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Vannessa, 49

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Interested in ages * **** I love to just BE. It's not the easiest to let go of what happened yesterday and not to be anxious about tomorrow, but I truly believe in this and work constantly at it. It's liberating and frees up the heart and soul..... I enjoy the company of another in doing whatever activities we come up with. I've had a long-term relationship in Fitness and it continues to be important to me, however, obsessed Muscle-Heads need not apply---no longer have time for that. I prefer to wash and detail my own car and fix things around the house myself and not just the girlie things. :-) I'm quite self-sufficient, believe me. However! Is it so wrong to imagine my partner just taking care of me from time to time? Reciprocated, of course, when you're on your "deathbed" from that headcold.... :-) Personally, I continue to grow in many ways....so important! Something to share but not on a public profile … I'm probably too sensitive for my own good, but I’m a passionate person (Scorpio) and am fiercely protective of myself and those who are important to me. Tenacious, Strong-Willed, Compassionate, and as Silly as often as I can get away with.... I LOVE to laugh! I love easy and silly humor...... So! I will preface what you read next by saying that the following represents so much about me and how I feel. However, at the same time, I want to slowly build a friendship and not jump into the serious aspect too soon.I'm somewhat of an introvert, although you might not think so upon us meeting! I don't feel comfortable in large groups any longer....haven't figured out this one yet :-) But I will say, if there were a great club to go to for dancing, I'm there! I do know that I want that one on one best friend-in-a-man thing. Not the clingy thing, but just being content hanging out together and really enjoying it!...the list goes on.. Hiking, some reality shows (yup), and Concerts (from rock to classical), watching pro football games (go Titans!.. no comments, please). Love the Arts and live concerts: Dance, Comedy, Musicals, etc.....Calm communication is key towards a healthy relationship... You can ride emotional rollercoasters on your own; besides, they make me nauseaus. Make of a relationship what you want. Yours is the choice to believe it to be a gift or not. I’m an eternal romantic and appreciate the importance of having true romance in my life. I want to meet someone with great teeth and a warm smile, a truly open heart, honesty and real integrity. Someone not much older than myself; a little younger is fine :-) . I don't see where we can post the age range we look for, so I'll put it here: ***age range. I was open to longer distance, but if we can't see each on a regular basis, due to drive time, how could things go anywhere? Would it set us up for disappointment? These song lyrics come to mind more and more: "I Might Have To Wait, I'll Never Give Up, I Guess It's Half Timing, And The Other Half's Luck / Wherever You Are, Whenever It's Right, You Come Out Of Nowhere And Into My Life............I Just Haven't Met You Yet......." The deeper qualities in a man I hope to meet can’t just be shared in this format. I’m not looking for, nor do I need perfection! Merely perfect for me; perfect for each other. Meet for coffee first?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kyle

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi! Thanks for taking time to stop by and read my profile. I am a busy mom with three children ages 10, 14, and 16. All of us enjoy being active especially when the weather turns nice. As a family we go to the gym together three times a week. We love hockey (even if we are southerners!) and make sure we attend a couple of Hurricane games each year. I teach at an elementary school and love it. I have been in education for over 16 years. I am a positive person who tries to find the good in most circumstances. I have been in too many relationships with pessimistic men, so NO GRUMPY PANTS need to apply. If it's a nice day I want to be outside doing something. I don't like to be cold EVER, so winter is my least favorite season. I enjoy being a mom and keeping busy with my kids but I would enjoy having someone to go out with occasionally. Even though I'm not a huge television wathcher, I don't mind chilling on the couch every now and then to watch a romantic comedy or some NCIS. I can dress up and be a girlie girl or be totally casual and hang out at the hockey rink. I am not a major exercise nut but I am striving to keep fit (if for no other reason, to just keep up with my kids)! I would like to be with someone who also likes to stay fit, healthy and active. I am a Christian and very grounded in my faith. I want to be with someone who feels just as blessed with what God has provided them as I do. If it sounds like we have similar interests, please don't hesitate to send me a note. I would like the first date to be at a semi-quiet cafe or restaurant so conversation with each other is not distracted. I think a lunch date would be great for starters; nothing too fancy, stressful, or complicated.

  • Nonie

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am an active and outgoing person, looking for someone who shares some similar values and interest...although I am also willing to try new things as well. I enjoy exercise - running, swimming, walking, being near the water or in the mountains. Love down time too like cooking with someone special, an evening in the hot tub and who doesnt love a walk on the beach. I am a nurse and love my career. I also have three children who are the best part of my life. Hope to find someone who respects that. My goal is to find a partner in life...someone to share the good and bad, somone who has my back as I will have theirs. I have a good job and great kids, but would love to find someone fun to spend time with and more. Doesn't really matter.Someplace fun and casual..Will take the rest as it comes.

  • Many

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am an Artistic, friendly and sweet woman – I try to enjoy the simple things in life because I feel that they matter the more - I am looking for an honest companionship - I do not want to be lied to - I want someone that want to treat me like a Queen and who is proud of me but I also want to be able to treat my companion the same as he treats me but he will be my King…..I enjoy the simple things in life like receiving flower for no reason - just that you thought about me but to hold hands and to kiss are just as special too - I want someone to enjoy this life with me…… I like going to the Old Market and walking around looking at thing…..it is really pretty when it is snowing…

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