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Kath
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Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
** I'm getting some very nasty messages, in regards to messages I don't reply back. I've been called stuck-up, told I think I'm too good for this site, and a couple of not nice things.. 1. I don't log on here every single day. Give me time. 2. I have found that it's best to not reply at all, if not interested. I did reply to every single message with a polite reply.. and many men took that as encouragement, and not as "Thanks.. but, no thanks." 3. Vulgar messages will get you blocked.. immediately. Be a gentleman. 4. I don't date outside my race. Just my preference of attraction.. no other reason.**Ok.. This is my third time here, but I've never really given this site a fair chance. I usually delete after a couple of weeks. Not sure I'm comfortable being here or if I'll stay this time. We'll see. I didn't have a great experience here last time, but that was something really weird. But, what the hell? Life's about chances. I've just turned 45 and I'm divorced with three kids.. all over 18. They do their own thing. Being single for the last four years, has definitely been a time of self reflection, self awareness, self discovery.. It's been a slap in the face at times and wonderful at times. I went thru the kinda really sad stage- thinking I'd been dealt a raw deal in life and how unfair it was, how I'd be alone forever.. thinking I was the only one to ever be in that position. Of course, that was bullshit. I went thru the panic stage of thinking I had to have a date.. every weekend. Wrong. I went thru the I'm not gonna date again.. I don't need a man. Kinda true. I don't "need" one, but I want and desire one. I want him to be my best friend, as well as my lover. I desire someone to share things with.. for them to introduce me to their world and things they enjoy and are passionate about and them mine. Most of all, I've became comfortable and confident in my own skin.. with me. I like me, although I can always use some improvements. I love to travel, go out and do things.. especially dive bars and live bands. But, I also enjoy museums, movies, hiking. I love reading and can lose myself in a book for hours. I think rainy days are romantic and rainy nights are sexy. I try to exercise daily, but I don't love it. I fight weight and have lost over 50 lbs. I fight it daily. I love to cook, and I'm pretty good at it. I love to be barefoot and just hang out. But, I love dressing up and going out, too. I appreciate all genres of music. I love rock concerts, folk, and blues. I like a lot of musical artists that aren't really the norm. I try to be nice and tolerant to everyone. I don't care for anger and yelling. But, I do realize everyone is human. I'm not really interested in your bank account.. but, in your mind.. heart.. soul. The things that matter. I believe if you take time to find out about those things.. you'll have a true understanding of who each other are. From there.. respect, friendship, lots of fun and maybe even love grows stronger. I believe in giving as much as receiving, and having a mutual respect for one another as well as a true interest.Oh.. men seem to ask if women have went out with anyone from here. I have. I only agreed to meet two. I'm great friends and hang out with one, i just didn't feel attracted to him. The other I liked a lot, and was very attracted to, but a series of strange things happened. Long story. Neither, are on meetville now. Surprises are great.
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Jeanette
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
I would like to start off by ensuring you men out there that I am NOT looking for a father figure for my chidlren. THEY HAVE ME! I have 3 awesome kids, 2 live at home with me and my oldest is in the Air Force. Yes, I am a Mother of three kids but I am a woman who is not Confused or Undecided on what I want in life. I also know what a real relationship should be built on. I'm not looking to rush right into anything heavy, I just want to go slow and see if that "CLICK" or "SPARK" is something real and not a false alarm. I am looking to make a connection with someone who can give that mutual respect and honesty, one that can be trustworthy and has no problem with communication. Someone who takes care of himself, has his own goals and aspirations. He would need to be sincere, considerate, passionate, playful, affectionate. Someone who believes in a MONOGAMOUS relationship. I would say that I'm fun and a little silly with a touch of sarcasm...lol, affectionate and caring, honest, respectful, strong willed, humorous, romantic, generous, creative, playful, and confident (not arrogant). I can be classy (love to dress up) and yet I know how to let my hair down (blue jeans and t-shirt are fun also). I love to Laugh, Smile, and Have Fun. I love football, muscle cars -- love car shows!! Love festivals and concerts ( love ALL kinds of music except country... sorry!) I'm open to new opportunities and to try new things and maybe one day travel. Friends and family are extremely important to me and my children will always come first, but love to meet new people. Enjoy sunsets and picnics... put them together and you have something great. Even better when you have someone to share it with. Not big on game players, liars, and trouble makers. It really isn't attractive!! Plus, a lot of you men say that you're aggrivated with woman who post pictures of themselves that look good enough for you to meet, then when you do and that woman is not what she promised......it goes both ways.... The feeling is mutual!!!! If you have any other question you would like to know..... just ask. We all have some sort of past that we left behind and that is where it should remain. It's time for the NEW. Are you the "NEW" I'm looking for? A great first date would be something casual to talk and see if there is chemistry and interest!
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Aeron
Online
Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 40-50
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. I'm not particularly religious but this is what I want. If you are passionately emotional about somone else you don't need to be here. We all need somone we can't wait to wake up with and go to bed early so we can be next to them. I love who I am but I'm not perfect. I love people I help everyone. I'm nice but there isn't much call for that in the practical world. I like to have hope there is somone out there for somone like me.I'm not devestated to be alone but to share your life seems to make it better than you can dream Surprise with thought