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Kandi, 43
United States, New Mexico, Bloomfield

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About Me

This is the fun part of setting up a profile...I am the type of person that tries to go with the flow, what ever life throws at me even ***. No matter how bad things seem, someone else is having it worse than you. Life is too short to stay mad for any length of time and to hold grudges.!! Can't get enough of the beauty that surrounds us here! I have a very outgoing personality and love to laugh! Quiet and shy are not one of my strong suits lol Everyone says this but I am a very honest and loyal person. I wear my heart on my sleeve and don't hide my emotions. If something is bothering me I let it be known, too much energy is wasted bottling things up. I am the type of person that LOVES "the little things", doing them and having them done for me! I am a very affectionate person and welcome PDA. Being a good kisser is a must! To make a long story short I am simply looking for what everyone wants, my happily ever after...No one seems to put what their weaknesses or down falls are on their profiles...I actually asked someone that has known me for 12 years to be completely honest and tell me what she thought mine were and this what she said....I am an over thinker, over communicator, and my feelings get hurt easily. I looked her dead in the face and said, "that's all you got?" I was looking for something I didn't know already lol Meeting for a coffee or going somewhere that's easy to talk. What I look for in a mate...That special someone has to have a good sense of humor to be able to handle my personality. I am looking for a man that can roll with the punches, take the good with the bad, and be solid in knowing who he is. Someone that isn't afraid to communicate or share his feelings. If there is no communication in a relationship, you don't have anything.Honesty and trust are very important to me...who doesn't want these qualities lol I am not much of a drinker and wouldn't suit someone that was. I don't care if you have a drink here and there but if having a beer after work is a must for you, that wouldn't fit well into my life.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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