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Pamelia, 49

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About Me

So, we all do it on here... that is, judge a book by it's cover. I am as guilty as everyone else. Most anyone I am interested in wants a slim Barbie doll type. Many who show an interest in me I don't seem to have much of a spark for. I have never been one to date or be in a relationship just to have a man around. That just isn't me. Sometimes I wonder if I even know what I want.I am a contradiction.I like tall men ... but not alwaysI prefer an educated man ... but often get along great with a guy who isn't but has lots of passion for life.I have dated mainly Caucasian men... but one of the most amazing men I ever dated was Middle Eastern.I prefer slender or muscular men ... but a great smile, flirty eyes or a charming wit can totally make me fall... no matter the body typeI need someone who is as financially stable as I am... but like a fool... if I found the right one... I would probably give everything I have if he needed it.The things I would never compromise on are: a man with a good heart, kinda nature, strong family/friend relationships, passionate, slow to anger and quick to forgive, positive attitude and motivation. Thanks for taking a minute to look at my profile. Here's a little about me... I am a hardworking and dedicated person. I am independent and successful in my career. However, I am also a free spirit at times and very fun loving. When I like someone I probably fall too hard and fast...that's just me. Sometimes it causes a little heartache. Some of my favorite things are travel, strawberries, summertime, fondue, cooking on the grill,soaking in a hot tub, and of course shopping! like to think that I am a pretty open-minded person. I try to accept others for who they are. It is hard enough to change yourself when you want to ... I think it's nearly impossible to change someone else. My life is good but it would be fabulous to share it with the right man. Now, what am I looking for you might ask...if you have gotten this far! Important Info: I am looking for a caucasian man. I need someone that is intelligent, hardworking, witty and does not mind showing his feelings. He doesn't have to be perfect....just perfect for me! I need someone that ultimately wants a commitment and that I have chemistry with. I know that with the right man life would be amazing...for both of us. Please, Please, have a picture on your profile if u want to chat with me. Hmmm... I suppose a nice first date would be a casual dinner with good conversation. I love to dine outside when the weather is nice. I don't think the location or cuisine is really important. The important thing is getting to know a little about someone new and seeing where things go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I enjoy maintaining a healthy lifestyle while living life to the fullest! Eating right most of the time and working out a few days a week are important to me! I would like my partner to also look and be somewhat physically fit! Not really looking for the guy that works out ALL the time or uses steroids...not at this point in my life...I don't need perfection....just healthy and normal!I enjoy many things socially as well...fine dining, casual dining, the beach, concerts, events around town....pretty much anything that looks to be fun! I also enjoy chilling at home...maybe cooking something nice or ordering in and just relaxing with a bottle of wine quite often these days.I'm looking for a man to enjoy some of this with.....not just any man....the right man for me!If you feel that may be you...please send me a message! Drinks and an appetizer or two to share at a relaxing place....so that you can chat for awhile and get to know each other a little...for a 1st date!Then if we hit it off dinner is always nice for a REAL date....

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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  • Nerissa

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I wear my sunglasses *** night. I'm sassy in a sweet way...I can and will be a great friend to a man who treats me like a lady..I can be silly and loud at times but never want conflict..I've learned my plan in this world is not mine...my true and trusted friend God has chosen, now I have to do my part...I believe its important, essential to want to spend time together, communicate laugh, cry and be interested in each other's concerns..don't try to solve their problems but be available...just as I would for a great friend.. Thats just me... to become friends and see what the heart desires. I know what I like and dont like. ONly you can show me who you really are. I love the outdoors but also like to be home with good company and food and old movies or listening to good music..... Love listening to praise music because I hear good God promises...the man I meet and fall in love with must love the Lord...I do and am not ashamed....Still a sinner !!!! Lol.. who isn't? Don't try and change me nor will I try to change you..I desire a fun loving confident uplifting chemistry filled relationship with my best male friend...and I love to kiss a great kissing partner...lol....beach beach beach........Take me to a Tattoo parlor or a vintage shop, even a salvage yard (love to re-purpose items)or the beach or a ride on the back of your motorcycle and Im in heaven. Im the mother to 3 grown children and GrAnny to 2 jewels who all live in NY. The Holy Spirit fills me I am a Lover o.f Jesus Christ. Im happy being me, would like to get to know you to see what good can develop from our friendship. . Something we both agree on....a walk...an ice cream...cup of coffee or tea...sitting on a park bench and talking...tattoo parlor...a beautiful flower garden....swim in the ocean. A glass of wine. Something off the wall and exciting......make a good impression being who we are..

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