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Arely, 37

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Apply within if...1. You Love Dogs! 2. MUST HATE CATS AND NOT HAVE ANY!!! (This is not negotiable! I'm highly allergic!) 3. Must not mind tattoos on women. 4. You should like women with a curvy, hour glass figure, I'm not a size 2 stick figure. (Please don't mistake this for thinking I'm morbidly obese, lazy, crap junk food eating pig!! I focus on eating well 80% of the time, I do ***marathons, 10ks, 5Ks, I bike, lift weights and walk my dog no less than 3- I'm an extremely active person and you will need to be able to keep up!) Here's the thing...I'm 37 years old, I've been married, divorced, and have had a significant number of relationships in the last 20 plus years. I know who I am as a women and I know what I'm looking for in a man and in a relationship. I have this figured out now, really I do :-). I know how to treat a man and I know how to treat him well! I'm just looking for the same thing...in a man! Stick to your guns, know yourself, know what you want. If I'm not it, move on and have a nice day. If you're not what I'm looking for, I'm going to do the same. I'm looking for the fairy tale gentleman. I'm completely comfortable and happy being single, I enjoy my life, I'm of the mindset that its better to be single and happy then with the wrong person and miserable. I settled once, I don't plan on settling again. I'm going to be picky and selective and cautious. The joys of online dating :-) "I'm selfish, impatient, and a little insecure (not really, but it's part of the quote). I make mistakes. I'm out of control and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!" ~ "Some women aren't meant to be tamed. Maybe they're supposed to run wild until they find someone just as wild to run with." ~ I need to put this on here and I'm not trying to be rude, but I don't live on this site or phone app. I sit in front of a computer all day. If I'm on here, it's just to check something and I'm off. I will not message back and forth with someone ***times just chatting. So when I get a message asking how I'm doing today, I'm going to *** Please have something to say. And I'm not looking for a "hookup", so keep on looking elsewhere if that's what you are after. And I need to know, why do people add people as favorites and not message them for days, weeks, etc? Are you putting all the women in favorites that look good to you and then going through them one at a time? One doesn't work so you go to the next? It's kind of creepy actually. Where am I in that stack? In the middle, near the bottom? Sorry guys! Add me as a favorite and don't message me, you know we can delete people who add us as favorites right?!?! Don't add me as a favorite, message me or move on. Sometimes if you snooze, you lose...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Verona

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    ***NO PICTURE, NO CONTACT, I WILL DELETE YOUR ******I'm a very forward person, which tends to get me no where, but I'm not the serial dater type. If there's a mutual interest after a few times going out, then I think it's worth it to try to see if something can come from it. I think that serial dating is a waste of time, where as you may have already passed over someone who really suits you. Serial dating to me is just like saying that the grass is greener on the other side, and we all know how that works!I love to laugh and have fun! A man that can provide both would be awesome! I'm not picky about what to do, as I am willing to try new things! I would love to find a man who can treat me as an equal, but at the same time will let me be myself and let me do my own thing (we all need our own personal space) I'm a jeans, t-shirt, & flip-flops kind of girl, but I can dress for the occasion as well!I'm pretty much laid back, I work a lot and have kids, so my time is precious to me. I like to have fun (when I can), I like to laugh, joke, and sometimes I am goofy. I have a sense of humor and can crack a joke on the drop of a dime! I am a very independent woman, so if you have issues with this, then I'm not the one. I am also not looking for someone to support me financially either, as I have that covered . Trust is the biggest deal breaker for me. I'm also not the jealous type. I'm very upfront and honest, and expect you to be as well.I am also traditional. I have clear moral values and tend to stick to my point of view. I tend to be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people. And I work to keep my networks intact. I am a die-hard romantic, and I must have depth and meaning in my relationships. I am emotionally expressive and want my partner to share his genuine self with me.I can be very sensitive, communicating my emotions clearly and tenderly. I work as an Independent Government Contractor for a non-profit organization that assists veterans in filing claims/appeal against the Government. Since I am a compassionate person, this trait helps me in this job. I love helping people the best of my ability.If I had more time, I would love to be able to volunteer for anything; kids, adults, elderly, homeless, etc. Also, no players, can't stand games or players! I'm not into what kind of cars you own, or how big your house is, or how much money you make! Not into materialistic people, I believe happiness is key, not money or objects.***Please have a profile picture or at least *** the initial contact ***, and have more to say then "hey, hi, etc".Thanks.*****Please read the following before you contact me.....As I am really not trying to be rude..... I do not date outside my race, just my personal preference.*****Always be yourself. Never try to hide who you are. The only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past- it's a waste of time. There's a reason for everything. Every mistake, every moment of weakness, every terrible thing that has happened to you, Grow from it. The only way you can get the respect of others, is when you show them that you respect yourself and most importantly, do your thing and never apologize for being you***** I tend to go with the flow, and I will try just about anything once!

  • Devin

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Im looking for someone who can just be themselves! I love music always seems to cheer me up. Im pretty low key I dont require "fancy" anything. I can get dirty with the best of them weather it be fishing or yard work but clean up well. I am attractive with the italian look(dark features). Im taller than most women ***so a guy taller than that would be someone I would prefer. Definatly a smart-ass and joker, very social type of girl. Looking for someone to share fun times with.....Pls if your going to send me a message something more than a one liner will be answered, anything else shows you cant carry a conversation even if its one sided. Im looking for people in my age range 30's to 40's... And if you don't have photos don't expect much of a conversation fair is fair. . I won't sell myself to better my chances of meeting anyone. I'm honest and expect the same. I would like to talk on phone first just to get a feel for who you are,,,and when the time is right grab a drink. Just as long as both parties are honest it should go smooth

  • Yi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ***classy sports coupe. One previous owner, no passengers, low mileage, needs slight body work but definitely a fixer upper. Ample trunk space. Lol size wise. I'm not referring to my exhaust pipe.I am a great mix of wit, charm, and overall the epitomy of awesomeness. I thrive on learning new things and taking adventures. Its an absolute must that conversation ebb and flow. Some incredible pub with a band playing. Even a cover band rocks occasionally lol

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