Total users: 60,464,851 Online users: 217,753
Jerilyn, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

Offline, last seen Thu, 18 Dec 2025 14:16:16

About Me

Hi guys :) I closed my account because of ONE bizarre experience, and I decided I cannot let that ruin me. So I am here again because I have yet to find my perfect fish, maybe there's no such thing but I truly believe in my heart that there is someone out there for me to be 'imperfect' with... I realize we all have little things that make us special, needs and desires that must line up in order for things to work out long term. I am ready to put myself out there to this big pond. It's scary to feel vulnerable but I am positive it will be worth it in the long run.I am a cheerful and happy girl, I put 'average' body type but I do have curves :) and of course I have a bit of a darker side, (who doesn't?) ...but in a good way I think. :) ......I just want to find the one that has a similar way of looking at life. Please don't message me if you're just looking for something 'casual', and by that I mean just for a hook up. I am certainly not saying I want to rush into anything either, quite the opposite. I would like to build a great foundation with someone and be able to work towards the long term....I want someone who is trustworthy and loyal to just me. I will say up front I have come from a relationship where it was more give than take.. .. believe me, I am the type of person that loves to give and pamper my person with things to make them happy, I just believe that should be a ***thing. Or at least ***lol.I love love love hockey ( I live for October, for many reasons), I use music as therapy. I adore my one and only daughter, she makes me proud.I have my kitty cats, 2 of them (one is 14 this year tho) I think having pets is good for the soul. Good coffee is a MUST in my book. I am part Italian, could be why it's so important to have a good strong cup of coffee w/raw honey and cream to start my work day/night .....mmmmm I am a bit of a homebody but I think that's because I haven't had anyone that has challenged me out. (which I really miss) I love to play tennis but haven't had a buddy to do that for a while. I like to go out and do random stuff with my potential sweetheart... I do work long hours, 12 hour days and nights so sometimes that can be challenging but I really love my job.Message me if you think you would like to chat and get to know each other. Dinner, coffee.... decide together?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Fantasy
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Kirsten from Portales | Woman | 44 years old | Cancer
    Kirsten

    Offline

    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Hi, I am an enthusiastic, fun-loving person who enjoys a wide variety of sports and activities. I am passionate about the arts, dance & horses. I enjoy meeting new people who have a strong sense of who they are and what they like. I am independent and very family oriented and looking for someone who is similar--a good person who is positive, outgoing, and loves nature. Love the local mountains for hiking, skiing etc... if this sounds like u let me know.Looks; i've got some. Nice fit with natural curves. somewhere we can have a conversation :)

    Chat
  • Cecily from Portales | Woman | 42 years old | Leo
    Cecily

    Offline

    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm at a place in my life where I'm not worried about the future and I love living in the moment. I'm hoping to find someone on here who I can have a lot of fun with so I'm not really worried about what you do for a living or how much money you make. I'm a bit shy so someone who is super outgoing always helps bring me out of my shell in a hurry. I like a guy who is exciting and fun, likes to go out to the pub or the bar, smiles a lot, is clean shaven, my height or taller, nice build, smells good, and who knows how to treat a lady right. If you're between the ages of 27 and 39.....perfect. Some of the things I like to do are traveling, scuba diving, and playing guitar and singing at jams around town. I have worked in the past as a musician and am looking forward to doing some gigging again in the near future. If you're a musician too or even just love music it's a super big plus for me. I like music of almost every genre - classic rock, blues, rap, jazz, alternative, heavy metal.I'm a voluptuous woman...so you gotta love curves. I think a great first date would be just to meet up for coffee or drinks and see if there's any connection.

    Chat
  • Laure from Portales | Woman | 43 years old | Taurus
    Laure

    Offline

    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Family is most important, I have 2 beautiful children and they are my life.... Now that doesn't mean I don't have other interests or any spare time..... Joint custody! I am not looking for a father for my children either, they have a great one....but rather.... someone than has a positive influence on them. I love the outdoors and spend as much time as I can outside. Swimming, beach, yard work, riding horses, skiing, pool in winter, landscaping in summer when not up north working, volleyball, boating.... In general, I'm looking for someone to share my life with.... Someone that wants, and enjoys, spending time together.... with no drama involved, if u have baggage, keep it, not interested! If you want to know more, then send me a message. Make it a great day! Cheers!P.S. if your just looking to hook up or ur not Interested in looking for a relationship.... Please don't waste my time or yours.If I don't respond, please don't take it the wrong way.... I most likely don't think we are a match ;)Well..... It's quite obvious most of u don't read profiles..... We all have certain people we are interested in or attracted to, so why waste ur time by replying to someone that has stated in their profile that there are certain things users must NOT do in order to message that person!!!!! I am active and athletic, therefore I want an athletic or average guy...... And, YES.... Weed is a drug!!!!! C'mon!If you don't have a picture, I won't respond.... I hate pics of myself too, but it's only fair to put a face to a profile!! Cheers!!! That can be decided together, or u can surprise me!!

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: