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Carmen, 41

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About Me

A bit about myself, first off…I haven’t dated in a LONG time. It’s a bit scary, but it’s time to join the fishes! I love doing so many things, most importantly love all that life has to offer so I thought it best to describe a great partner and what we might do…..; whether it be boating, skiing, snowmobiling, horseback riding, golf, tennis, taking drives and ending up at a cool hole in the wall for lunch, apple picking and pumpkin carving in the fall (fall is one of my favorite times of year), have an adventure in your own backyard and beyond, enjoy a bonfire on a beautiful evening, and cherish everyday like its your last. I love anything to do with boats in the summer and skiing/winter activities on the flip side! Also, love a guy that loves sports (football, baseball, hockey), but as for me, it is mostly the social aspect and entertaining during sports that I find the most fun! I love to entertain and have friends over for cards, dinner, etc. as well. I am very involved in our community, giving back by volunteering is a wonderful way to stay involved in my children’s lives! Most important to me: my kids, my friends and hopefully, some day a great partner! Live, laugh, love. Let's chat..... and figure it out. Looking forward to it.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Callie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!

  • Marielle

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a great natured, intelligent,, attractive woman. I have happily moved back to N.C. After 14 years and can't wait to get out and explore my surroundings with someone. I am excited to head to the beach or get up to the mountains. I enjoy my down time. Having a good meal and sitting on the porch with a glass of wine, but I love to be active. Life is to short to sit in front of the T.V.New Season Just Started. I love good food, to garden,camp, and any kind of water. I like forms of expression so photography, art shows,music, and theater. I'm big into animals.I have been very fotunate to be well traveled***countries and counting) and love, love Ancient Cultures. I deeply enjoy learning new things and trying to acquire new talents. I like spending time with the person I'm with, and having fun with friends. I really like to dress up and go out, but I also have a little bit of tomboy in me and don't mind getting dirty. I drive a jeep and like dirt bikes, but I wouldn't say I'm into cars. A few things I'm not...I am not religious. I'm not someone who is largely into sports( I do really like Hockey though) I'm open to exploring sports, but if every Sunday includes Football or NASCAR I'm probably not the girl for you. Pls don't send me hate mail Lol....I know it's N.C. I'm just trying to be straight up.I don't have children. I like kids and respect how hard it is to be a parent, but I've been down that road,and it gets a little more complicated then most people would like to lead on.I would be open to dating someone with a teenager. If you do have kids...pls let me know an age range. People contact me , but they don't fill in that very important "blank" about their children. I would just prefer to be honest. Oh, did I say I'm honest, and that honesty and loyalty are very important to me. Well,that's a little about me. I look forward to hearing a little bit about you. Who do I hope to meet... I'll keep it simple. Someone close to my age and I can look up to physically ( taller then me) and emotionally. Someone within my own race. Someone who is attractive (inside and out) with intelligence, integrity, and a passion for having fun while we are working so hard to pay the bills. Who wants to laugh and has an understanding of the word Respect. Can I learn something from you? No pen pals pls. I did that in the third grade. I'm ready to meet someone.PS. If you think you could be out of my Age, Height, Weight range I will probably think that way too. Pls stay real. I look like my pic. I will not be going after some one who is too young for me. You shouldn't either. I love to go to the country, to camp, or go to the lake. I Am Not a country girl looking for a country boy. I won't respond to any comment that has sexy in it. Again, I am not looking for a pen pal.I've been on here for a few months now, and the above comments are not mean, but a frustration that I believe come with these type of sites. Still hopeful though.We cant respond to all everyone, but I do wish all of you Happy Fishing! Keep it simple. Or not.... if you are that creative. A meeting where we can talk.

  • Quinta

    Online

    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a single mom to a wonderful little girl! I enjoy tennis and play as often as I can. Just took up doing Cross fit and I am totally hooked! HUGE Bears fans so during football season you will find me at a sport bar cheering on my team! I have a great group of friends that are like my family. I need someone that can hang with them like I do. I enjoy all kinds of music, but mostly laid back, and definitely live. I love to travel, but don't get to as often as I would like. I work a lot, but will make time in my life if I find someone that I would like to share my time with. I'm a very independent woman, I take care of myself and my daughter...but I still call my daddy if I need something fixed. I enjoy a good bottle of wine, and a nice dinner....this does not include Taco Bell. That said, I have a very good sense of humor. But I do have a sensitive side. I am up for just about anything!

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