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Ilean, 43

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About Me

I am a 42 yr old women who is very educated and witty. I enjoy good comp and someone who is fun and opened minded. I am very independent. but loved to be spoiled as I spoil in return. hit me up looking forward to hearing. from you.I enjoy painting, writing poetry, horse back riding,hiking and motor cycle riding. very fit, thin and a bombshell to be with. ex model and am a lisc. massage therapist . Lets talk n see where it goes come on now I'm waiting to see if you are the one. first date is always the most stressful, but can get through if compatible...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Katey

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an intelligent, fun, adventurous and playful woman. Not afraid to be alone but would prefer to have someone that I can be close to and share my thoughts and experiences with. I'm not sure exactly if I am looking for a long term relationship. I am looking for someone to spend time with that has the same interests. Someone I can relax with, laugh with, have fun with, and simply enjoy life. Mostly I am looking for someone I can be myself with. If I can find someone out here like that then committing myself to that someone would come naturally. I have a tough job that can be very stressful and demanding at times and downtime with alot of fun and laughing is a must for me. I enjoy outdoor activities but I also love staying in. In my opinion cooking dinner together with a person you care about and snuggling up on the couch with a good movie is just as fun, if not more, than going out. I LOVE music with a passion (just about everything except newer rap music) and can honestly say that if I had the choice to be blind or deaf (God Forbid!) I would pick being blind over being deaf any day. I have to have music in my life and feel that I would probably go crazy without it. There is nothing like getting in your car and turning up the radio to a favorite song and singing along at the top of your lungs after a bad day at work. It just *** my mood and makes me feel better. I could live without my television. I could NOT live without my radio! LOL. I also love to read and read anything from science fiction, horror, suspense, fiction, biographies, history, and the paranormal. I have many favorite authors from all types of genres. I love to paint (oils are okay but I prefer acrylics), but I haven't had much time for it lately. I am also trying to teach myself how to play guitar (it's been a painful experience so far...LOL.) I love the outdoors especially in the fall season. I love going to the park. I love bird watching and have several bird feeders around my house. I guess that's something that I do because it reminds me of my Mother. I love going to plays, the ballet, the symphony, art and history museums (the side of me that loves culture). But I also love going to live concerts (especially harder rock) and have been to so many I have lost count (the side of me that loves the unrefined), singing karaoke with my girlfriends, going to movies, etc.. I try to spend as much time as I can with them. And I also love going to the zoo.As I said, I have a tough job but I am totally in love with it. It is actually something that happened by accident. I couldn't have imagined myself doing it but now that I am I couldn't imagine myself doing anything else! I prefer to think that I am unique. I am not looking to trap anyone, smother anyone, or make them feel like they are accountable to me for every minute outside of my presence. I have my own likes and dislikes, my own interests. My world will not revolve around you as yours should not revolve around me. I believe you should not become so wrapped up in someone else that you forget that you are your own person and have your own identity. I believe in sharing your life and experiences with someone, not living your life and experiences through someone. In having your own interests and keeping your own identity, I believe you have more to share and offer to a relationship. I would like to say that although I believe it's important to have your own interests, and even healthy to spend time away from each other, spending time with the person I care about is also important to me. I am a very loyal person. When I care about something I care deeply. And when I love someone I love deeply. I am a very "touchy feely" type of person. I'm not afraid to show physical affection. I love to touch, hug, kiss, hold hands...So the person I am looking for would naturally have to feel comfortable with that and would not be afraid to initiate physical affection on their own. I'm looking for someone who is not afraid to talk. Good conversation is important. I know in life you can't get eveything you want but I would love to find someone who wants to share themselves such as their thoughts, feelings and life experiences. This is what makes life interesting and what makes you who you are. I can be opinionated and I am not afraid to voice it at times. Of course I know there is a right time and a wrong time and also a right way and a wrong way to express it. I'm not rude or callous and would never say or do anything to hurt someone intentionally. I would hope for the same thing in the person I am looking for. Going to the zoo would probably be my first choice, although I have NEVER been able to get someone to take me to the zoo as an actual date. LOL. My second choice would probably be a picnic and maybe a walk in the park.

  • Brian

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    If you are looking for someone average you are not looking for me:)I know that everyone online is looking for something different. I am looking for a relationship. When you message me I will assume you are looking for the same. I am looking for someone who is not afraid to have some initiative in finding a relationship and is not afraid of falling in love.I am independent, intelligent and well educated. I have a career I enjoy. I am hard working in my professional and my personal life. I am financially stable. I am very liberal in my beliefs. I am a good conversationalist. Although it's fun, I don't think text messaging counts as conversation:)I can be funny and spontaneous. I love to laugh.I enjoy trying something different.I love to travel and would enjoy meeting someone else who feels the same.I am honest and up front. I am not going to play games.I am looking for someone close to my own age. I am a very caring person and when someone or something is important to me I am a very passionate person.I enjoy simple things like summer rain, thunder, leaves blowing in the air, the sun on my skin, the smell of pine trees, the sparkle of the stars, a full moon, a child's hug.I am fortunate to have a great deal to share with someone and recently realized I am still looking for that someone.I am looking for someone who is physically and emotionally healthy. Someone who wants to enjoy everything life has to offer. Someone intelligent and socially savvy. Someone who is independent and responsible but knows how to share. Coffee or a drink. Let's talk. Let's make it comfortable and get to know one another.

  • Kimiko

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like spending time with my children and going to their games. I enjoy spending time at home by our pool hanging out in the summer, but also enjoy going out at times grabbing a bite to eat, havin a few drinks and listening to a band. I enjoy laughing, having fun, and spending time with people I care about. I just need to find that special someone to love and to love me back.

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