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Vannessa, 49

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About Me

Interested in ages * **** I love to just BE. It's not the easiest to let go of what happened yesterday and not to be anxious about tomorrow, but I truly believe in this and work constantly at it. It's liberating and frees up the heart and soul..... I enjoy the company of another in doing whatever activities we come up with. I've had a long-term relationship in Fitness and it continues to be important to me, however, obsessed Muscle-Heads need not apply---no longer have time for that. I prefer to wash and detail my own car and fix things around the house myself and not just the girlie things. :-) I'm quite self-sufficient, believe me. However! Is it so wrong to imagine my partner just taking care of me from time to time? Reciprocated, of course, when you're on your "deathbed" from that headcold.... :-) Personally, I continue to grow in many ways....so important! Something to share but not on a public profile … I'm probably too sensitive for my own good, but I’m a passionate person (Scorpio) and am fiercely protective of myself and those who are important to me. Tenacious, Strong-Willed, Compassionate, and as Silly as often as I can get away with.... I LOVE to laugh! I love easy and silly humor...... So! I will preface what you read next by saying that the following represents so much about me and how I feel. However, at the same time, I want to slowly build a friendship and not jump into the serious aspect too soon.I'm somewhat of an introvert, although you might not think so upon us meeting! I don't feel comfortable in large groups any longer....haven't figured out this one yet :-) But I will say, if there were a great club to go to for dancing, I'm there! I do know that I want that one on one best friend-in-a-man thing. Not the clingy thing, but just being content hanging out together and really enjoying it!...the list goes on.. Hiking, some reality shows (yup), and Concerts (from rock to classical), watching pro football games (go Titans!.. no comments, please). Love the Arts and live concerts: Dance, Comedy, Musicals, etc.....Calm communication is key towards a healthy relationship... You can ride emotional rollercoasters on your own; besides, they make me nauseaus. Make of a relationship what you want. Yours is the choice to believe it to be a gift or not. I’m an eternal romantic and appreciate the importance of having true romance in my life. I want to meet someone with great teeth and a warm smile, a truly open heart, honesty and real integrity. Someone not much older than myself; a little younger is fine :-) . I don't see where we can post the age range we look for, so I'll put it here: ***age range. I was open to longer distance, but if we can't see each on a regular basis, due to drive time, how could things go anywhere? Would it set us up for disappointment? These song lyrics come to mind more and more: "I Might Have To Wait, I'll Never Give Up, I Guess It's Half Timing, And The Other Half's Luck / Wherever You Are, Whenever It's Right, You Come Out Of Nowhere And Into My Life............I Just Haven't Met You Yet......." The deeper qualities in a man I hope to meet can’t just be shared in this format. I’m not looking for, nor do I need perfection! Merely perfect for me; perfect for each other. Meet for coffee first?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Natosha

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am looking for a nice guy between ***, who wants to have fun doing whatever. I love to ride my horses in the mountains and camp with them sometimes. Yes I have horses, truck, trailer camping gear...want to go??? I am looking for a special guy who can be affectionate without being overly clingy or possessive,and enjoys some of the same things I enjoy. I love classic and southern rock music and live bands, and enjoy a good game of pool. i like to ride motorcycles too as well, and enjoy boating, swimming, hiking, grilling out on the back deck, listening to music, just chilling or taking a road trip to go see or do something cool. I'm kind of an outdoors-things-for-outdoors-days and vice versa. Meaning, I'm not a couch potato and prefer to actually get out and do something meaningful, practical, or just plain fun. . If it isn't raining, let's go outside and do something fun! if it's not an outdoor day, let's hunt a good movie and make a good dinner. I am intelligent, articulate, and don't mind a bit to get my hands dirty doing farm work or other stuff. I'm pretty handy and can take care of myself. . I am also a professional at work and am very good at what I do. I have a decent job, my own home, and am financially responsible. Since all you guys put your toys in the pix, I figured I'd do the same and add the horses I own and my iron horse as well. And I don't mind a bit to ride on the back of your bike if you've got one. If you think we have something in common I would love to hear from you. It would be great to see a nice introductory message with a little bit about yourself and why you chose to respond to my ad in order to start a conversation. I would do the same for you so I could stand out from everyone else. Think about something creative we might both enjoy and then take it from there. Something we both agree upon and just enjoy.

  • Ardella

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am a great woman! I have 5 grown children and number 8 grandchild due in March! I am a very loving person and also very affectionate! Not into games nor casual sex!Not looking for booty call.. Lawdy mercy !! .Trying this again to update! I am a real.. Straight forward, a lil impatient at times and I can snore with the best of em !! Lol !. Whiny.. ****y lol but hey can't we all? Lol as you will see I am very open and honest! I don't play games and don't expect you to either!!! Too old for that sh*t:***

  • Della

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I think I am stuck in old fashion world where you meet someone and the magic is there. Sometimes i really dislike new technology. Anyone? Anyone?Is there anyone out there? Hello?Maybe I'm doing this wrong :( I think I have to meet you out (dinner or coffee) first. A second date on the other hand, is much easier. If I really was listening to you, I have figured out the things we had in common. I would definitely go with one of those activities, both of us have fun and get to know each other.

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