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Carmen, 41

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About Me

A bit about myself, first off…I haven’t dated in a LONG time. It’s a bit scary, but it’s time to join the fishes! I love doing so many things, most importantly love all that life has to offer so I thought it best to describe a great partner and what we might do…..; whether it be boating, skiing, snowmobiling, horseback riding, golf, tennis, taking drives and ending up at a cool hole in the wall for lunch, apple picking and pumpkin carving in the fall (fall is one of my favorite times of year), have an adventure in your own backyard and beyond, enjoy a bonfire on a beautiful evening, and cherish everyday like its your last. I love anything to do with boats in the summer and skiing/winter activities on the flip side! Also, love a guy that loves sports (football, baseball, hockey), but as for me, it is mostly the social aspect and entertaining during sports that I find the most fun! I love to entertain and have friends over for cards, dinner, etc. as well. I am very involved in our community, giving back by volunteering is a wonderful way to stay involved in my children’s lives! Most important to me: my kids, my friends and hopefully, some day a great partner! Live, laugh, love. Let's chat..... and figure it out. Looking forward to it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Callie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

  • Alejandra

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm the kind of girl who's most comfy in shorts and a t-shirt or jeans and a sweatshirt but also enjoy dressing up for a night out or special occasion. I enjoy all kinds of music but am usually listening to top 40-type stations. In the summer/fall, I try to take in some of the area's ethnic fairs and festivals - so much good food and fun! I have 2 kids that are with me most of the time. If you don't like kids or aren't interested in family, I'm not the one for you.I can be somewhat shy at first but once you get to know me, I'm very social. I love to laugh, enjoy movies, talking, gentle hikes enjoying nature, spending time with family and friends. I enjoy taking in a few Whitecaps and Griffins games each season. I'm not a big sports nut but I'm not completely uninformed either.I'm looking for someone who is funny, spontaneous, honest, family oriented, communicative, likes to go out and explore but also enjoys a quiet night at home, and is looking for a relationship with the right person. Coffee or lunch/dinner some place we can talk and get to know each other. Preferably without the distraction of TVs in every corner.

  • Gabriela

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm an educated woman. I am and have always been very independent, maybe to a fault. I am looking for someone that I can lean on (not financially) when life deals a crappy hand.I have a good sense of humor. Miss laughing with someone til I cry.Family is very important to me. I'm just a simple jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. Country girl at heart.Looking for someone to spend time with and share the simple things that life has to offer. Amazing what a simple phone call can do, just to see how my day is going.My daughter is my world. Now that she is out of the house its pretty quiet around here! :)FYI - If you send me a message and I am not interested, I will let you know. Do not take this to heart. Why bother wasting each other's time if there is nothing there - just being honest!PLEASE NOTE - you must be at least a little close to my age. Yes, yes, I know you're in your early 30's and you could "teach me a few tricks" or "make me more satisfied than an older guy" but I think I'll take my chances and look for someone that I don't have to teach and that has life experience as well as sheet experience. The first date, I imagine, will be typical. A coffee or drink.

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