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Modesta, 44
United States, New Mexico, Carlsbad

Offline, last seen Fri, 10 Apr 2026 13:50:07

About Me

Wanted: Someone who doesn't lie or play games. I didn't get a copy of the rule book and these games are pointless. Seeking someone who seeks my own heartA fresh start, this is a new relationship, be open to the possibilitiesLet's get to know one another, learn about each others goals and desires and find out what we have in commonNo past, I don't need to know about all of your previous dates and what they did to hurt you or how crazy they were. I won't do those things.Let's have fun, laugh freely and enjoy life and all the beauty and joy it has to offerA future might be in the cards, we'll figure that out together. Not working out, please say something, don't just leave me hanging. Music: worship music, country, classic rock, alternative, and pop.Hobbies: pottery, hiking, local fairs and festivals, hanging out with friends, etc.WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR: Someone who puts Jesus first. I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, the last first date and all that. I know it sounds cliche', but it is what it is. : ) Someone who isn't afraid to communicate feelings, but not overly sensitive. Communicates when there are problems, not just sweeping them under the rug and hoping for the best. Affectionate/romantic: physically and emotionally, including holding hands, kissing, pda, and cuddling. Faith-someone who'll attend church with me, a fellow believer in Jesus. I could go on, but I think that's a good start. My long-term intent to find someone to marry is important to me. I do realize it's not something you decide after a first date or 5. I'm in no rush, but it's on my bucket list. If the thought of getting married hasn't made it to your priority list, it's probably not in the cards for us to meet.If you've made it this far, please know that I don't respond to messages, meet me's or favorite listings if you don't have a profile picture. I'm also not interested in long distance relationships. First meeting: Let's go to the local police station to see if you're a 'wanted man'. Truly, let's just hang out for a little bit and see if there's a first date in our future.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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