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Pamelia, 49

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About Me

So, we all do it on here... that is, judge a book by it's cover. I am as guilty as everyone else. Most anyone I am interested in wants a slim Barbie doll type. Many who show an interest in me I don't seem to have much of a spark for. I have never been one to date or be in a relationship just to have a man around. That just isn't me. Sometimes I wonder if I even know what I want.I am a contradiction.I like tall men ... but not alwaysI prefer an educated man ... but often get along great with a guy who isn't but has lots of passion for life.I have dated mainly Caucasian men... but one of the most amazing men I ever dated was Middle Eastern.I prefer slender or muscular men ... but a great smile, flirty eyes or a charming wit can totally make me fall... no matter the body typeI need someone who is as financially stable as I am... but like a fool... if I found the right one... I would probably give everything I have if he needed it.The things I would never compromise on are: a man with a good heart, kinda nature, strong family/friend relationships, passionate, slow to anger and quick to forgive, positive attitude and motivation. Thanks for taking a minute to look at my profile. Here's a little about me... I am a hardworking and dedicated person. I am independent and successful in my career. However, I am also a free spirit at times and very fun loving. When I like someone I probably fall too hard and fast...that's just me. Sometimes it causes a little heartache. Some of my favorite things are travel, strawberries, summertime, fondue, cooking on the grill,soaking in a hot tub, and of course shopping! like to think that I am a pretty open-minded person. I try to accept others for who they are. It is hard enough to change yourself when you want to ... I think it's nearly impossible to change someone else. My life is good but it would be fabulous to share it with the right man. Now, what am I looking for you might ask...if you have gotten this far! Important Info: I am looking for a caucasian man. I need someone that is intelligent, hardworking, witty and does not mind showing his feelings. He doesn't have to be perfect....just perfect for me! I need someone that ultimately wants a commitment and that I have chemistry with. I know that with the right man life would be amazing...for both of us. Please, Please, have a picture on your profile if u want to chat with me. Hmmm... I suppose a nice first date would be a casual dinner with good conversation. I love to dine outside when the weather is nice. I don't think the location or cuisine is really important. The important thing is getting to know a little about someone new and seeing where things go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Natosha

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am looking for a nice guy between ***, who wants to have fun doing whatever. I love to ride my horses in the mountains and camp with them sometimes. Yes I have horses, truck, trailer camping gear...want to go??? I am looking for a special guy who can be affectionate without being overly clingy or possessive,and enjoys some of the same things I enjoy. I love classic and southern rock music and live bands, and enjoy a good game of pool. i like to ride motorcycles too as well, and enjoy boating, swimming, hiking, grilling out on the back deck, listening to music, just chilling or taking a road trip to go see or do something cool. I'm kind of an outdoors-things-for-outdoors-days and vice versa. Meaning, I'm not a couch potato and prefer to actually get out and do something meaningful, practical, or just plain fun. . If it isn't raining, let's go outside and do something fun! if it's not an outdoor day, let's hunt a good movie and make a good dinner. I am intelligent, articulate, and don't mind a bit to get my hands dirty doing farm work or other stuff. I'm pretty handy and can take care of myself. . I am also a professional at work and am very good at what I do. I have a decent job, my own home, and am financially responsible. Since all you guys put your toys in the pix, I figured I'd do the same and add the horses I own and my iron horse as well. And I don't mind a bit to ride on the back of your bike if you've got one. If you think we have something in common I would love to hear from you. It would be great to see a nice introductory message with a little bit about yourself and why you chose to respond to my ad in order to start a conversation. I would do the same for you so I could stand out from everyone else. Think about something creative we might both enjoy and then take it from there. Something we both agree upon and just enjoy.

  • Merrill

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    For starters, I was told I'm rude for not replying, even if I'm not interested. Would it be better to reply even if I'm not interested?Just a down to earth girl wondering if Mr. Right exists. I don't have a problem being alone but having the right person around could make life more enjoyable. I don't like to argue and I'm pretty independent, which a lot of guys don't like. I smoke and I snore lol If those things bother you, you may wanna pass on by :) I have 3 sons who are all making me a grandma in a few months and I'm very excited about it! Family is very important to me. I'm not much for long phone conversations. I pretty much say what needs to be said and I'm done. There are exceptions to that, but I will text forever if you want to.At this point in my life, I will no longer settle. I have in the past. I would rather be happy alone than be with the wrong person.Looks aren't the most important thing and what is beautiful to one person may not be beautiful to another, but I have to be physically attracted to you. I don't know anyone who wants to be with someone they aren't attracted to. That isn't being shallow, just realistic.A lot of people ask if I'm Asian. I'm not.If you don't have a pic posted, it leads me to believe you may have something to hide. Please don't message me if you have a significant other."I've gotten so caught up in being alone that I'm afraid of what might happen if I actually find someone who can take me away from it."

  • Saniyah

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    hobbies are walking, watching movies, collecting movies, going to the movies. my goal is to someday get my RN. I am a bubbly blonde, but not a loose woman. i love hip-hop music, rap music and contempoarary music. My first date would be in a common place so we both would comfortable. I would like to go out to eat and talk about his interest or his children. Also if asked I would talk about my interest. If everything is going well maybe go to a movie. His choice of movie. I like all kinds of movies.

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