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Modesty, 47

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About Me

Who am I? I'm casual, adventurous, outgoing and a mom but perhaps a bit shy at first. My kids live with me most of the time so if kids are not your thing then you'll want to move on. If you're still reading, hello! Where to begin? I enjoy a great conversation over coffee or over a beer but I don't want to close the place. I love going up North to get away and enjoy nature. I'm not one to lay on the beach to tan but I'll walk on the beach, swim, kayak, hike, bike and explore. I've traveled and I'd like to do more, in the USA and abroad. I like surprises. Routine is good but spontaneity keeps life exciting. Jeans are great, if I must dress up then so be it but I seem to concentrate more on what I'm doing than what I'm wearing. I've golfed a few times in my life and I'm terrible but I still like it and I'd go if you'd have the patience to teach me how to do it better ... but if we putt-putt, I can be very competitive. I love go-carts and was super excited when all my kids were old/tall enough to ride. I drive a mini-)I'm hoping to find that great mix of fun, funny, responsible (but not stuffy,) adventurous, confident, nice guy who is my best friend, likes kids, doesn't smoke or do drugs or drink too much and is fairly healthy and in shape. I'm also a realist and I know that we all have baggage. I'd prefer somebody with the carry-on size and not the full set! I've not met you yet so please don't assume I'm like all the others and I'll do the same for you. I don't "need" a man in my life but I'd like one. There's more to my story but I think this is long enough. Meeting in person is the test of chemistry so if I've intrigued you then by all means, send me a message ... Please have a photo... Coffee of course! No really, anything casual works for me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Crista

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am an ATTRACTIVE, SWEET, SASSY, INTELLIGENT, WELL SPOKEN, CLASSY, ELEGANT, SENSUAL, GENUINE & DOWN TO EARTH woman.My inner beauty, coupled with my physical beauty.... is a unique combination, of which, can only be experienced through getting to know me.I am a loving, nurturing, caring, compassionate & passionate woman.I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, generous and kind.I am simple and enjoy things that way....I am very easy to please... The littlest things make me truely happy...; KNOWING EVERY DAY IS A GIFT!!I believe in NEVER giving up on what you believe in. I am a very down to earth, fun loving person. I love to walk on the boardwalk, while listening to my favorite tunes. I often find peace down by the shore, where I love to just enjoy the sound of the waves. I appreciate nature, in all it's forms. I love animals... especially dogs. I love all music (except rap!), gardening, movies, traveling & meeting new people & making new friends. I enjoy spending time with friends & family. Those moments are priceless!I LOVE being a MOTHER (to my 2 awesome kids) & find the greatest satisfaction & sense of pride & accomplishment in seeing the fine young adults they have grown to be!!!!I have a great way with people. I am very sociable & outgoing. I have often been told, that I am alot of fun... Sometimes I can be the life of the party!! I have and enjoy a good sense of humor.I don't take myself or others too seriously.I am NOT quick to judge others.I am open minded & more importantly............ I have an OPEN HEART!! I know how to laugh, have fun, & be spontaneous.To me, a good night with my soulmate could be something as simple as curling up, side by side & watching a movie together. Communication is very important to me. I think it is essential for a successful relationship!!I believe TRUST, HONESTY, &I firmly believe that you cannot effectively love another person, unless and UNTIL YOU LOVE & RESPECT YOURSELF !!Lastly, I believe that LIFE IS TOO SHORT... it is up to us, to be the best person that we were put on this earth to be. I hope to find that special person that I can grow old with. To me, growing old with your best friend, is the greatest gift one could ever hope for.I am eager & waiting with and OPEN HEART, MIND & SOUL...... to give all of myself to the ONE who can and will..... love, respect, appreciate & grow with me, IN LIFE & IN LOVE!!!!!! Any place where we can talk & hear eachother & get to know a little about oneanother.A quiet restaurant, a coffee shop, the beach, a park.....The place is not as important and the CHEMISTRY, CONVERSATION & CONNECTION....... and hopefully, there will be one! :)

  • Stacie

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Initially looking for chemistry and friendship that has the potential to evolve into a lasting relationship. I believe that communication, patience, respect, honesty and mutual interests are important. It's important to me for someone to have most weekends available. I work in a preschool so I'm off every weekend. I'm blessed to have great friends and family to spend time with. I enjoy being in the suburbs where nature is more prevalent but do appreciate what the city has to offer as far as museums, restaurants, theatre on a limited basis.Family is very important to me, so if you have kids you must truly love them and they should be a part of your life. I'm attracted to a guy that is chivalrous and grounded/stable.If you have kids, that's great! Just make sure you have time to date.Truly looking for that one special guy to grow older and wiser with.

  • Norine

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hello:Nothing much to say... unfortunately.Not sure this is the place to actually meet someone, seems the same story ~ different face. Would really like to meet a nice, sincere guy that does not have issues w/past relationships, etc... I've actually grown to a point in my life that I am finally ready to meet the love of my life. I've learned the importance of holding hands, kissing, loving and having great communication... Even though I have not had much success on this site, from each experience I most certainly have found a lesson learned...My profile is currently hidden so this keeps my search simple! Keep it simple!

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