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I love to spend time with people, family, friends, that I care for. I love to garden, exercise is very important to me and any activity that I can get exercise is something that I will probably enjoy. I love to dance, not a pro but I certainly enjoy it. I love music also and I always have music playing somewhere. I have a grown daughter whom I love very much. I love my job and am making advancements there and that makes me happy.I am looking for someone to date and go and have a good time with. I do not want anything serious but I'm not looking to get laid either, it's not about that kind of fun that I'm looking for. With the right person there is the potential to move beyond dating but please understand that it's important for me to get to know you and you to get to know me before we move beyond just dating. I want to build a friendship and know that we are good there before anything else. If you are looking for something else then you may as well not look in this direction.I've lost a lot of people that I care about this year and so it's been a tough year along with a couple of failed relationships. With that being said, I am wanting to enjoy life and have a good time going to concerts, out to eat, flea markets, museums, traveling, and there are many other things that I enjoy.. I'm very independent, strong willed, strong minded, opinionated, and certainly am not a wall flower. You will always know what I think, what I feel, and if you can't handle that then you will want to NOT contact me. I don't need a man, but want someone to enjoy time with. It will take a strong willed man to be able to handle me so if you are not a strong man, don't bother. It's very important that you also are comfortable in your own skin. I hate it when people try to be something or someone they are not, that pick themselves apart, and simply do not care enough about themselves. If you are not comfy with YOU, how can I be? If you do not care enough about you, how can I? Then of course, there are the ones that go to the extreme opposite and what I am wanting is a well rounded, well balanced personality. Someone that accepts themselves for who they are yet does try to always improve upon that as there is always room for improvement. It's also important that you are NOT defensive about yourself. I hate walking around on egg shells when I speak my mind. I have ideas, opinions, and thoughts that I WILL speak about. It does NOT mean that I'm putting yours down but rather sharing with you and I hope that you do the same. It's a good way to learn about other ways to possibly view something and I am NOT always right and I know it and I like to learn how you view things, who you are, what you truly think and feel about things.It's important that you are mature, that you are stable. I don't want to take care of anyone financially and don't need anyone to do that for me. I am not out to babysit anyone. Hell, I'm almost 51 and people in our age group should be able to take care of themselves at this point. While I know that bad luck happens and some things are out of a person's control, until you have yourself in a better position it is my view point that you are not ready to bring another person into your life as it's setting yourself up for failure for the most part. Yes, I've been through this so I know very well what I'm talking about. Though compassion is a good thing, when used against you..it's not a good thing. I would just rather date someone that has stability and security in their life and are ready to focus on a relationship if the potential is there for that.I am a very bright, kind, considerate, giving person. I am very intelligent, strong willed, motivated, loving, and good, with lots of love and compassion in my heart for all living beings. Do not insult my intelligence for I can spot a fake, a player, a cheater, and a liar a mile away. While I may choose to give you the benefit of the doubt, as soon as I find that I was right to begin with, if I do at first think that you may be any of those things, the relationship will end immediately. As I said, I'm smart, I don't play games so do us both a favor and don't even try. Life is too short, spare us the waste of time.If you are looking for a giving, loving, compassionate person that gives her all to a relationship then send me a message. A pet peeve of mine...why do some of you wear sunglasses in ALL of your pics, even when taken inside? I get the pics taken outside but it still would be nice to see your entire face. I can't see what you really look like and wonder what it is you are hiding. Just a little tip...I personally will not reply to someone that I can't see their entire face in at least one pic.If anything I've written here offends you then we were NOT meant to meet. I'm honest in what I want so less time is wasted. It's doing us both a favor in my opinion. It is not my intention to be offensive, just honest and there is a huge difference. Oh, this is tough as it has to be fine with both people. Meeting somewhere first to see that we like each other, having coffee or a drink. After that dinner and dancing is good. Whatever we both are good with works fine with me.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Josphine

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I rather be alone than have a cheater or someone that lies or is an abuser!!! Honestly and trust is very important to me. I'm looking for a real relationship! Not a Playboy! I'm the type that loves to hold hands, kiss and cuddle. I"m very affectionate.I like to be treated like a lady. I love to smile and make you smile and have fun.I'm sure the right guy is out there somewhere for me. I really love the outdoors, camping fishing, swimming, boating, gardening and landscaping,.siting around a fire, grilling, and nature. I enjoy the little things in life. I never got to travel but would love to. I do hate eating alone tho. I'm not perfect nor wealthy but I'm a good woman. I'm NOT going to send nude pics!!! There was guys I really wanted to date who pressured me asking, then I disappear. Let's face it. I bet I like sex more than men. Well I know I do, lol. I want you to want me for me! who I am. I know some women hate sex. I'm not one of them so put that out of your mind. Oh and if your attached to your cell phone or addicted to dating please pass on me.

  • Avery

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    A real person. I'm in tune with the needs of the earth. I like my peace and balance. We all need it. I feel like I've lived many lives, in this life alone. I've learned much and given much. I've seen and felt my share of tragedy. I look for the light everyday. Sometimes I am the light sometimes I'm not. I will not become someone I'm not just so they will like me. If I can get a smile from someone or make someone laugh each day then it's a day well lived. I like to go to the gym. I like to eat relatively healthy and I like to play. I enjoy excitement and also my alone time. I inherited a wonderful gift from my grandparents who were both artists. I draw, I write , I create. I sometimes might have an overly active imagination. I believe in energy and healing. Rock and roll is here to stay! I have a dragon . Must love cats and assorted creatures. Don't waste my time. Be authentic. Know who you are. Love to rock. Care about your body. Don't eat crap every day for Gods sake! Like to do things interesting. Not just go to the bar, watch football and burp up your beer. Be kind and compassionate. Help your fellow man . Looking for a partner to evolve with on a path to higher consciousness. Peace , love and rock and roll! Let's talk! Dating is not easy. Most people I've dated don't do it well. Figure this...you'll know by the first date if someone resonates with your heart and soul. And, it's a meet not a date.

  • Halley

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    "We shall never know all the good that a simple smile can do." I love to laugh and enjoy the company of a few good friends and family. My work keeps me busy when it needs to and allows for downtime. I'm not one for the endless night life or 'friends' list so you will most likely find me with a good book/movie, listening to my latest favorite song, in the kitchen cooking or absorbing the good vibes someplace near the water...What am I looking for? A man with an open heart and mind who is willing to take the time and make an effort to get to know a woman. We all have a story to tell and our own happy ending in mind- turning the page to see what happens next is the fun part.... Will it be a short story? A novel? The first date could be of many options.... Coffee, dinner, music, walk in the park etc.

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