizard on how to attain one as you DID ride here on a donkey. Whose idea was that? NOTE: Be especially careful with the dragon, his fire is projected multidirectional! Got a good visual yet? LOL Never seen THAT b4! Oh yea, don’t show up on Wed. nt is beans and frank nt.If you make it past him you'll then be challenged by THE Wizard. He’s brilliant and crafty and guards her closely. You'll have to answer queries the likes of which Zeus himself is still debating! Answer incorrectly and you’re thrown in the moat where you’re given the opportunity to eat or be eaten! Answer correctly and you’ BOY I'm having fun! Approach the sleeping princess with caution (late sleeper), b sure she's not STILL the Ogre. You must use all your physical strength to complete this last task in order to free her majesty. Survival of the fittest is the test here. You must use your pinky finger only to bend the cage bars to break the spell. Just go with me on this it gets better I promise. If you're able to endure this test the doors will magically open , she (I) will fall helplessly, hopelessly into your arms in lustful love forever

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Petunia

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Hello, I would like to meet someone who has traditional values yet the ability to think way out of the box. I have always blended both. I love cooking and staying home and being with a special person. I equally have an urge to go to new and undiscovered places. I consider myself to be intelligent and open minded. I enjoy learning more about myself and how to experience my spirituality fully. I also enjoy things that are analytical. There are many great philosophers and scientists that are brilliant who combine the spiritual and the science such as e.g. Gregg Braden, Deepak Chopra, Dr. Christian Northrup, Dr. The person whom i would like to meet will fully understand that we are both. I appreciate the simple things in life albiet complex in nature and I may possibly be somewhat of a contradiction. However, i embrace it all and know who i am and know what i want from life. I love to cook a meal, (new or traditional), have a relaxing drink and then talk through the night. This is how i choose to live. I am very spiritual and help others by guiding them so please understand this. If you are referring to sex and over complimentary in that department do not bother contacting me as you will be wasting both our time. Be respectful always! Please do not refer to me as honey, etc. common "really"?I love romance, deep conversation, spontaneity, and fun. I am a thinker and so appreciate someone who both compliments that and also like the earthy and fiery aspects of life. One who loves adventure. I appreciate someone who is fun-loving on their off time and dedicated to their profession. Very much enjoy new ways of healing e.g. crystal bowls, Angel groups, physics, self-help, and hard core science. I love it all! I would also like to humbly add that if you are incapable of intimacy, and that is your truth, please be real. If you have a million girlfriends you strewn along so that you never have to have intimacy with one woman, do you really think that an educated, self-actualized woman is not going to pick that up lol! Good luck regardless. Hey, we are all learning and there is a learning curve i know. I can laugh at myself because i honor myself. I appreciate the same in others.Please be self introspective and open minded. We are here to grow after all. I have a love to celebrate life and to think about life at the same time. Maybe our paths will cross. I would like to add that i did want to respond to a few people but when looked to their profile they were gone. So,....i tried and good luck. One must take each day at a time you know. If you do not have a picture please don't contact me. Be real!Happy New Year! ***The first date could be anywhere. I enjoy many varied foods e.g. Indian, Middle Eastern, Italian, etc.If i do watch television it will usually be the history channel or food network.I have become attached to food network i must admit lol!

  • Mckenzie

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I enjoy the good things in life. I have both my feet flat on the ground looking to meet an attractive male with refined qualities. I am open minded and genuine looking to share life with someone who will do the same. I am not looking to waste time, so if you would like to speak to me, please call!! my first date should be impressive, left to the decision of the date

  • Morgana

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello and thanks for reading my profile. I'm looking for a man who is over the past, has learned from mistakes, and is looking towards a bright future ( with me! )I think he's looking for me too -- he just has a bad sense of direction! I'm looking for my best friend -- someone to share life with -- someone without big drama or stories. It sounds simple but for some reason it's not easy to find.I need to write the following -- Please don't send an i/m if I don't know you. Half of the time they aren't received and the other half of the time they slow down my computer. It doesn't matter what you do on a first date as long as the company makes you smile -- you can even be sitting in traffic having a great time if it's the right person! I will say a great first date doesn't end before making plans for a second date.

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