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Edelmira
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
I am a full fledged urbanite but I prefer the forest, the ocean, wooden homes, stained glass and potlucks with friends. I like to sleep in tents, ride my bike, be in & on the water, say yes to things that scare me, air guitar like no one's looking & read the New Yorker (not necessarily all at the same time). I eat Szechuan & I have a 7-year-old god-daughter. Your mom will like me. I have a career that’s unique, demanding & totally fulfilling.; volunteered with orphans in Romania (where I was also bitten by a feral dog). I’m addicted to TV (I don’t mean the educational shows) & therefore don’t own one. I’m not however, addicted to anything else & would prefer you aren’t either. I’m always looking for ways to grow & learn & so am usually enrolled in a class, some kind of training, personal development work, etc. You being well-educated, versatile & adventurous would be likely. You can count on me to be engaging, funny and to keep you on your toes. I’m very perceptive but I’m no mind reader so it’s important that you be someone who communicates honestly, clearly & often. I’m seeking a guy who is willing to own his humanity (the good, the bad & the ugly) & who wants to grow & learn throughout his lifetime. My Cancerian shell can be a bit soft at times, at other times I can be a bit too sharp & so I want to be with a man who is compassionate, bold & committed. If he is, he will get it all back in spades. I’d love a man who is tight with his family & is open to starting one of his own (with me that is) &/or sharing what he’s got. Someone with a backbone who isn't a bully;-woo; someone who loves sex but wants more in a relationship.Ultimately I'm looking for someone with whom I can build a life that is uniquely ours. I realize that these things don't happen overnight. Let's have a bit of fun & see where things go. You’ll walk away from a date with me feeling good about yourself. So if you’re intrigued & you’re not currently co-habitating with your (ex) wife or (ex) girlfriend, living with an untreated mental illness or planning on leaving the country in the near future, drop me a line.
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Ardelle
Online
Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 38-48
Hi : ) Here you will find a family oriented, sincere, thoughtful, compassionate, fun with a witty and cheeky sense of humor kind of gal looking to find a quality family man with a good value system, shares similar interests and we have new interests to introduce each other to.In my spare time I enjoy quality time with family and friends…from a low key weekend at home enjoying a nice home cooked meal then a game of cards, board game or a movie to a fun filled weekend out enjoying a fine dinner and some dancing or a show, concert, hockey, soccer or football game... Listen to all sorts of music...you may even catch me singing a phrase or two now and then ; ) Not a big fan of getting to know someone over a multitude of ***…I mean chatting is a great starting point but ultimately the first meeting is what sets the stage for things to come. Some of my core beliefs…- Everything happens for a reason even if reasons aren’t clear; all is revealed in time;- Old fashioned values of loyalty, honesty, integrity more valid today than ever before;- That ‘serious’ doesn’t start out that way (as far as relationships go) they take one day at a time;- Trust is earned, not given;- Its possible to disagree without fighting;- That a gut feeling is usually right;- That intimacy is an integral part of a healthy relationship;- That being in a relationship shouldn’t mean surrendering your freedom & individuality;- Its possible to be proud without being arrogant;- Being alone is sometimes a blessing, but being lonely is always a curse;- That it takes real strength to admit & apologize for a mistake;
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Ocie
Online
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I'm looking for real connection, because I haven't experienced much of that. I want to understand you and take some responsibility for your happiness, and have you do the same. This doesn't mean we can't have some separate interests or time with other (same-sex) friends. I'm looking to include you as part of the necessary fabric of my life. To compliment, enrich and be at peace with each other. I value hugs and small thoughtful surprises. My dog is a border collie cross. I've had birds, fish and dogs in the past. I like cats, and sometimes house-sit two for a friend. My experience with children is limited as I am the youngest in my branch of the family. I think their honesty, openness and curiosity is refreshing, and that their energy level is exhausting. I tend to treat them like little people with inexperience and little emotional control who need consequences for their actions in order to learn and grow. This means positive reinforcement (praise and/or reward) for good decisions, and consequences (time out, loss of privilege or corrective action) for bad decisions. My parents made time for me which included things like games after dinner, and a vacation alone with my mom. Things I cherished, which I would try to carry forward.I am not interested in being "Friends with Benefits". If friendship develops that far, then you better be "all in". I believe that when you are that close to somebody you give a vulnerable piece of yourself away. If there is no commitment, then that piece is lost and crippling pain seeps into your life. This affects all relationships, and the ability to live life with maximum joy. If you disagree, then move on and do not contact me.Trust in God people, be honest and open with others, and especially to yourself (which can be difficult). I wish you all peace and happiness :) "Coffee" date (I drink tea) in public venue, with possibility of going for stroll afterwards.Movies OK, however there should be a coffee date afterwards to discuss the film and other topics...