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Jerilyn, 42
United States, New Mexico, Portales

Offline, last seen Sat, 03 May 2025 06:18:22

About Me

Hi guys :) I closed my account because of ONE bizarre experience, and I decided I cannot let that ruin me. So I am here again because I have yet to find my perfect fish, maybe there's no such thing but I truly believe in my heart that there is someone out there for me to be 'imperfect' with... I realize we all have little things that make us special, needs and desires that must line up in order for things to work out long term. I am ready to put myself out there to this big pond. It's scary to feel vulnerable but I am positive it will be worth it in the long run.I am a cheerful and happy girl, I put 'average' body type but I do have curves :) and of course I have a bit of a darker side, (who doesn't?) ...but in a good way I think. :) ......I just want to find the one that has a similar way of looking at life. Please don't message me if you're just looking for something 'casual', and by that I mean just for a hook up. I am certainly not saying I want to rush into anything either, quite the opposite. I would like to build a great foundation with someone and be able to work towards the long term....I want someone who is trustworthy and loyal to just me. I will say up front I have come from a relationship where it was more give than take.. .. believe me, I am the type of person that loves to give and pamper my person with things to make them happy, I just believe that should be a ***thing. Or at least ***lol.I love love love hockey ( I live for October, for many reasons), I use music as therapy. I adore my one and only daughter, she makes me proud.I have my kitty cats, 2 of them (one is 14 this year tho) I think having pets is good for the soul. Good coffee is a MUST in my book. I am part Italian, could be why it's so important to have a good strong cup of coffee w/raw honey and cream to start my work day/night .....mmmmm I am a bit of a homebody but I think that's because I haven't had anyone that has challenged me out. (which I really miss) I love to play tennis but haven't had a buddy to do that for a while. I like to go out and do random stuff with my potential sweetheart... I do work long hours, 12 hour days and nights so sometimes that can be challenging but I really love my job.Message me if you think you would like to chat and get to know each other. Dinner, coffee.... decide together?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Fantasy
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