SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Callie
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!
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Verla
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Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-49
First let me just say this..I've been separated for over 3 years. I could lie as to not intimidate people from saying Hi... but why? I don't lie.. not about to start now. However, I didn't have a horrible marriage. Never thought of it as a piece of paper.. so another piece of paper isn't going to tell me when its over. He lied for years, and has a girlfriend. I don't like to share the man IM with. I'm not one to make anyone else pay for his stupidity.Everyone gets their own clean slate. You Write your own story. That being said. I'm an amazing woman who is worth getting to know. That is up to you:)! ***** NOT LOOKING FOR JUST a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP****IF THAT'S ALL YOU ARE LOOKING FOR PLEASE PASS ME UP***** My girls are my everything but I'm excited to see what the world has to offer. Excited about the changes i have been making and even more excited what those changes will do in my life. Looking for someone who can be honest... I'm not here looking for a perfect someone. Just someone perfect for me. Humor & laughing is really important to me..Love someone who can make me laugh. Love holding hands and just talking , getting to know each other.I love to go fishing & camping, bon-fires. find a quiet place to read, Photography is a favorite of mine, Love the beach & the water , love to swim, I love all the outdoor summer fests, live music, anything that gets me outside in the sun. Not big into shopping but will do it if i have too (I know...a woman who doesn't like to shop..lol) I do daycare and am a live in care taker for an elderly woman.. make an ok living at it, but i love kids.I love that laughter. I come from a very close family & have an amazing group of very supportive friends. Holidays are a huge part of my life. Summer and Fall are my favorite seasons. Love long walks in the fallen leaves. Open to new ideas. I'm a very laid back person. So not into the fancy stuff.. Just very down to earth. very honest and straight forward. so if you can handle that... Finding someone I like hanging out with would be awsome.
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Lynell
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Hi...Not to Keen on talking about myself in this little Box...some things are best left for face to face!Im a single mom of 2 boys who are Getting older so i have more time for myself and im hoping to find one special Man to spend some time with.My friends would tell you iam down to earth, loyal, honest, loving, caring, kind, considerate, social and fun. Im stable and independant...I have enjoyed the voyage of self discovery that my divorce has lead me into...however Im tired of sleeping alone...lol.....I dont need a man but dont believe we are meant to be on our own forever. I would love to meet an intelligent kind romántic partner in crime.I believe true wealth is measured by the number of people that u have in yr life that u care about and who care about you.If ive peaked yr interest drop me a line!! LOL Maybe vegas? LolSeriously...Coffee...dinner...dog park :)