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Paisley, 42

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About Me

A little about me....I'm currently training for the SD Tough Mudder. Excited and looking forward to the challenge. Other than that I enjoy hiking, running, working out, eating healthy, photography, weekend road trips, sushi (YUM), the occasional night at a local club, opening doors for strangers, hosting fundraisers to feed the homeless or raise money for animals, a night of cuddling on the couch (the BEST break from a busy schedule), blah, blah, blah. It all sounds so mundane while writing it down.I've dated off and on for the past few years and now I'm at a point where I'd like to find something long term. I won't date for the sake of dating as I'm pretty content being single. I won't BS you if you don't BS me. It seems many guys on here write or say, "I'm looking for a relationship or long term..." but yet they can't let go of being single. I'm too old for the BS and drama that seems to come along with dating these days. I don't have much tolerance for it either.I'm an active, down to earth gal who is looking for someone to date with the idea of finding a long term relationship...the real deal. Along with chemistry, mutual things in common, I'm looking for someone local. ****Sorry, I won't be reading *** anyone outside of my direct area. Done it, gave it real effort and will never do it again.**** That is a deal breaker. And while we are at it please make sure your profile has pictures of you. Several would be ideal. Just as men need attraction so do women. Short and sweet

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Charmaine

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there, I've been told I am easy to talk to and have a funny sense of humor. I have a good balance between work and play, but all that is missing is that special someone to share it with. I pride myself in being a down-to-earth, positive, outgoing person who is always up for a new adventure (I am not afraid to get my hands dirty!). Staying fit and healthy is a priority to me. Some of my interests include; reading, exercise (hiking, sailing, skiing) concerts, bbq's, sporting events, road trips and the occasional gun show, lol! I am looking for ONE special guy. He is genuine. He is an intelligent, traditional, emotionally available man with a friendly and sincere personality. Someone who wants out of the dating scene and has the goal of settling down with one person. He doesn't take himself too seriously and has a great sense of humor........are you out there? PLEASE NO: - FALSE ADVERTISERS - TEXTERS - GUYS WITH NO CAR - CHAIN SMOKERS - PEN PALS - NON-- MEN WHO LIVE WITH PARENTS - WORK-AHOLICS - UNEMPLOYED - MENTAL/ANGER ISSUES -- CASUAL DATERS/ONE NIGHT STAND TYPES/BREEDERS - ALCOHOLICS - "SEPARATED" STATUS - MEN WHO CLAIM TO BE "ATHLETIC", BUT NEVER WORK OUT - MEN WHO ARE ANY COMBO OF THESE DESCRIPTIONS, BUT REFUSE TO ACCEPT IT. The world is our playground!Shooting range, lunch, botanic garden hike, kayaking, swap meet...........

  • Didi

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am an educated, compassionate, outgoing, fun, loyal and emotionally secure female, who is optimistic and very loving. I have learned to appreciate the little things in life and try not to sweat the small stuff. I am very easy going and very much believe that the purpose of life is about sharing and caring with and about all the people we come across in our lives. Even just a smile to a stranger on the street can make a difference to someone who is having a very bad day. I love giving back, especially to children. There is nothing better than a big smile or laughter from a child. I do volunteer at the local schools in my community as often as time allows. I enjoy hip hop, r&b and old school music but I do listen to my teenage son's I Pod from time to time. I have a wonderful career and I have a pretty cool boss(me). I have been self employed and in the Insurance Industry for 14 years. I am fortunate enough to make my own schedule, so I am able to spend more time with the people I care about. I am very blessed with wonderful family and friends. My son is now 19 and off at college playing basketball for Cal State East Bay (Go Pioneers!) so I am beginning a new phase in my life and have the time to concentrate on looking for that special someone, my other half, my partner in crime. I am not in a hurry and plan on enjoying this new chapter in my book of life until the right person comes along. Now that I have more time for myself, I have begun working out about 3x a week and I really enjoy it. I am a very passionate person who enjoys intimacy and kissing. Unfortunately, making out seems to be a lost art. I believe that foreplay isn't just about the physical, it is about the mental stimulation, thoughtfulness and communication you give to your partner, that takes place 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. I believe a relationship should supportive, loving, stimulating and equally fulfilling. I am not perfect, I am human and have faults but I am always on a journey of self reflection and self improvement.I am looking for a companion, a best friend, my partner in crime, the person I want to share my day and my innermost thoughts with. I need someone that makes me want to rush home to them at night. A professional, male who is caring, fun, emotionally secure but most importantly, A MAN WITH A KIND HEART. Someone who likes people and understands how precious each day is. He enjoys life with gusto and living it with purpose. I would love a man who appreciates a woman's curves from top to bottom. It would be nice if he enjoys sports, at least watching them. We can cuddle up and watch a game or discuss playoff options and then create our own half time show. Lol. A sense of humor is a must. Have a beautiful day!.*****

  • Lisa

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    It is amazing how you miss the ocean when your away from it. I think of myself as a country girl. I love animals and have 2 horses a few cats so if you hate cats well guess it won't work. I'm not a fan of hunting though but don't let the country girl thing fool you I clean up well and do enjoy a nice night out as well. I have a teenage daughter who is my world and just graduated from high school ***. She is a great kid who makes me laugh all the time. My first love in music is country but I also enjoy everything but hard core rap and heavy metal. I don't like liers, players, cheaters or anyone fake. If your looking for a one night stand I'm not the girl. I want to find my best friend someone I can laugh with, talk to, cuddle on the couch and someone willing to put 100% into a relationship. Venturing out like this is new for me so I'm not always confident enough to say hi so feel free. I'm pretty easy going so maybe meet somewhere to talk or if your in for a laugh take me bowling or miniture golfing. I'm not good at it but have fun anyway.

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