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Santana, 41

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About Me

I am newly single and looking for companionship/friendship (possibly relationship in future) and am very self sufficient. I have 2 grown sons and am a very hard worker and honest. My kids are very important in my life, so if you aren't wanting to deal with my adult children, then don't bother to read any further. Family is VERY important to me and I make all the time in the world to spend time with my sons. I have lived on a farm for over 20 years and now I am back in a small town. I really enjoy cattle and baby calves and being on a farm. Some of my hobbies are quilting, photography, genealogy, scrap booking, outdoors and other crafty things. I love country music and going to country concerts. I love being outdoors, riding bike, gardening and relaxing. I enjoy watching a movie and just hanging out together. My friends would say I am a very honest, caring, considerate and a real person. I am not looking for playing any games or any one night stands. I want someone to connect with and love me for who I am and I can love you for who you are. If you want to know anything more, just mesage me, I will tell you what you want to know. Thanks for reading my profile and send me a message if you are interested in meeting me. That is something can be discussed if it when it gets to this point. Ideally I just want to get to know you and have nice dinner and conversation, maybe a walk in a park, near a river or lake or a motorcycle ride or maybe just spending time together doing what you like. Just depends on what your interests are and what we decide together to do. I am pretty much up for anything.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy endless conversation, fun with friends, meeting new people. I love warm weather and walking the beach especially with my dogs. My personal goal is to have my own business in the animal care profession someday and to carefully select my next relationship so that it has a chance of success. My least favorite music types are country and metal. Anything else is just fine with me. 80's is the best though. What makes me unique is that I am always happy, and don't like drama. I don't like confrontation, am low maintenance, independent, and cool to hang out with. People feel at home around me as if they've known me for years even if we just met. I am not looking for someone who wants to be my texting buddy and never get to see each other. I don't have any expectations on this site; if I meet somebody great and it leads to a more permanent relationship that would be terrific. Canceling a first date is pretty much never going to get you another shot at a first date. Please be between ***P.S. I enjoy cooking as long as you don't mind cleaning up! DEAL BREAKER: Smokers, of any kind, drug usage. My first date would be a brief meet and greet for a drink and appetizer. Nothing heavy, just short and sweet unless things are going so great we cant stop talking. Someplace not too loud so we're not yelling to speak to each other. If after that we're mutually interested then we can meet again. If not, nice to meet you and good luck. I don't want to sugar coat things at this point in my life. Not looking for one night stands. I would like to date someone who knows how to treat a lady.

  • Kari

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

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  • Kalyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

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