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Shantell, 41
United States, New Mexico, Roswell

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About Me

At this point in my life, I am looking for someone with good values in order to build a relationship based on trust and respect.I live a healthy lifestyle and I appreciate people who take care of themselves.I am not much into clubs, but I enjoy Theater, Art Galleries, trying a new restaurant, going to a movie or just discovering new places in good company.I love to learn new things from people and books, and to apply the concept of a healthy mind in a healthy body I do Yoga and Pilates.I'm looking for someone that can stimulate me intellectually, physical attraction is important, but nothing is sexier than smart in my opinion.I would like to develop a relationship with someone mature enough to know what he wants and appreciate what I can offer, someone to share the good times and bad times with.P.S: I understand everybody has different expectations, but, personally, I appreciate a man who is able to pick up the phone in order to set up the first date. Text messages can be useful, but they are not always my favorite way of communication...it's so much nicer to hear someone's voice :) Good conversation over a cup of coffee...or a glass of wine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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