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Elfrieda, 41

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About Me

I'm an open, honest and extremely down to earth person and I love to have fun. I value honesty, loyalty and genuine people who are happy in their own skin and not into playing games. I love good conversation and banter over good wine. I'm not really into the whole club "scene", so I prefer to hang out at pubs or quieter places where you can actually have a conversation. My family and my kids are the most important to me and I love hanging out with them whether we are having game night, playing rock band or going bowling. I love to laugh, try new restaurants, go to concerts, see the latest exhibit at the local museum and go to comedy clubs.I'm looking for a man who will be my best friend- my partner in crime. Someone who can make me laugh and doesn't take life too seriously. Someone who truly likes to give and receive affection. A man who is comfortable with who he is and not into playing games and pretending to be someone that he is not. I think communication is the key to a good relationship and my partner must be able to bring that to the table.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, regularly

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  • Fransisca

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Okay... I'm not to fond of the so called "choices" that we're required to use as answers here, so I've decided to elaborate a bit further on some... Hope you don't mind. -My personality... To sum it up into a single word is impossible. I'm lighthearted and open with a great sense of humor (at least I think so).-Body type... Average these days is impossible to define. I'm curvy (Italians are curvy) in between average and a few extra lbs. I'm comfortable in my own skin. -Would I date someone who smokes... I would prefer they not, but it's not a total deal breaker. -Do you do drugs... OK WHAT! I find it hard to believe that someone would admit to being a junkie on a public site, but who knows. I guess they have their reasons for asking this info, but what those reasons are baffles me completely. Now for the novel;I'm just me. I don't pretend to be someone or something I'm not. I'm honest and straightforward. I don't play games and have no tolerance for those who do. I never ask for more than I'm willing to give. I'm careful when it comes to who I allow in my life. I accept someone for who they are, not who I think they should be. It's an all or nothing deal. I have a very playful/sarcastic sense of humor and love to laugh. I want someone who will laugh with me or even at me if it's deserved. Accept all of me just as I am that's all I ask. I'm human. I make mistakes, say stupid things without thinking first, and I can be forgetful at times. I've got a huge heart, and yes, people have taken advantage of that. But live and learn. I'm not perfect and I have no desire to be. Perfection is an illusion and I'm real. I'm real and I'm happy regardless of my flaws because all that is good within me greatly outweighs the other. I don't want a perfect relationship. I don't believe they exist. What I do believe is that if you're able to find middle ground you'll have more happiness than any so called "perfect relationship" could ever dream to have. I don't want perfect. I want worth it.My son is my world. He means everything to me.. He lives with me full time and do the every other weekend thing with his dad. Even still my life with him can sometimes be a bit demanding. Just be a bit patient with me, I always find a way to make things work.We've all made mistakes, I've made a ton of my own, but I've learned from every one of them. It's helped me realize what it is that I need, and more importantly, all the things I need to give more of. Don't just talk, communicate. Trust without making assumptions. Never take more than you're willing to give. I want to live my life with someone, not just co-exist. I believe that people these days don't realize what a privledge it is to grow old with someone. I believe if something's broke you fix it. You don't just throw it away. People are so quick to give up these days, not even try, just turn their backs and walk away. It's sad and weak. I'm to strong to be in a weak relationship. I don't want anything average. I want something better, something more and I deserve it simply because I'm willing to and I want to give all that I am...I love quotes and this is one of my favorites..."She's not perfect. You aren't either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if she can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if she admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She isn't going to quote poetry, she's not thinking about you every moment, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you could break. Don't hurt her. Don't change her, and don't expect more than she can give. Don't analyze. Smile when she makes you happy, yell when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect girls don't exist, but there's always one girl that is perfect for you." ~ Bob Marley Something on the relaxed casual side. The what and where part can be decided when ready. It's not about where I go, but rather who I'll be going with.

  • Krishna

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    No drama, no baggage, no time for games. Smart, funny, hectic work schedule, GTL all the way, body builder and fitness trainer, glitter girl, go to church on Sunday, can't cook, into Harleys, sometimes think we are living in the Matrix, sports fan, do my own stunts, love to shop, spoiled, hyper, karaoke queen, love the smell of Napalm in the morning, passionate, eccentric, own a Bat Signal. GO BRUINS!! I have so little time to go out and meet people and seriously, where do you go to do that anyway? I think these sites are cheesy and uncool but I am tired of going to every event by myself and/or always being the chick without the date in a group. I am actually pretty independent and not emotionally needy or clingy but it gets to a point where you are tired of being alone all the time and want to meet the right person to share the good, bad and ugly. LOOKING FOR: Not jealous, clingy or emotionally needy. Hard worker, no children (or children over 18 and not at home), responsible, generous, spontaneous, sports fan, NOT METROSEXUAL, sense of adventure, White, 6' or taller, physically fit, athletic, not jealous, PASSIONATE, dominant, aggressive, mature when necessary, laid back, decisive, smart and knows how to take a joke and bust chops in return. No drugs, including weed. You should be looking for a serious relationship but not the type to say I love you on the 3rd date! Respectful and a little old fashioned - like holding doors and believing in traditional male/female roles in the home. If you are the kind of guy that can't remember an anniversary or birthday but brings home flowers or does something nice for no reason, then you are my type. Not looking to *** forever, don't even think about asking for a dirty pic, and if you message me - please say more than hi, PLEASE BE LOCAL! RI, southern MA or eastern CT only. I like to be surprised. Take charge of the situation and blow my mind! Just let me know what kind of clothes/shoes to wear!

  • Sam

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I'm a nurse, and I know how short life really is. There are people who waste time on big things in life, when it's the little things that matter. I believe that everyone is unique in their own way. I have a large caring family, who will stick together when times are ruff. I was raised to have independence and pride in myself. I'm not afraid of hard work, but I enjoy free time. I work out at least four times a week, doing boot camp and/or running. I'm a student furthering my career and education. Your never to old to learn new things! When I'm not working, studying or exercising, I usually hang out with the girls or have a quiet night at home with my cat. I enjoy movies and going to concerts. I love to cook, and make a mean manacotti and enchiladas. But it doesn't mean I don't enjoy a night on the town. I can be a girly girl or a sports fanatic! I'm versatile when it comes to music, though I tend to be a rock girl at heart. I don't play emotional games and I don't expect my man to either. No one night stands, no players, no liars!!!! My dream of a first date is something simple. I like someone who can be himself, doesn't over do it. It's hard to describe a date because I would want a man who does things because it's his nature to do them, not because I mentioned it. I'm a simple girl.

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