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Paula, 48

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About Me

Do you live your life in such a way that should it ever flash before your eyes, it will be worth watching? If so, then you are in good company. If you embrace life’s simpler pleasures and can find the extraordinary in the ordinary, then follow me. The fun is about to begin!When we first meet, if you sense a fun loving, genuine, down-to-earth, compassionate and “bursting at the seams” with enthusiasm for life, then please do not abandon that initial conclusion. Warm, friendly and approachable, I like to make others feel right at home when they are with me. No drama (who has the time?); no games; just the real deal. I am always quick with a smile and a kind word.Multifaceted yet far from complicated, I enjoy a variety of interests and can easily transition from a day at the beach wearing flip flops and shorts to getting all dressed up for an elegant night out on the town. However, a comfy t-shirt and a familiar pair of jeans are my go- They suit my relaxed demeanor.I believe the best love is the one person who makes you a better person without changing you into someone other than yourself. That is the kind of love I can offer to the right man and that is definitely the kind of love I seek.I value good company and believe in complete and total honesty and open communication between two people. I admire a man who is confident and self-assured yet unfamiliar with ego and arrogance. ***, he is one for whom kindness and compassion are ***, honesty is a lifestyle and laughter is a habit…heavy emphasis on the laughter. That’s the best medicine. I should know! After all, I am a nurse!I love adventures in travel and my passport is my favorite book. I also love chicken tikka. Musically, I am all ears, but, please, no operaSo, if any of this resonates with you, then what are you waiting for? Let’s make that initial connection and see if there is exciting possibility written all over this! A place that we can get to know each other. Coffee, drinks???

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Innogen

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I know that my life would be 'sweeter' sharing it with a man who really cares about me. I also know that I'm ready to be that person for someone, too. It's only taken me half my life to realize this, and to be in this mindset because I want to be, not because I feel as though someone 'my age'; should. (I hope you get the humor in that)I'm happy, fit and totally unself-conscious, except when writing these profiles. I have a sense of adventure without being a thrill-seeking junkie...I think my daily experiences are pretty exciting on any given day! Most mornings I work out, the usual could be running, spinning, weight training or kick boxing. I also enjoy a pretty challenging Hot Yoga class, once in a while.I cook with real butter and eat cheese. I prefer to eat whole and healthy food. Watercress and 'salads' aren't on the menu. That isn't to say I eat everything with no conscience I just keep it pretty healthy. Let's just say bread is NOT a bad word in my nutritional vocabulary. I love to cook and it's really a bit of self expression when I get into the kitchen. I am a wine-o with a pretty good palate, and discovering wines and sharing them with friends is a passion.I have a serious job, but don't take it too seriously. Let's just say I have time to meet someone and the desire to make a relationship top priority. I'm hoping to find somone who knows what he likes, lives a full life, and believes, as I do, that a partner would enhance his life. Anything else you want to know about me, might be better said on the phone or in a meeting. I mean, how much can you really know about someone from a well rehearsed paragraph? :) I prefer to have you decide what would be a great meeting place or situation after we've spoken on the phone, or gotten to know one another ***

  • Carleigh

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    " Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." ~ Dr. SuessHi. :)First and foremost I am the proud and lucky mother of amazingly cool 11 year old twin boys! (I know, I know!!! But MINE really ARE the best!! lol) I would not be on this site if I was not serious about pursuing and having time for a romantic relationship. That being said, things DO come up when you have children, and I would like to meet someone who understands and respects that. Good. Got that out of the way! :))I am very energetic. I am outgoing and love good conversation. Laughing and smiling are a must!! I am NOT a couch potato! Love to work out and run.I take good care of myself and I am always told I do not look my age. Certainly dont act it...kind of silly and goofy I guess. But I know when serious is called for. Definitely like spontaneity and trying new things! I love to go out to dinner locally (somewhere on the water is my favorite! I am just as happy curled up on the couch on a cold rainy night with a glass of wine, some great music, or a movie, and someone special to enjoy it with!! (a fire in the fireplace would be a big bonus!)The beach is probably my favorite place to be. Luckily I live very close.I do love Sunday football...but there is always the DVR (lol) if a better offer arises!I would just like to meet someone who I am attracted to inside and out. Who means what they say, and says what they mean!!Not interested in playing games or just "hooking up". So if you are, Im definitely not for you. If you are not affectionate and do not like kissing much, Im also definitely not for you. Im a very physical person. I like contact! But not a bit clingy...does that make sense?If you are funny, honest ,athletic, playful, adventurous, romantic (now Im pushing it arent I??) and sincere about finding someone to make life just that much better...well then we may just get lucky!!! A casual place for a drink. We will KNOW if we want to stay for dinner, or just part friends. :))

  • Lashunda

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    OK! Almost one week in with meetville. Am I getting the hang of this? Not sure! Hi, I am a SWF who is looking for a long term relationship. At 48, that does not necessarily mean there is a wedding involved. But it DOES mean I have little to no patience for hooking up, casual contact, serial dating, et cetera. I have a wonderfully full, rich life which can only be improved, by the addition of a partner.I most enjoy casual activities. I am completely game for black tie, and can probably out-snob the best of them but, like I stated, I most enjoy the casual.My interests are many, but a few are : Gardening, hanging with my dogs, home improvement projects, a meal in an outdoor restaurant, cooking and baking (from scratch with real ingredients thank you very much), camping, beach... camping at the beach. But that doesn't mean I don't love and enjoy lots of other things; indeed it's easier to state: I do not enjoy movie theaters and any activity where my life is potentially in jeopardy. I am probably up for everything else, or can at least be persuaded into it! LOL

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