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Lainey, 41
United States, Arizona, Benson

Offline, last seen Sat, 25 Oct 2025 22:13:43

About Me

Alright ya'll-This isn't my first time at this particular Dog & Pony Show...A girl is a lil' wiser this time around! Sooo, if you're not really looking for a relationship-please look at someone wanting to just hang-out. That's not me. I don't want to get to know you, only to have you disappear...??? My time is valuable and I hope yours is too. I'm a girl, so I won't tell ya I'm simple-ain't no such thing!! ;-)I'm a lot of things, but easy ain't one of em... That doesn't mean I'm a Diva or a Drama Queen. It means I do my own thing and color outside the lines. I have a brain and know how to use it. I question authority, in my book that's a good thing. I have opinions and expect you to also. I'm not looking for a "yes" man. I know we won't always agree but do expect respect for our personal point of view. I will treat you the way I'd like to be treated. I don't like to do things half-hiney'd. Go big or go home. I don't pull punches. I fight fair but if ya box me into a corner, I'll come out swing'n... I'm Irish & Italian-so you're danged if ya do & you're danged if ya don't... The hair is red for a reason. :-pCowboy-up! Cuz you're look'n at 10 pounds of sugar in a 5 pound sack!! :-**UPDATE*Here's a baseball analogy for ya boys:A girls look'n for the DH. There's only one on the team for a reason. You can be the DH on a Minor League team, that's just fine. Noone starts out at the top. However, you must be the DH & When ya step up to this plate, ya better not bunt...ya best be knock'n it out of the park... ;-) If you're think'n what I really need is a Closer-nope cuz that's me! I can't hit worth a dang but if you've read all of the above, ya know I can pitch it to ya just fine... :-D 70% of life is showing up... Impress me... :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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