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Lelia, 42

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About Me

I'm a Weight Watcher Leader, so I'm very enthusiastic about people who take care of themselves and like to surround myself with people who are active. Don't get me wrong...I like a good movie or a lazy day reading a book at the beach, but I work hard to keep myself fit and enjoy people who like to do the same. I'm a musician, so I like all types of music. I work at a church and listen mostly to Contemporary Christian music. I think karaoke is fun and painful all in the same setting! =) But I like to get on the dance floor with all those other enthusiastic people.My official occupation is as an Activity Director for a continuing care retirement community. Yes, I'm an official party planner/fun facilitator! I do like a good party, but mostly I love great conversation, great food & intelligent people. I'm a working Mom...I have several different hats I wear in the working environments I'm in, but I'm almost always up-beat and motivating others! I'm looking for "the one" but aren't we all? I don't mind taking my time. =)I'm curious about something...why do so many men on here have pictures taken in the bathroom & in the car? I'm stumped! ?? A glass of wine... A place where we can talk with out lots of noise...a walk in the moonlight...allowing ourselves to get to know each other without too many distractions and then lets see what happens from there!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Modesta

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Wanted: Someone who doesn't lie or play games. I didn't get a copy of the rule book and these games are pointless. Seeking someone who seeks my own heartA fresh start, this is a new relationship, be open to the possibilitiesLet's get to know one another, learn about each others goals and desires and find out what we have in commonNo past, I don't need to know about all of your previous dates and what they did to hurt you or how crazy they were. I won't do those things.Let's have fun, laugh freely and enjoy life and all the beauty and joy it has to offerA future might be in the cards, we'll figure that out together. Not working out, please say something, don't just leave me hanging. Music: worship music, country, classic rock, alternative, and pop.Hobbies: pottery, hiking, local fairs and festivals, hanging out with friends, etc.WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR: Someone who puts Jesus first. I'm looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, the last first date and all that. I know it sounds cliche', but it is what it is. : ) Someone who isn't afraid to communicate feelings, but not overly sensitive. Communicates when there are problems, not just sweeping them under the rug and hoping for the best. Affectionate/romantic: physically and emotionally, including holding hands, kissing, pda, and cuddling. Faith-someone who'll attend church with me, a fellow believer in Jesus. I could go on, but I think that's a good start. My long-term intent to find someone to marry is important to me. I do realize it's not something you decide after a first date or 5. I'm in no rush, but it's on my bucket list. If the thought of getting married hasn't made it to your priority list, it's probably not in the cards for us to meet.If you've made it this far, please know that I don't respond to messages, meet me's or favorite listings if you don't have a profile picture. I'm also not interested in long distance relationships. First meeting: Let's go to the local police station to see if you're a 'wanted man'. Truly, let's just hang out for a little bit and see if there's a first date in our future.

  • Melissia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    IF YOU DONT HAVE A JOB OR CANT HOLD ONE,DRINK MORE BEER THAN YOU CAN AFFORD , HELL DRINK MORE THAN A SIX PACK A NIGHTCANT CONTROL YOURSELF DURING SITUATIONSHAVE A BAD DRUG ABUSE PROBLEM A DRIVERS LICENSELEGAL TRANSPORTATION, DO NOT UNDER ANY CERUMSTANCES CONTACT THIS LADY....!!!!(LOOK IT UP) !!!!Honest and for real ...sympathetic, compasionate, loving and loyalBUT NO MAN'S FOOLSASSY, CLASSIE AND A BIT SARCASTIC !!I like to go out every once in awhile, when i do i like to dance, play pool meet new people and talk alot..! I like being around people who make me laugh and I canbe quiet silly myself. I'M country born and raised, I curse when need be, talk sh*ttoo and friends seem to think it's quit funny, gotta have a sence of humor when talking with me, I cut up say some pretty stupid sh*tsometimes but to know me is to love me, I am no high heel,dress,sports car type girl,SOMETHING bout a truck..**The best part about being a women is the perogative is to have a little fun, act tototly crazy,forget I'm a lady , mens shirts, short skirts** lyrics from a song ... Always pray to have eyes that see the best in people, A heart that forgives the worst, mind that forgets the bad and a soul that never loses faith in God.

  • Zoe

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok here we go. I enjoy parks, walks on the beach, out to eat, hiking, laying in the sun, going out for ice cream and cuddling at home watching a movie. I am an honest person and want the same in return. Not looking for a hook up.... Really hoping to find someone special to share fun times with, be my friend, and hopefully start a relationship. I tend to be home a lot but maybe that could change. My days at the clubs and bars are over. Very family orientated. Looking for someone real, non judgemental, and fun to be with. A lot of guys don't seem to want to chat on here ?? Hope to hear from u :) not picky. Maybe coffee, or a drink, or be adventurous and try something new.

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