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Miguelina, 49

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About Me

...and thank goodness for that, maybe I'll get it right someday, lol ;)I am seeking a man who understands the meaning of taking things slowly...an old-fashioned getting to know someone's mind intimately and deliberately type of courtship. The best things in life cannot be rushed and I believe this is the mistake I have made too many times in the past. Honesty, patience, and baby steps are what's needed to make a relationship grow. Please be non-judgemental and genuine, quick with a smile and a deep laugh, great sense of humor, warm and sincere, kind to others, with a touch of romance in your soul. I am a witty and very down to earth and open minded woman who is passionate about people and things that matter to me. I love to laugh, be silly, sassy, sensuous and yet I know when to be deep and introspective. I am a curvy and voluptuous plus-size girl, so if you cannot appreciate that or its not your cup of tea, that's fine - I am who I am. I say what I mean and mean what I say and I am fiercely loyal to those who are important to me. I am a bit of an introvert and more of a homebody, so you won't find me hanging out in bars...I like nothing more than cooking in with someone special, talking about our day over a glass of wine or ice cold beer, then snuggling on the couch to watch a movie or t.v. and just chill out...If you can cook a mean steak on the grill, me love you long time, lol ;) . I love being outside at night by a fire pit, bundled up in a blanket with a glass of wine and talking and laughing with someone special...the little things in life and endearing moments are the best :) I love to converse on many topics and learn as much as I can from another...I am a work in progress and always willing to grow as a person. We all have our stories to tell...let's share and get to know one another.Please live in VB area only.. And just because I don't have children and have never been married doesn't mean I can't appreciate the role of a good and loving father...your kids come first and that's how it should be and I'm very cool with that. I also adore animals, so if you have pets, that's awesome. Thanks for reading....if you feel we have some things in common, please write and say hello :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Dear young at heart, intelligent, cute, hard working, responsible, funny guy;I suppose I'm like ,you wanting to enjoy life, work hard, be productive and independent.Over and over I'm told you only look at our pics and read a few words to determine the intelligence level you're dealing with. Works for me! I don't really have a lot to say anyway. Together we can do almost anything. Like watch your paint dry, go out to dinner, try to get lost on purpose, visit each others gym, visit friends, help you with a project, go to a concert, watch your kids baseball game, go for a walk or hike, hit a book store or museum, plan a bank robbery, learn about and watch you with your hobbies, organize your sock drawer, cook something, etc... I hope we can text for a couple of days, talk on the phone at least once (I connect with voices) then meet for a beverage.

  • Alecia

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hi, I am very crafty and a bit artsy, I am in the health care field and I love my work.I am very sensitive and even emotional at times but it makes me very good at what I do.I love many different types of music but not rap and country only in small doses.I have been separated for over a year after 15 years and will be divorced soon. I have dated a bit and enjoy it on some level but eventually I would like to find someone special. I have 50% custody of our youngest son ( the only one at home now) so I find myself with free time and where as I love going out to eat and movies and love trying new things I also love just hanging at home watching movies or whatever.I'm looking for someone who is ok with kids although my youngest is 13 so no little ones. I'm ok if he has kids and would consider that a bonus. I want someone who is kind and honest as I always try to be and I don't like games. I'm a bit old school about dating meaning you make a date you keep a date and you expect it to be a chance to get to know someone and that's it, the rest must come naturally.I am not perfect and I am not looking for someone perfect. I work hard and I exercise as often as I can, I am pretty careful about what I eat but just like many middle aged people I battle with some excess weight. I have been told that I am very sweet and I am a good cook, I enjoy doing nice things for the people I care about. Coffee or a drink fallowed by a walk if its going well, I find it a really nice way to get to know somebody.

  • Pilar

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    About me...Kind, drama-free, open-minded, optimistic and NOT shy. A litte quirky, risk taker, a little deep, spiritual, nonjudgemental, interested listener, good communicator. Loyal and definitely fun. I'm honest and respectful and require the same. I strive for harmony in everything and believe happiness is a choice. I live in a positive energy and choose to surround myself with upbeat people. When I get to know someone I hope for transparency. Its easier to connect with someone when they are showing their true colors from the beginning. Not always the case regardless, I always try to connect with the soul where the real self exhists. Just know if I have to spend a lot of time pealing layers, I will lose interest - fast. Just be you and it will be really appreciated even if we aren't meant to match up or be friends. I treat others kindly not because I expect something in return but because its the right thing to do. I like variety in my life and welcome new experiences. I have 3 exceptional daughters I'm very proud of ***grown and one I am still raising 50% time. I also have two handsome grandsons. My life is full in many ways but still desire to find a loving partner.About the one I'm looking for...The initial attraction is often the physical attributes I see in the guy. Its a human thing...A true spark ***, when the substance that really matters to me is revealed which happens as we get to know eachother over time. The substance that matters...My match truly wants to build a partnership filled with love, respect, passion and fulfillment. Has the intelligence to know that its a journey together and looks at each new day as an opportunity to become more than yesterday individually and together as a couple. He's a happy guy who smiles, with high self-esteem. His agenda includes me. He inspires me to be a better person for myself and us. He has a heart of humilty and integrity and keeps the ego in check. Has a willingness to grow. We admire eachother. We both feel we have won the lottery of love. My wish-list is more of a wish-feeling, the feeling of being safe. I stated I am a risk taker but I don't compromise my safety. I recognize that it doesn't matter if a guy is sexy, funny, smart, charismatic and rich if he doesn't make me feel safe to communicate openly, safe to trust his commitment and loyalty, or safe to be my fullest self. I desire a relationship of shared virtue where each partner challenges and supports the other to bloom into their best possible selves.Looking forward to co-creating the partnership and love of a lifetime with my Mr. Right. Is it you?If any of this resonates with you, let me know. Thanks for reading! Whatever we mutually decide for a first date is fine, after the initial short meet and greet.

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