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Esperanza, 46

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About Me

Prefer just to share more about myself with someone that catches my attention. My life is good, love my career, just missing that special someone. Hoping to maybe stumble upon the right kind of connection and chemistry that could lead to long-term...someone genuine, someone not in or not really out of a relationship, healthy, stable, respectful yet playful and of course happy and affectionate. I have no drama in my life and definitely don't desire anyone elses. I haven't met many people this way, very few actually. I guess I would say I am hoping for the exception to the walking dead from past relationships or dating trials and anyone in what resembles midlife crisis, past all of that and able to connect on a real level with a little social grace. Go from here, see what happens, no expectations. Peace! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Betsy

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    .. Breakfast in bed is done for no reason other than I wanted to make your morning special. We set goals and work on them together. We Travel, w/ kids and without. I love sports ......... I believe that touch is the best form of communication. I am a very hands on type of person which makes me an excellent communicator. We are best friends, lovers and share in ALL aspects of each other’s lives. No secrets!!! WE decisions, not Me decisions. If you spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, you'll miss finding the one who treats you like a priority! I am looking to be your priority as you are mine. A desire to spend a lot of time together and develop the strongest and closest of relationships is a must. Also a must, the ability and desire to maintain a level of independence - activities, time with friends, etc., that compliment and build upon our relationship but don’t necessarily include each other directly. I cherish the vision and feeling of having someone I can depend and rely on; trust, and share thoughts, emotions, and experiences with that I’d never share with anyone else – and knowing that he feels the same way about me. But most IMPORTANTLY when the dust settles, at the end of the day... years….I don't have to wonder where you are because I can feel you grip my hand standing beside me smiling, GLAD to be there. Same as everyone else...blah blah blah but more importantly what would the second date consist of.....

  • Ashly

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    People have told me that I'm smart, cute, and funny. I'm not, of course, told any of the bad things. :-) I hope that I'm thought of as kind, positive, and generous also. I enjoy going out for dinner. Staying in and sipping wine while cooking is nice too. Getting lost in a good book is my idea of escape. I also love music. My taste range everywhere from classical to rock. I haven't ever, however, liked country music. I like spending time in nature too. I enjoy hiking, nature photography and wild birds. I like hanging out by the pool (or in it) in the summer months and by the fireplace in the winter. I'd love to travel more. I particularly like mountains and beaches.I’m looking for someone who is kind, sweet, and positive. Intelligence and confidence are a must. Ultimately, someone who is utterly comfortable with me (and vice versa) would be ideal. Tall is a bonus. I’m ***and have been overheard saying I like a man I can climb.

  • Vanna

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    We're a good match because... We know that we have been blessed and are grateful. We know we have a good life. We do a job that we're proud of. We hold hands. We volunteer in the community. We honor our military and are patriots. We enjoy being the other half of a couple, with all the social activities that entails: dancing, cuddling at the movies, having mutual friends over for a meal, to play cards, or to meet us at a local football or hockey game. We live within a 30 minute drive of each other, and are open to the idea of living together in the future. We take random evening drives, or just have a spontaneous weekend away somewhere romantic. We surround ourselves with spiritual, positive, hardworking, honest people. We're open to exploring the world together! You're good for me because... In addition to things listed in the first paragraph, I'm a sucker for your hard biceps, your great smile and the fact that you think the glass is half full, not half empty. You're serious, but then will say or do something goofy that makes me laugh. You're passionate and compassionate. You're a romantic man--a man who treats me like a lady in public. You're a ";; someone who's confident, who's comfortable in his skin and knows he's attractive, but isn't arrogant or narcissistic. You're understanding, patient and encouraging, as I continue my journey to lose weight and live a healthier lifestyle. You're a man who misses me when we're away from each other and leaves me sexy voicemail at my office, while I'm in meetings. You're a man who says romantic things to me on the phone while he's in the checkout line, and doesn't care who hears him. I'm good for you because... In addition to things listed in the first paragraph, I'm someone to go on a long-term romantic adventure with. I'm someone with passion, laughter and two little rescue dogs. I live in a drama-free zone and am pretty mellow. I'm someone who will be beside you through thick and thin. I don't like confrontation or arguments. I'm a very feminine and traditional woman in a lot of ways, but one who is also adventurous and curious about life. I'm someone who has a corporate career, yet is also a designer and writer. I'm a woman who is shy around strangers, but confident, once she knows someone. I'm a woman who, even though she can't have children of her own, loves children and has 7 godchildren scattered around the country. I'm a woman who enjoys any type of music, except heavy metal or rap. And, I'm a woman who is candid and honest, but not rude or sarcastic.PS - I'm flattered, but sorry guys, I'm NOT sexually attracted to black men. It's more of a stroll than a walk though--my Dachshund is 10 and we go at her pace. LoL The point is, we're still getting to know each other, so we need to be comfortable. This could also be a coffee somewhere, putt-putt golf, or a game of Scrabble! The conversation and the laughter are so much more important than the location and how much money we spend. The strongest foundation for a relationship is to be friends first. That first handshake and hug are crucial. They will determine if there's a spark that indicates this will be a deeper relationship, or if we're going to just be friends. If either of us don't feel that connection, it's completely okay to say, "I'm just not feeling that spark with you". No harm done. It's not something that can be determined online, or over the phone. When you meet, you'll know.Thanks for reading my profile and have a wonderful day!Irish

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