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Alyssia, 41

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About Me

I have always enjoyed the beauty of the outdoors. I enjoying all kinds of things about the great outdoors, including all the wildlife I have gotten to see. My son and I make a game of spotting things. I like just taking off for the day to a fun destination. I like to be spontaneous when I can. I really like someone that's funny, and makes me laugh, I seem to be one of those people that got left out when it came to the quick witted humor gene pool. Jokes are not my forte, but I am very good sometimes at comebacks, or quick responses. Like to have fun and laugh with my partner. I can sometimes be very creative. Good at coming up with way to fix something or make something work. I have always been the builder in my family. Inside furniture, all kinds of things. I can be shy at first but once I get to know someone I am myself. I am into all kinds of different tv shows, movies, etc. All kinds of music too. I listen to 99.9, 96.1, 93.3, 95.7, 106.7, 105, country, rock, alternative, even some rap, thanks to my grown daughter. I like all kinds of sports. Especially football. Watching the games, or playing ESPN fantasy games. I love all kinds of animals. Having a son we have had pretty much anything you could imagine at one time or another. We have tried to keep it to a minimum. Better to watch them in their habitat then inside in ours, lol. Children are very important in any relationship. Friends, or otherwise. I have one grown up, and one still at home. I have put a lot of thought into moving forward in my life. I decided to and start this online dating thing, and see how it goes. I would like to start out spending some time just getting to know someone, byemail/ text/phone etc. Then meet up, and see how things go. Anyways thanks for reading this. Have a great day Maybe I'll talk to you later Coffee, lunch, dinner, a walk in the park, etc. After talking for a few I am sure we will figure something out that we both would like to do.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Abigail

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I’m down to earth with a simple southern charm with big city class and a uniqueness of my own. What you see is what you get, I’m easy going, easy to please, low maintenance, don’t play games, don’t like drama, have no baggage, don’t have it or want it. I’m the person I really am all the time and don’t pretend to be something I’m not just to be liked, I tell it like it is, am straight forward, don’t candy cote or straddle the fence. I can take control yet appreciate when I can take a backseat and let another be my guide. I try hard; do right, am honest, secure, giving, loving, sensual, passionate, kind and grateful. Like others I enjoy the finer things in life and welcome gifts and surprises but am not a materialistic person and enjoy the simple things that money can't buy. I’m an old soul,open minded, free spirited with a belief in a higher power but don't rely on religion as a crutch. At the end of the day you’ll find me relaxing with a glass of wine at home or out with friends. I’m not into nagging,complaining, jealousy, angry outbursts, backstabbing, gossiping, lying or cheating. I’m old fashioned about dating in that I prefer the man to make the first move and take lead which means that I will only respond to *** profiles that interest me in appearance, substance and intellect...major turn off!Life is too short to miss and too important to take seriously so I enjoy having fun with friends, people I love, traveling, painting, living life out loud, taking chances, meeting new people, being happy, positive,laughing, smiling, and being with others who do the same. I love to wine, dine and dress up but also love simple pleasures like the beach, sunsets, pizza, a cold beer, cuddle on the couch with popcorn and movie in my PJ’s. I do what makes me happy, have many friends, and attend social events when I can rather than be a homebody. I’m friendly, outgoing and get along and make friends in any crowd. I have a sense of humor; laugh as much as I can even at myself and like others who do the same, love a ride on the back of a motorcycle, a long bicycle ride, and intellectual conversation. I keep up my appearance and body but am not a sport or gym junkie, I prefer my man to mirror me in his appearance and have hair that I can run my fingers thru. I’m not settling for less and want a man that makes me sigh in awe when I gaze at his handsome face, tingle at his touch, my toes curl in ecstasy and my eyes roll with his skilled kisses.I’m an artist and successful business owner with integrity, high standards, and endurance that allows me to work hard and serve others. I’m fearless, intelligent, educated, skilled, highly trained with an impeccable career as a police officer and investigator for 14 years. I’ve learned that our criminal justice system is faulty, everyone makes mistakes but not everyone gets caught, smart people make stupid decisions, bad things happen to good people, and it’s not my place to judge or condemn anyone for their past. It is what it is. I’m not into bad boys, outlaws, mama’s boys, crybabies, basket cases, liars, cheaters, couch potatoes, posers, holy rollers or someone with emotional baggage from a former love. I want a man to be professional, open minded, handsome, smart, fit, close to my age,,successful, kindhearted, sexy, fun with a sense of humor who loves to laugh,travel,spend time together yet do fun things out with friends and has a free lifestyle to allow it. It would be nice to find someone to explore the wonders here with. I'm interested in making new friends and finding a stable exclusive relationship with attraction, chemistry, passion, compatibility in likes, dislikes, intellect, conversation, stimulation, lifestyles, activities, daily routines, and sensuality that is positive and fun.The right person brings out the best in you, improves the quality of life, allows your dreams and passions to become reality, lifts your spirits, fills the desires of your heart, mind, soul and body,is your best friend and is someone you can spend the rest of your life with. If you are interested, sincere in your search, looking for much of the same, and don't mind becoming friends at first, then send me an ***, which is the only way I will respond if I'm interested as well. If you have no pictures I won't reply. The more you can show and tell me the better. My idea of a first greet and meet is getting together at a local place and having a drink (I don't do coffee and if you you can't handle an adult beverage then you're wasting your time). Within the first few minutes we will know if the right kind of chemistry is there and if not we can part as friends. If things progress well then we might decide to talk over dinner or make plans to meet up again soon. You never know until you meet in person what will happen, so neither of us should be offended if one doesn't "feel it" for the other, this is all a hit or miss deal. Be who you are from the start out the gate!

  • Daniell

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am very easy going, that being said I am not a push over lol! I love to travel, that is my passion and have been fortunate enough to have traveled extensively throughout my life. I love to read and love anything to do with the water ie swim, ski, fish etc. I am currently going to the gym ***times a week and working with a personal trainer so that I can get back into shape. It is kicking my butt in a good way and I am feeling better than ever before. I am not here to just casually date someone, I am here to find my one true love, the person who I can spend the rest of my life with. Somewhere we can talk and get to know one another.

  • Erykah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hobbies - play pool, read, watch movies, spend time with family, friends and alone.Goals - try to update my house and maintain the yard and landscape. Maybe a weird goal, but some people don't care about these things or get lazy. Trying to embrace a healthier lifestyle and it is definitely a goal.About me - I enjoy making others laugh, but I am also a serious person. I like to meet up with friends and have a few drinks and dinner. I am a girly, girl... like I want to have my nails painted and enjoy wearing makeup and dolled up. I like wine as well. But on the other end of who I am.. I will totally put on sweat pants, baseball cap and no makeup and go to the store. I will drink Coors Light from a can or a bottle. I am not that picky or high maintenance.Music - mostly enjoy today's country music, if listening. Country music brings me peace, I think this is why I enjoy it most. I do like dancing, and therefore I like pop music too. I also like rock n roll... Years ago would attend the annual Ozzfest. Some of the music was more than I would prefer tho. I do appreciate Audioslave, Soil, Stone Temple Pilots, to mention a few.Overall - I think to myself that dating had evolved so much. Both male and female are not the same as what we would have expected years ago... matter of fact, years ago we would not be on this site searching for someone of interest. I think dating is hard to do. I do have high expectations and think the man should be just that, The Man and want to take care of his girl, but also he should relax a little and let her try to do things for him too without getting upset. I think that when you are dating at age 40, you need to have a very open mind. You need to remember that at this age, people are more set in their ways. Just relax... and know that dating is about learning about each other. Time will tell if two people are really compatible.

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