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Kristia, 42

United States, Idaho, Hayden

Offline, last seen Fri, 09 Oct 2026 06:01:03

About Me

I'm an extroverted happy petite woman. I'd like to think I laugh easily and tend to be easy going. I like cooking, taking long drives, cuddling up an watching movies. I'm comfortable in pretty much any setting whether it be a BBQ or dressing up for a social function. I was a tomboy growing up so I love to fish an the outdoors. Okay now with that said. I hate spiders an snakes an I've never shot a gun so no hunting. I have two boys 8 & 10 that I share joint custody of an also have adult children. I wouldn't plan on introducing my younger boys to anyone unless I'm comfortable enough that it's serious. I've not dated since my divorce 4 years ago. I took the time to focus on my kids, myself an my job. I've got no 'ex' drama baggage. He and I focus on what's important the children we share - an their health, happiness an well being. Today I'm at a point in my life I'm ready to share my life with someone. I miss not looking forward to seeing someone special. I miss the nervous / excited butterflies caused by the anticipation of seeing him. The simple act of having someone care an ask about how my day has been. The simple acts of being told that I'm being thought about. Okay now time to address the my deal breakers. I'm not a booty call. If your looking for FWB keep looking. Married an trolling ....keep walking Need a 'rebound' -- no thanks Please note my goal here is to find my special guy. Find a meaningful solid long term relationship Well here's to hoping I didn't turn you off. If you shoot me a chat an i don't answer right away my apology. I just signed up here an didn't realize you need to log out or it looks like your 'online'. I'll try to pay better attention to that. I don't mind chatting - texting then talking on the phone. My goal is if there's an interest we'd meet for the first time within a week. I'm sure not many are on here to just make texting / chat friends I'd never turn down coffee. Open to suggestions... the ones that include meeting in a public place. (Totally not on my to-do list.... to end up chopped up in little pieces and put in Tupperware containers )Too many scary movies? ? Ya think ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    This is the hard part talking about myself so here goes....I'm a fun outgoing person, I love to do things on the spur of the moment, laughter and personality is a must!!! I'm a very laid back easy going person. I'm not impressed by what people drive or how much money they make :) I have 2 wonderful girls that are my life....family first! My happy place is the beach I can sit all day and listen to the waves crash. If you need to know more..just ask!

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I personally love to read . I read horror and watch horror and sci-fi movies but I do like to watch many other kind of movies old or new. Even black and white. I'm old fashioned and up to date with what is going on around me. .I say I'm unique because of my outlook on life I don't want to deceive or be deceived by others. I'm honest ,funny,caring and just one of a kind . Many people have told me how different I'm towards people or not. You would have to be around me to judge just that for yourself. I'm a quiet individual that likes to hear others talk. You could say that I like a little of everything in life, from the outdoors ,camping, playing in the rain , to the shore, I like cooking, to the finer things in life like going to the city ,plays and dinning out and dancing.I am looking for an individual that wants to communicate without being demanding. Who is laid back , has a big personality, fun to be with , but likes to stay at home and cuddle. Anything else you want to know just ask. Just a simple lunch or drinks.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I'm constantly bewildered by the cruel joke of heterosexuality. Why am I drawn to and attracted to the opposite sex when it appears that everything about us is, indeed, opposite? It seems that men are more suited to living with men, and women with women. So why are we trying to fit a square peg into a round hole (please pardon the pun as I believe I've just answered my own question while philosophizing). I am sort of a walking contradiction in that I love people but am sort of a loner. I'm a little bit country, but I'm also a little bit rock 'n' roll. I love to go for a long hike in the woods with my dogs, but when I get home I might blast some Radiohead or Pink Floyd... or Johnny Cash. Then there's big band music! So much to choose from...I like social gatherings but I'm more likely to enjoy doing something productive. Most of my hobbies entail solitude. Things like painting, writing (screenplays mostly), hiking, biking, hanging out with my dogs. Very dedicated to my dysfunctional family, as well. I'm not a huge fan of television but do like public TV and a few cable shows like "Curb Your Enthusiasm." I could watch that show for hours. Also like Mad Men and a guilty pleasure is "The Bachelor". I can be too serious/cynical about life sometimes but when my mind is free from worrying about my family, my friends and the planet, I can be a hell of a lot of fun! I love to laugh but I also can appreciate a peaceful Sunday morning drinking coffee, listening to music and reading the paper. (One stripper said that a raisin was once originally a pickle--I'm sorry, it's cruel but it makes me feel better about myself!) I'm a pescatarian and would prefer someone that's not big on eating meat. Also would love someone who is outdoorsy and more of a homebody than an adventurer.I've been told I'm a gay man trapped in a woman's body. Maybe you should be a lesbian trapped in a man's body? First date should always be quick and painless, like ripping off a band-aid, just to see if there is chemistry. A quick dinner/drink or lunch is preferred. If we make it to the second date, I'd like to take a day trip to a city I've never been to before (provided I'm driving so you can't try to kidnap me, only to be seen again on milk cartons--Have you seen this girl?) and explore the local culture. Restaurants, shops, art museums, plays, etc. If the day goes well, the drive back home exchanging time on the iPods (which we'll bring on the first date, of course) should be titillating!

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