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Adelle, 45
United States, Arizona, Benson

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About Me

After having been on and off of this site for a few months I'm realizing that while most men will say that they want a relationship the reality is that they want to date multiple people at the same time. I'm not looking for that so please keep looking if that is your desired objective. I understand that a relationship takes awhile to develop but if we've dated 20 times and you're still "fishing", I'll be letting you off the hook. Me: real, loving, sometimes complex, confident but vulnerable, giving, always honest, sensual and passionate, intelligent, try to live without regrets, enjoy the moment, accepting, sometimes impulsive.You: confident, mature, strong – physically and mentally, playful, romantic, sexy, intelligent, driven to succeed in whatever makes you happy, easy going, honest and trustworthy, sometimes unpredictable but not in a cruel way, ready to be in a "real" relationship.A few tidbits about me: I like cozy nights in as well as fun nights out. Equally comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt tailgating as I am in a sexy dress and heels. Did I mention that I'm a great mom? My kids keep me grounded. I have a dog and 3 cats that I love almost as much as my kids. I love thunderstorms and violent weather in general. But even after all the exotic destinations I'm still a Scottish country girl at heart. I'm a night owl and I love to sleep in when life permits, especially if it is raining. I love to run - I love sun spackled vistas, big shady trees and flowers of any kind. I'm a total music snob - ask me what groups I like. I believe in ghosts. I like spicy food - Thai, Indian, Mexican, Chinese. I'm smart, confident, easy going, sometimes feisty, always speak my mind with few regrets, loving, caring and I have a tendency to laugh in situations that are utterly inappropriate for laughing - I guess you could say that I don't always take things too seriously.Things that move me – Glass of wine or a beer outdoors if it is warm or a drink in a cozy, warm pub.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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