SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Callie
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Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
If I have to budget gas money to date you, you live too far. If you wear T-shirts with beer company logos on them, we're not a match. If you live in your parents house, we're not a match.If you're constantly between jobs, we're not a match.If you have kids and are not really that involved in their lives, we're not a match. If I can't tell where one tattoo ends and another starts, we're not a match. If your hair is long enough to tie back or you still wear it like you did in the 80s, we're not a match. If you cheated on your ex, we're not a match. If you shower less than once a day, we're not a match. If you can't tell what colour your counter top is anymore, we're not a match. Ever shopped online? Ebay, Kajiji, etc...? would you ever buy a product without a good, clear picture of it? Well, same concept here. You need a pic or no one's gonna "click to buy" you. ;-)I am physically fit. I wish I could say it's good genes. It's not. I carry the fat gene. Half my family is obese. The other half, like me, make a decision not to be fat every single day. We watch what we eat. We work out. We can't choose our genetics. But we can choose not to be fat. If you are making a different choice, we're not a match. The ring is not my wedding band. It's my mother's (RIP). It doesn't fit on the other hand. I never take it off. I suppose you could say I'm married to her love. I miss her every day. I wish I was less picky. Would be so much easier. But I can't be. I've tried. Never works. Yes, I am ridiculously picky when it comes to physical attraction. You must be very attractive. It's a fundamental thing that I've learned not to compromise on. Look, it sounds shallow. But it's not. I'm being realistic. We can label it whatever we want. We can position it in any number of ways. But in the end, the ultimate goal is the same. We are all on here trying to find someone we can like enough to have sex with. Some of us (me included) want it with one person forever more.-term. But ultimately, great sex is the goal. If the physical attraction isn't there, the sex won't be good. It's that simple. What you do for a living matters. You must be financially secure. This means having a secure income, owning your own home, having a retirement plan in place, education plans for your kids. And not being overwhelmed by debt you really can't carry. This isn't about me looking for a "suggar-daddy". It's about bringing the same to the table. We aren't in our 20s, or even in our 30s. If someone hasn't established themselves by their 40s, they're likely not ever going to.Good luck everyone! Let's figure that out if we actually get there!
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Adrie
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
This is the hard part talking about myself so here goes....I'm a fun outgoing person, I love to do things on the spur of the moment, laughter and personality is a must!!! I'm a very laid back easy going person. I'm not impressed by what people drive or how much money they make :) I have 2 wonderful girls that are my life....family first! My happy place is the beach I can sit all day and listen to the waves crash. If you need to know more..just ask!
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Loise
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Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a single mother of 2 wonderful children. My daughter is 19 and my son is 17. I have been a single parent since i was pregnant with my son and therefore have been doing it on my own ever since. I am very close to my entire family and enjoy family time. There are still 4 generations of my family that live within a mile of each other. I decided about 2 years ago to start to focus on myself. Now that my kids are of an age that they are independent, it was time for me. I joined a gym and hired a trainer. I try to workout as often possible. I feel better than ever. I do enjoy a lazy day watching movies but not often. I prefer to be up and moving. I enjoy all music but listen mostly to COUNTRY! My vacation of choice is tropical. I love the sand and surf. My goals in life are just to continue taking care of me and to be happy! What makes me unique: I am a go getter. I will not give up.Can't wait to hear about you. Let's see where this takes us.FYI: On the personality part of the profile, not a single one really fit me.....however, I love the beach so that is the reason for Beachbum! Lunch would be my first date of choice. Very simple.....nothing romantic......just conversation & getting to know each other.