Francis

• Meridian
• Idaho
• United States

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Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

Please note that my IM does not work when I'm signed in on my iPhone. Looks are nice, but brains (and personality) are the foundation. You are as outgoing, intelligent, articulate and feisty as I am. You consider yourself smart and cool with a touch of goofiness.. I have a multi faceted personality and am looking for the same. Let's do something exciting to get our adrenaline going! As much as I like all the cerebral stuff, I take great joy in being silly! Singing in the car, or catching someone off guard with a joke or prank are always awesome and make life fun. :) I'm not looking for perfection, but rather someone who is honest and open with their imperfections.Impress me with your heart and down to earth attitude. I don't care what you do for a living as much as I care for what you do as a kind, caring, compassionate, communicating human being. At the same time someone who can make decisions, knows when to take the lead, what they want, how to get it and not afraid to do it. I don't think this duality is that rare. It perfectly describes me.I believe that life is short and feel we should strive to make the best of whatever challenges are put to us. I am sometimes described as pragmatic but in reality I have a very soft emotional core, and once you get to know me the goofiness really comes out.I have a 6 year old that I have half time, week on week off. I am described as both responsible and adventurous, quick minded with a compassionate soul. Love to travel-- interesting facts---I've had****Don't be shy-send me an ***! I would like to start with coffee, drinks, a walk, or a game of pool and take it from there. If you fly fish, I could be convinced--I have the cute waders!

Lilah

• Meridian
• Idaho
• United States

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

Are you willing to laugh at my jokes? Sometimes they're even funny. I will reciprocate. Are you handsome, happy, healthy, and humorous; not necessarily in that order of importance? Do you appreciate the difference between taking your work seriously and taking yourself seriously? Are you someone who enjoys, appreciates and can handle the spontaneity of life? Do you laugh in the face of beltway traffic? Ok, maybe not, but still you don't get too wound up about it. Are you confident, conversant, and convivial? You're not too formal. It's fun to dress up once in awhile but, like me, you've done a lot of that already and enjoy t-shirts and jeans as much as tuxes and formal dresses. Or, I'll wear the tux and you can wear the dress, that should suprise them. I like to cook so it would be nice to be with someone who appreciates a good meal. I also enjoy sharing the kitchen. Eating out is fun too. I like reading the Sun. paper in bed with a cup of coffee/tea and company to share that with would be fabulous. My match would enjoy traveling to new places and learning about different cultures. He'll have his own interests and friends but they'll be some overlap with mine. If you wanted to do or try Yoga with me I'd be happy but it's definitely not a "have to have".Be comfortable with yourself and where you are in life. We all have baggage but you've checked yours either at the therapist's couch or in the past. You like women in general and your Mom in particular. If you don't like animals it will make me quite skeptical about your character, however, I would try and keep an open mind. I am fortunate to have a wonderful circle of friends. Although I always welcome new friendship, that is not my goal here. However, I do believe friendship is the most important aspect of a relationship. What about you?If you've read this far, note that my age is incorrect and meetville will not allow me to correct it. My profile was originally set up by a well meaning friend who does not think I look or act my age. But I am 55. Photos are current. Coffee or a glass of wine. Nothing formal. Next....a walk.

Lawana

• Meridian
• Idaho
• United States

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Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

I love to spend time with people, family, friends, that I care for. I love to garden, exercise is very important to me and any activity that I can get exercise is something that I will probably enjoy. I love to dance, not a pro but I certainly enjoy it. I love music also and I always have music playing somewhere. I have a grown daughter whom I love very much. I love my job and am making advancements there and that makes me happy.I am looking for someone to date and go and have a good time with. I do not want anything serious but I'm not looking to get laid either, it's not about that kind of fun that I'm looking for. With the right person there is the potential to move beyond dating but please understand that it's important for me to get to know you and you to get to know me before we move beyond just dating. I want to build a friendship and know that we are good there before anything else. If you are looking for something else then you may as well not look in this direction.I've lost a lot of people that I care about this year and so it's been a tough year along with a couple of failed relationships. With that being said, I am wanting to enjoy life and have a good time going to concerts, out to eat, flea markets, museums, traveling, and there are many other things that I enjoy.. I'm very independent, strong willed, strong minded, opinionated, and certainly am not a wall flower. You will always know what I think, what I feel, and if you can't handle that then you will want to NOT contact me. I don't need a man, but want someone to enjoy time with. It will take a strong willed man to be able to handle me so if you are not a strong man, don't bother. It's very important that you also are comfortable in your own skin. I hate it when people try to be something or someone they are not, that pick themselves apart, and simply do not care enough about themselves. If you are not comfy with YOU, how can I be? If you do not care enough about you, how can I? Then of course, there are the ones that go to the extreme opposite and what I am wanting is a well rounded, well balanced personality. Someone that accepts themselves for who they are yet does try to always improve upon that as there is always room for improvement. It's also important that you are NOT defensive about yourself. I hate walking around on egg shells when I speak my mind. I have ideas, opinions, and thoughts that I WILL speak about. It does NOT mean that I'm putting yours down but rather sharing with you and I hope that you do the same. It's a good way to learn about other ways to possibly view something and I am NOT always right and I know it and I like to learn how you view things, who you are, what you truly think and feel about things.It's important that you are mature, that you are stable. I don't want to take care of anyone financially and don't need anyone to do that for me. I am not out to babysit anyone. Hell, I'm almost 51 and people in our age group should be able to take care of themselves at this point. While I know that bad luck happens and some things are out of a person's control, until you have yourself in a better position it is my view point that you are not ready to bring another person into your life as it's setting yourself up for failure for the most part. Yes, I've been through this so I know very well what I'm talking about. Though compassion is a good thing, when used against you..it's not a good thing. I would just rather date someone that has stability and security in their life and are ready to focus on a relationship if the potential is there for that.I am a very bright, kind, considerate, giving person. I am very intelligent, strong willed, motivated, loving, and good, with lots of love and compassion in my heart for all living beings. Do not insult my intelligence for I can spot a fake, a player, a cheater, and a liar a mile away. While I may choose to give you the benefit of the doubt, as soon as I find that I was right to begin with, if I do at first think that you may be any of those things, the relationship will end immediately. As I said, I'm smart, I don't play games so do us both a favor and don't even try. Life is too short, spare us the waste of time.If you are looking for a giving, loving, compassionate person that gives her all to a relationship then send me a message. A pet peeve of mine...why do some of you wear sunglasses in ALL of your pics, even when taken inside? I get the pics taken outside but it still would be nice to see your entire face. I can't see what you really look like and wonder what it is you are hiding. Just a little tip...I personally will not reply to someone that I can't see their entire face in at least one pic.If anything I've written here offends you then we were NOT meant to meet. I'm honest in what I want so less time is wasted. It's doing us both a favor in my opinion. It is not my intention to be offensive, just honest and there is a huge difference. Oh, this is tough as it has to be fine with both people. Meeting somewhere first to see that we like each other, having coffee or a drink. After that dinner and dancing is good. Whatever we both are good with works fine with me.