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Arely, 37
United States, Colorado, Montrose

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About Me

Apply within if...1. You Love Dogs! 2. MUST HATE CATS AND NOT HAVE ANY!!! (This is not negotiable! I'm highly allergic!) 3. Must not mind tattoos on women. 4. You should like women with a curvy, hour glass figure, I'm not a size 2 stick figure. (Please don't mistake this for thinking I'm morbidly obese, lazy, crap junk food eating pig!! I focus on eating well 80% of the time, I do ***marathons, 10ks, 5Ks, I bike, lift weights and walk my dog no less than 3- I'm an extremely active person and you will need to be able to keep up!) Here's the thing...I'm 37 years old, I've been married, divorced, and have had a significant number of relationships in the last 20 plus years. I know who I am as a women and I know what I'm looking for in a man and in a relationship. I have this figured out now, really I do :-). I know how to treat a man and I know how to treat him well! I'm just looking for the same thing...in a man! Stick to your guns, know yourself, know what you want. If I'm not it, move on and have a nice day. If you're not what I'm looking for, I'm going to do the same. I'm looking for the fairy tale gentleman. I'm completely comfortable and happy being single, I enjoy my life, I'm of the mindset that its better to be single and happy then with the wrong person and miserable. I settled once, I don't plan on settling again. I'm going to be picky and selective and cautious. The joys of online dating :-) "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure (not really, but it's part of the quote). I make mistakes. I'm out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!" ~ "Some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone just as wild to run with." ~ I need to put this on here and I'm not trying to be rude, but I don't live on this site or phone app. I sit in front of a computer all day. If I'm on here, it's just to check something and I'm off. I will not message back and forth with someone ***times just chatting. So when I get a message asking how I'm doing today, I'm going to *** Please have something to say. And I'm not looking for a "hookup", so keep on looking elsewhere if that's what you are after. And I need to know, why do people add people as favorites and not message them for days, weeks, etc? Are you putting all the women in favorites that look good to you and then going through them one at a time? One doesn't work so you go to the next? It's kind of creepy actually. Where am I in that stack? In the middle, near the bottom? Sorry guys! Add me as a favorite and don't message me, you know we can delete people who add us as favorites right?!?! Don't add me as a favorite, message me or move on. Sometimes if you snooze, you lose...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Canadian Spanish Dirt Bike Racing
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(This Personal Ad Provides as a Courtesy of the Save Men From Reina's Clutches Campaign***Me... Just Me ---* Looking for new FRIENDS who share interests in different ethnicities and cultures* I'm always looking for people who want to catch a B-Mets game - and when Fall comes, it will be B-Sens time! * When in NYC (as often as I can), I like to go OUT. I enjoy dining out at new and exciting restaurants or heading over to the beach during the day. * Yes...- now that's a little embarrassing, but I can't help but feel I am in my 20s (I do NOT look or act my age, and I want to be around others who like the same things that I like) Super Seekrit Word: Pudding !! 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Just because I am saying friends and hanging out does NOT equal sex. Get it? Lord...So do NOT think of me as a potential girlfriend, wife or lay. If anything, think of me as a possible friend, a co-worker or long-lost cousin you are meeting for the first time and would NEVER consider sleeping with... (Yes... I am frustrated at what kind of expectations people drag into the single lifestyle... I hate expectations.***HOWEVER... That being said: I really DO want love, passion, loyalty, honesty, a partner to share my joys and help me through my trials and tribulations. I do want love and this is my belief: The best relationships are built on sharing similar life/career goals and hobbies and interests, but the number one most difficult trait to fulfill is the "SPARK", aka the butterflies in your stomach!I'm not desperately looking for "The One" or my "Soulmate". If Mr. Right is out there, he'll fall into my lap one way or another, and I'd prefer it happen naturally. 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