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Lisandra, 39

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About Me

I am looking for the real deal because that is who I amI have my life in order and want to spend time w someone having fun. I like almost everything. I want someone who is able and wants to be the same way. I am smart, independent, and sarcastic. I also have a soft heart and listening ear. I want a man who knows what he wants and knows how to treat a ladyIf you can not come up w more than "hi" to message me, dont waste my time. Basically a first date is a sanity and attraction check. It should be short, coffee or maybe a quick lunch, and fun. The second date is where the guy needs to impress.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Morgan

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    This is tricky. I know what I want. Finding it is what always seems to be the hard part. I'm sure I could go on and on here but what would be left to ask?

  • Verona

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ***NO PICTURE, NO CONTACT, I WILL DELETE YOUR ******I'm a very forward person, which tends to get me no where, but I'm not the serial dater type. If there's a mutual interest after a few times going out, then I think it's worth it to try to see if something can come from it. I think that serial dating is a waste of time, where as you may have already passed over someone who really suits you. Serial dating to me is just like saying that the grass is greener on the other side, and we all know how that works!I love to laugh and have fun! A man that can provide both would be awesome! I'm not picky about what to do, as I am willing to try new things! I would love to find a man who can treat me as an equal, but at the same time will let me be myself and let me do my own thing (we all need our own personal space) I'm a jeans, t-shirt, & flip-flops kind of girl, but I can dress for the occasion as well!I'm pretty much laid back, I work a lot and have kids, so my time is precious to me. I like to have fun (when I can), I like to laugh, joke, and sometimes I am goofy. I have a sense of humor and can crack a joke on the drop of a dime! I am a very independent woman, so if you have issues with this, then I'm not the one. I am also not looking for someone to support me financially either, as I have that covered . Trust is the biggest deal breaker for me. I'm also not the jealous type. I'm very upfront and honest, and expect you to be as well.I am also traditional. I have clear moral values and tend to stick to my point of view. I tend to be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people. And I work to keep my networks intact. I am a die-hard romantic, and I must have depth and meaning in my relationships. I am emotionally expressive and want my partner to share his genuine self with me.I can be very sensitive, communicating my emotions clearly and tenderly. I work as an Independent Government Contractor for a non-profit organization that assists veterans in filing claims/appeal against the Government. Since I am a compassionate person, this trait helps me in this job. I love helping people the best of my ability.If I had more time, I would love to be able to volunteer for anything; kids, adults, elderly, homeless, etc. Also, no players, can't stand games or players! I'm not into what kind of cars you own, or how big your house is, or how much money you make! Not into materialistic people, I believe happiness is key, not money or objects.***Please have a profile picture or at least *** the initial contact ***, and have more to say then "hey, hi, etc".Thanks.*****Please read the following before you contact me.....As I am really not trying to be rude..... I do not date outside my race, just my personal preference.*****Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past- it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, Grow from it. The only way you can get the respect of others, is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you***** I tend to go with the flow, and I will try just about anything once!

  • Jeanna

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm a bright girl, with a positive out look. I believe life is to be participated in with a rejoicing heart, it is too easy to give into the gray. And I don't wish to miss any of its brilliance :) ummmm, well I have been single for 5 years and have loved every moment of it....but I'm a girl and was fashioned to experience intimacy.... I have a strong sense of integrity and value that in another. Believe in hard work, and that it brings incredible rewards....not looking to b rescued thanks tho, my da equipped me to face most challenges life has....and my kids have a great father....I don't need ur paycheck I take care of myself cuz i can and that satisfies me so much.... But if ur definition of partnership lines up with mine let's talk....um if it makes me rude, I don't mind pls don't message me and think I'm going to wanna hook up for a booty call, cuz well, as much as sex is phenomenal, I hope for something that is authentic and has substance....LOL, I come from a family that is full of lasting and passionate relationships. My da is still crazy hot for my ma, and they have been that way for close to 40yrs!! I hope to bring to any relationship I experience, a compassionate heart, the support I hope for in return; the ability to admit my mistakes and short comings, and a willingness to be accountable and ask for forgiveness....I am a great communicator, but a better listener. I believe that a relationship requires work, and am willing to invest in that given the right opportunity, the right chemistry, and the partner....;)

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