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Danika, 42

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About Me

About me... Hmm I am out of a very bad abusive relationship, no I don't hate men just that man. God works w me daily to forgive n believe happiness does exist. I work a lot of crazy hours due to my job. It's hard to keep a relationship but harder to keep a home without it.I met an amazing man on here and appreciate him for taking the time to get to know me despite my past n work schedule. However after a few great months it fell apart. I wish him all the luck finding the great girl he deserves.I truly believe everything happens for a reason. Blessin or lesson.I read the other day that u don't realize how boring u are until someone asks u what u do for fun lol how true is that?!?!I sat and pondered that for a moment n realized I need to find myself again so..This is what I've learned...Thanks to a friend I have finally tasted cheesecake, well a slight sliver gag but still refuse to touch coffee lol. and I joined a gym. I cant truly love anyone til I love myself n a better me is what I want for both me n the man I eventually meet.;I just haven't met u yet" ...And last but not least if yer not looking for a real relationships please don't contact me. I'm not here for a one night stand or casual dates for flings. Let's b honest were adults, chances are I can have a better sexual experience by myself than I can w some meaningless romp that's gonna leave me diseased, regretful n dirty. I have a job, home, car n bills so I don't need yers. I won't put my baggage on yers but hopefully we can help each other unpack.Oh and I'm a sucker for sappy movies, cry during wedding shows n laugh during reality showsPs... I know I'm short but I'd like to wear heels at my wedding if that ever happens so please decent height also pics showing off yer car or weights don't impress me. I'm interested in you not what u own or can do. Dying to go zip lining .. Made reservations but had to cancel due to break up so any takers?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Luella

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a positive and optimistic person. One of my favourite book quotes has the main character stating that for her the glass isn't half empty or half full. I felt a connection to that statement that has held true for many years. I love to read and explore new thoughts, concepts, and worlds through books. I like to take that joy of learning into my actual life. I challenge myself with learning new skills and trying out activities. (Nothing life threatening though. I won't be sky diving or bungee jumping.)I enjoy a variety of things from camping and sitting in front of a campfire to attending drama productions and jazz or classical concerts. Spending time with friends and family is important to me. I have a close relationship with my family and spend time with them.

  • Romona

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a friendly, intelligent, and interesting woman who is happy and secure within my profession. I am looking to meet someone who is also secure and hoping to find a companion. I am very close to my family and love spending time with my nephews. I am a very loyal friend and am still close to my childhood, high school, and college friends. I've worked in the same place for 20 years and my colleagues are like family to me. As most others, I love traveling and learning about different cultures and customs. I would love to travel to Africa... As for music, I truly do love ALL kinds - even country! Though I love to read, most of the reading I have time for lately is work-related. I watch far too much TV, thanks to the invention of the DVR. Some of my favorites are Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, and Sons of Anarchy. Best shows ever - The Wire, The Shield, Seinfeld, Cheers, and Frasier. I am there at least once a week, as most of my family and friends still live in NJ.I am fun-loving and have a lot to offer the right person. I'm interested in trying new things, so it's okay if all of our hobbies are not in sync at this time. Good luck with your search. Meeting for a quick drink and conversation is a perfect first meeting, as a way to determine if there is a "connection". As we get to know one another better, we can be more creative in selecting meeting spots and interesting activities.

  • Shamika

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Okay, so the primary nerdy pic on my profile is to weed out anyone that doesn't take the time to even read my profile. I am seriously looking to find ONE person to date for potential long term. I will try to give it a few weeks and try not get discouraged. Then I guess, I will go to church to find someone. I'll look for that one guy that spends just a little extra time at the alter asking forgiveness. I turned 42 this year and would like to meet someone. Yes my photos are current and taken within the year. I am caring and love family life and love being a mom. I am just looking to extend my happiness. A few extra pounds means overweight, for those that do not know this. Not that I am ugly, but if you want slender, that is not me. I wear a womens 12 or 14 for those who might know. Just being real.I am a bit of an introvert and prefer one on one time. I have some OCD and ADHD, so I am creative and indulgent in my hobbies.I want to find someone to share my life. I am honest, loyal, loving, youthful and easy going and passionate. Not looking for storybook fantasy love. Just want someone that I am comfortable around, can be myself and like to hang with. Love follows that. I would like to find someone SMART (please) and easy going would be great. At least smarter than your smartphone.I don't want to be discouraged from finding someone. For those who ask: My eye color is real. My teeth are real. All of me is real. And I AM 42. For those who have been on here for years, I don't care about your PhD, nice house, motorcycle, fast car and big****and don't care to see a pic of any of them. I think for myself and am educated, have a place of my own, love my minivan and have been to the adult toy store. You only need good character. Don't get me wrong either, I most definitely want a man. Need one, No. I have lived a rough life, but have lived sober and drug free. I smoke a cigarette or black and mild in the evenings. I have no criminal background, just because I have ran fast in the past. So PhD is great, but you have to be a little ghetto. I am also emotionally sound despite all. I want an ongoing relationship and all the benefits of long term. There is a man out there that wants the same and I WILL find him. Just sit somewhere to talk to see if there is anything more to it. If there is no attraction or interest on either side, there is no social contract or obligation. Just don't text or call.

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