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Alfredia, 41

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I’m seeking commitment, and hoping to find it with an intelligent, attractive and engaging man who values substance.Life is about learning lessons and moving forward with the information given. Therefore, I know what I want, AND, what I don't want. I do not waste time playing games with peoples feelings and emotions. If you like someone, tell them. If you don't, simply move on.I'm looking for an honest, loyal, funny, charming, romantic, optimistic, confident, handsome, affectionate, passionate, CHIVALROUS man! May sound like a lot but I also bring a lot to the table. :)I want to explore this amazing planet so someone who loves to travel is important! Someone worldly and deep with a spiritual twist. I live my life right, I do right by others. I firmly believe in Karma! What goes around will ALWAYS come back around. Treat people how you expect to be treated and always help the less fortunate! Chemistry is VERY important to me. With that said, I'm looking for the guy I look at and can't explain what I'm feeling. The guy I kiss and we look at each other, smile, and say WOW! The exceptional and indescribable. I'm not looking for a guy I can live with, I'm looking for one I can't live without. Not a perfect person but the perfect person for ME!! My bff!!! I know you are out there somewhere....I think it's also important for you to know that God is very important to me. I don't judge or push my beliefs on anyone, however, ideally I'd like to find someone who walks the same spiritual path as myself.P.S. If you have any negativity in you or any type of drama at all PLEASE move along. I'm a drama free, happy person who LOVES life! =} Something casual. Starbucks and a walk would be perfect. If there are sparks we can look forward to planning something next time...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Berry

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hello and thank you for taking the time to read my profile. I'm pretty much open to anything new and would consider myself spontaneous. I like to go out with friends for dinner, wine tasting and weekend getaways. Traveling is my love and desire along with learning new cultures. I love the ocean, the city and the country, as they all have their beauty and fun activities to enjoy. I'm a water baby, so, I love boating, snorkeling, swimming, having dinner out by the water, etc. I'm laid back yet full of energy and I like having a good time with whatever I do. I love music, all types and I always have it playing wherever I am.I'm a genuine person looking for that genuine soul. I have a good heart and consider myself to be a good person with high ethics and values. I don't have kids but love them, so, I'm fine if someone has children. I'm open to the possibilities of having a child with that special person in my life, if that's something we decide on. I love witty conversation and really miss being able to have witty banter with someone. (It's intriguing, stimulating and I crave it!) I'm seeking a man with a good personality, who's social and enjoys getting out there to enjoy life. I want someone that's able to express and communicate their feelings well, in hopes to build that lasting relationship. I'm sarcastic and have a fun personality so I'm looking for something similar. If your an animal lover, that's a major plus and we'll get along famously. ;o) I'm a very passionate person for the things I believe in, so, people and animals are my passions. I had recently went on a romantic like walk with someone and we came across a homeless man and he had no comment, emotion about it. That really bothered me because I'm always one to help and I seek others that are the same or at least empathetic. I want a good man with a big heart that knows what's really important in life.

  • Kirsti

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Just a good old southern girl that loves her kids....sweet tea....cool weather...bonfires....football...baseball...puppies....Christmas...snuggling on the couch....and the list goes on. All these things would be even better with a good man to enjoy them with! True love doesn't come around very often....grab it when you get the chance!!What you'll find is a HUGE heart with lots of love for that special someone. I am defintely a giver....not a taker. What's tough is finding that person that can appreciate *** taking advantage!!! With all that said....I want to be a priority in a partner's life...not just one of many options. I've always said that my best quality is also my biggest fault.....In the process of really moving my life forward. Great new opportunity with work....kids that have been more wonderful than I could ask for lately....and finally getting healthier for myself....lost 15 pounds the last six weeks and feeling better already. Opportunities in life bring us often to times of betterment!!Love isn’t perfect. It isn’t a fairy tale or a story book, and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on and never letting go.Love is work, but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute, every second of it was worth it because you did it… together.You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again.But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh,cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes,hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking aboutyou every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze anddon't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there."-- Bob MarleyLove is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude,it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. ~ by 1 Corinthians 13:***~

  • Epiphany

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Ok, If I were helping one of my friends write this for themselves, I'd have no trouble but writing it for me, well that's another story..... At 41 I find myself in that position of feeling too old for the club scene and when I do go out, it's with one of my married girlfriends for dinner. I'm also very busy with work committments so that limits my time too.I am thoughtful and considerate and love laughing, even at myself. I love retelling a great story from my past and I enjoy hearing other's stories too. I'm a huge sports fan, in almost every category, although still trying to get on board with soccer. My music interests are really all over the board, although mostly I listen to WEEI. I am well traveled and looking to do more. I don't have any childern, nor do I aspire to have any childern but adore having my two nephews - really is there a better job than an Aunt?Obviously there's more I could share with you now but really, gotta save a few things to talk about right. Thanks for reading a little bit about me. I look forward to hearing from you. I don't have many rules regarding this - meeting for a drink is preferred over an afternoon coffee but really, whatever is most comfortable/convenient.

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