Lawana, 50
Online
About Me
I love to spend time with people, family, friends, that I care for. I love to garden, exercise is very important to me and any activity that I can get exercise is something that I will probably enjoy. I love to dance, not a pro but I certainly enjoy it. I love music also and I always have music playing somewhere. I have a grown daughter whom I love very much. I love my job and am making advancements there and that makes me happy.I am looking for someone to date and go and have a good time with. I do not want anything serious but I'm not looking to get laid either, it's not about that kind of fun that I'm looking for. With the right person there is the potential to move beyond dating but please understand that it's important for me to get to know you and you to get to know me before we move beyond just dating. I want to build a friendship and know that we are good there before anything else. If you are looking for something else then you may as well not look in this direction.I've lost a lot of people that I care about this year and so it's been a tough year along with a couple of failed relationships. With that being said, I am wanting to enjoy life and have a good time going to concerts, out to eat, flea markets, museums, traveling, and there are many other things that I enjoy.. I'm very independent, strong willed, strong minded, opinionated, and certainly am not a wall flower. You will always know what I think, what I feel, and if you can't handle that then you will want to NOT contact me. I don't need a man, but want someone to enjoy time with. It will take a strong willed man to be able to handle me so if you are not a strong man, don't bother. It's very important that you also are comfortable in your own skin. I hate it when people try to be something or someone they are not, that pick themselves apart, and simply do not care enough about themselves. If you are not comfy with YOU, how can I be? If you do not care enough about you, how can I? Then of course, there are the ones that go to the extreme opposite and what I am wanting is a well rounded, well balanced personality. Someone that accepts themselves for who they are yet does try to always improve upon that as there is always room for improvement. It's also important that you are NOT defensive about yourself. I hate walking around on egg shells when I speak my mind. I have ideas, opinions, and thoughts that I WILL speak about. It does NOT mean that I'm putting yours down but rather sharing with you and I hope that you do the same. It's a good way to learn about other ways to possibly view something and I am NOT always right and I know it and I like to learn how you view things, who you are, what you truly think and feel about things.It's important that you are mature, that you are stable. I don't want to take care of anyone financially and don't need anyone to do that for me. I am not out to babysit anyone. Hell, I'm almost 51 and people in our age group should be able to take care of themselves at this point. While I know that bad luck happens and some things are out of a person's control, until you have yourself in a better position it is my view point that you are not ready to bring another person into your life as it's setting yourself up for failure for the most part. Yes, I've been through this so I know very well what I'm talking about. Though compassion is a good thing, when used against you..it's not a good thing. I would just rather date someone that has stability and security in their life and are ready to focus on a relationship if the potential is there for that.I am a very bright, kind, considerate, giving person. I am very intelligent, strong willed, motivated, loving, and good, with lots of love and compassion in my heart for all living beings. Do not insult my intelligence for I can spot a fake, a player, a cheater, and a liar a mile away. While I may choose to give you the benefit of the doubt, as soon as I find that I was right to begin with, if I do at first think that you may be any of those things, the relationship will end immediately. As I said, I'm smart, I don't play games so do us both a favor and don't even try. Life is too short, spare us the waste of time.If you are looking for a giving, loving, compassionate person that gives her all to a relationship then send me a message. A pet peeve of mine...why do some of you wear sunglasses in ALL of your pics, even when taken inside? I get the pics taken outside but it still would be nice to see your entire face. I can't see what you really look like and wonder what it is you are hiding. Just a little tip...I personally will not reply to someone that I can't see their entire face in at least one pic.If anything I've written here offends you then we were NOT meant to meet. I'm honest in what I want so less time is wasted. It's doing us both a favor in my opinion. It is not my intention to be offensive, just honest and there is a huge difference. Oh, this is tough as it has to be fine with both people. Meeting somewhere first to see that we like each other, having coffee or a drink. After that dinner and dancing is good. Whatever we both are good with works fine with me.
PERSONAL INFORMATION
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Looking for
man
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Relationship
Divorced
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Have kids
No
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Wants kids
Someday
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Ethnicity
Caucasian
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Faith
Christian
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Body type
Slim
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Height
5'6"
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Eye color
Blue
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Smoke
No
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Drink
Yes, socially
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