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Xiomara, 43

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About Me

My actual intent is to make friends and if we click we can move forward from there. No pressure on me or you. Definitely not looking for casual sex, though. About me: Drama wears me out. I try to keep my life and my energy centered on joy. I find joy in so many places, in making others smile, in making someone else's life better, in nature, in animals (unless they bite!), in children (unless they bite!), in hugs, in a good cup of coffee, in learning about and interacting with other cultures. The job interview over coffee is grueling. Let's figure out a common interest and go do that for a bit. Nothing that holds anyone hostage should we find we need to bail. I don't want to be stuck on a boat in the middle of a vast lake and have to swim for it, but let's do something we don't mind investing a little time in that allows us to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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  • Zola

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a down to earth girl looking for my equal. Just like most girls I would like to be swept off my feet. Seems men do not woo women anymore. I have two wonderful boys that will always come first in my life. I enjoy hanging out with friends, listening to live music,going to the lake,watching the boys play soccer, and most things out doors. I am very affectionate and loving. It is important to me to stay in shape and I would want my partner to feel the same. I have two boys to keep up with. It would be nice to have a partner to share life with through thick and thin. I like to have fun and live life. I have learned alot in life, good lessons and bad. For the right person I will be totally committed to making a fun and romantic life with lots of love. I guess I'm having to add this....please stay close to my age range. I'm not a sugar mama and I'm not looking for a suger daddy. I am not playing games on here. I prefer a man to be 5'10 or taller. Somewhere we can talk and see if there is a spark.

  • Novella

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well I love the outdoors , love to ride horses , camp , fish and hunt . Love to travel and try exciting different things . My goals are to find my soulmate , see Europe and live in my dream cabin or Farm house . Born and raised on a farm I love it . The city Is not for me to many people and not enough privacy .... I am a very simple woman , I live a simple life I am not a high maint. woman . Just the sweet thoughtful things in life make me happy . I like to joke and play around . I like all kinds of music . Just not the screaming and hard rap . I want a man that is not tied down, can travel and have fun . Also can not live without me and wake up everyday thinking about me . And the same feelings for me :) I also love amusement parks , the zoo, historic places .I am just looking for long term . I want love in my life. Listen I am not on here just for sex ! If that is all you are looking for MOVE ON !!!! I really would like a country guy that will ride horses and is adventurous . Good luck to ya ?? Maybe go for a walk if all is going well :) dinner ? Ziplinning ? Ride horses ? I like doing fun and exciting things .

  • Katerine

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    UPDATE – I guess there have been some men burned by women in the past; on and off dating sites. I’ve met some ‘interesting’WHAT I AM NOT LOOKING FOR:1. Absolutely NO one-night stands. I do NOT want to be your bed buddy. Thanks for the compliment, but move on if this is your interest. 2. Absolutely NO drugs.3. If you still live with your folks, I’m not for you. I don’t want to support you, any more than I want you to support me. 4. Traffic in this city is the pits, commuting more than an hour to see your date, seems like a waste of the free time we have. 5. I take pride in my smile and would like the same from you. Not expecting a perfect pearly whites but at least have a clean mouth. Please provide at least one photo showing your teeth. This is a turnoff for me. 6. Impress me with your intelligence, not your wallet. I save and spend equally and live within my means. Please have a job, you don’t have to LOVE it but you have to be able to support yourself. 7. No offense to anyone, I prefer to date within my own skin tone. 8. I am NOT looking for a clingy, needy man. I do NOT want to be your mother or your maid. WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR: if you've made it this far.1. An honest, genuine individual who likes to have a good time and loves to laugh; laughter is important to me. 2. I would like someone who is positive. I get up thankful for all that I have and want to make the day better than the last.3. Someone who likes to get out and do fun things and still want to curl up on the sofa and watch a movie sometimes.4. I’m a pretty good cook, and would love to get to the point where I can provide a meal or two. It would be nice, if you would like to cook for me too. You cook, I clean and vice versa! 5. Someone that will go to the gym with me and help keep one another motivated in living a healthy lifestyle. 6. I don’t expect my partner to be interested in EVERYTHING I do, and hope that you don’t expect the same. I believe we all need HIS time and HER time, along with plenty of US time. We certainly need to have common interests, definitely gives us something to do together and talk about.7. Bottom line… I want someone who is willing to accept me as I am right now. I’m far from perfect and not expecting you to be either. However, learning to accept that we all have flaws, allows us to grow and be better people. What you see on the outside, is only the shell of the true person that resides within.Now that we got the ‘nasty stuff’ out of the way!!My family and friends would describe me as loyal, honest and dependable. I choose to live my life by the Golden Rule. I am a genuine person; I have a down-to-earth attitude, open minded and a good moral compass and good values. Will not pretend to be something I'm not. I love to laugh and find humor in everyday things. My sense of humor can be sarcastic; I'm quite adept at laughing at myself. I like to have fun; life is short, so I want to enjoy it. I am at a good place in my life and ready for the next chapter.I enjoy walking, camping, going to concerts, going to a baseball or football game, but not a sports nut. I love to be outside and enjoying nature; a good hike through the woods is always a welcomed activity. I enjoy being active, but also like to spend some time watching a little mind numbing TV to relax – this excludes reality TV! I enjoy getting out of town for weekend excursions. Science and history fascinate me. I’m willing to try new things...at least once. I love to learn and I would love to share an intellectual conversation from time to time. If you're looking for an athletic body type, that is not me; if looking for BBW, that is not me either. However, I am working to get back into shape and get to the gym ***times a week. I do not believe that I will ever be a thin, svelte woman; I do like some of my curves. I choose to live a healthy lifestyle.Let’s start as friends, no need to complicate things. I am a simple person and live a simple life, but I am looking to share this life with someone special. I'm truly not interested in mind games or drama; I'm too old for that crap. Bottom line: I'm single, but not desperate and willing to wait for the right one. Our pasts define who we are today and hopefully we've all learned where things went wrong and are making strives to improve. Being honest and open to communication enables both parties to know where they stand and provides an equal playing field. Trust has to be earned.IF YOU'RE STILL READING….BRAVO, perhaps something made you keep reading; and I thank you for taking the time to read my profile, if anything I've said has sparked your interest, please send a message, would love more than just 'Hello', but that's okay too. If not, best of luck in finding that person you're searching for. I believe that it’s okay to start via the meetville messaging, but at some point it has to come off the internet and into the real world. Meeting face-to-face is the only true way to know if there is a connection. Some place simple and quiet, where we can meet and talk to see if there is a connection; perhaps over a cup of coffee or drinks.

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