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Elouise, 42
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

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About Me

I like open, honest, and secure individuals that can express and explore their desires. I can be submissive or dominant, but I try to be "just right". I don't mean that in a slutty, promiscuous way; well maybe just a little.lol. I'm very honest, sincere, and sometimes very outgoing (depending on the situation). I prefer being around people that can laugh and have fun. Oh, and I'm not interested in the size of your d**k (Because-honestly I'm tight in all the right places). So, please don't bother sending pics or sizes. Anyway, if you're lonely and thinking that getting older might be something that shouldn't be done alone- then I can't wait to hear from you!......OK- So, that was my old profile- which was attracting the wrong type of person that I'm hoping to find. So, I thought I would try an honest, more detailed approach. Actually, I'm the "weird-homely type"! Being pretty gets you no-where, but weird and homely- that sh*t will take you places!!! I love good tequila, and I love to cook- and a whole multitude of other things. Oh, and my dog is one of my favorite people. I can be impulsive and restless at times, and I sometimes cuss way too much. I stay up way too late- way too often. ...I try to desire less, but struggle with wanting more. I'm a lot less interested in cool, and a lot more impressed with kindness these days. Honesty is good, games are tiresome! I have an idea as to what I'm looking for, but there's always room for adjustment. You should have compassion, or at least an interest in developing it. I find arrogance and dishonesty very unattractive, but a sarcastic sense of humor is tolerable... I would like to find a man with kind eyes who gives affection freely and who tries to understand more and assumes less. My idea of a great date would be doing something I haven't done, and that the kiss goodnight would weaken my knees....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Family & Kids Mystery
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