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Tottie, 40

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About Me

Ok I had to add this to my profile now that I've been on here for a bit...Please read the entire profile below.I don't want to hear from any guys that are looking to have this sexual rendezvous that is not what I'm seeking. Don't leave me provocative messages because I wont respond. Ladies although I love you all I'm not interested.Ok so that being said enjoy! I am new to this online dating thing.I will just cut right to the chase. I am a single mom, my children are my life. I am not looking for a father for them, but a lover and good man for me. I am all set with game playing, liars and cheaters. I am not a gold digger or materialistic, I work for everything I have. I have wasted so much of my valuable time on relationships that have ended in disaster. I am attractive and smart and have been told I'm funny..I guess you will have to be the judge of that. I do not go to clubs or party on the weekends. out grew that years ago. I'm not looking for someone to have sex with. I'm looking for someone to have sex with and wake up to every morning.If you like what you read you know what to do.... My idea of a first date is simple.... Well let me say this, I like to meet someone first for a brief amount of time just to make sure that there is an attraction, that way your not stuck some place with someone you just aren't feeling. If that goes well then any first date is fine with me. I am easy to please.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Fredricka

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I’m a FL girl born and raised. Been in ATL for ***years. I am set and stable with my career. Lookinf for someone to share and enjoy life’s treasures; big and small.I am strong-willed, driven, confident, independent, competitive, and a smart business woman. At the end of the day I leave it all behind at the office and look forward to just being with my Man! I surround myself with good, genuine, positive and fun loving people. My friends and family are extremely important to me. My parents have been together for over 50 years. They are fabulous and traditional people. My dating style is a bit traditional. I truly appreciate a man whom opens the door for me and strangers, calls when he says he will, and respects my space as much as I respect his. Phone calls are for conversations and making plans/dates. Texting is situation apoororiate, but not as the main source of communicating. I am looking to find the one that will experience it all with me. You are my best friend, confidante, and lover. We will walk beside one another; not in front or behind. Bringing out the best in each other, becoming the greatest we are destined to be. Finally, smiling & laughing with each other along the way!Football games in the fall. Baseball games in the spring. Sleeping in on a Sunday. Cuddled under a blanket on a rainy day watching movies. Road trips with no particular destination in mind. Brunch with mimosas. Zip-lining across the tree tops. Pizza, wine, and candlelight.

  • Halina

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    After doing a lot of wondering if I should be here, I have decided, why not? I am going through some health issues and a little fresh from a relationship which is why I want to be friends first. Dealing with Fibromyalgia, which can be painful from time to time and I'm also tired sometimes. I'm not rich.. but not too broke to pay my own pay unless you absolutely insist. So, if that puts you off, look for a woman with money who rock climbs. I don't see why it would be a problem for people who want just friends or friends with potential, but unless you have a big heart and your own money, lol, we may not fit as more than friends. I don't really like being alone and "sick" or just dead tired, but brain fully on at times, but I also hate to burden others with my problems. Any ideas? I wonder if this will weed out the ones who are looking for the wrong thing and keep the ones with good hearts, minds, and motives.. This was some of the worst of it. We all have our issues in life. It's just a matter of who keeps trying to overcome them.I love music, especially live, and movies . Movies have gotten me through some rough moments by being able to take my world away and immerse my imagination into theirs. I'm a firm believer that the mind is powerful and many things can be done by using it in the right ways. I'm not looking to be too serious at first right now, but want to have a good time and get to know you well. I need new people who are refreshing, interesting, kind, FUN and diverse!!! Intelligence would be fantastic, too. No, don't feed me bullsht and think that's gonna do it! I'm one honest girl who prefers to be around the same... except I prefer guys. lol Obviously a gamer or a liar isn't gonna say that's them, but if you think you are, move along. I want REAL friends because I love REAL people. I'm far from perfect, but I try to be upfront about my intentions and needs when that conversation arises. If we meet and click after awhile, I wouldn't be totally opposed to taking it to a different level, but I'm just being very cautious about it right now. If all I get from being here are some really good friends and good times, then it's worth it, right?***IMPORTANT: I do NOT want to be a text buddy. I'm don't mind texting a little, but there are many things that can be misunderstood or misconstrued, not to mention you cannot get a real feel for a person that way. If we chat here and it's cool, then I do give you my number, texting awhile is fine, but I want to hear a voice, too, especially before meeting you.***My looks are considered pretty in a more exotic type way, but I'm not skinny Barbie or her evil twin SWITCHED INTERNET PIC BARBIE... dun dun dunnnn! Come to think of it, I'm not Barbie at all! LOL! I have curves, but they're in good places and I'm good at shaping back up which I'm doing! I will probably never be a complete health nut, but prefer to eat healthy and get exercise through fun activities ;D like...dancing or swimming. Hey, you, get your mind out of the gutter! LOL! I want to take some Yoga soon, though. Will my yoga friend pls message again as I lost your message and wanna do that?!Will write more later, but if you wanna know somethin', just ASK! I'm really just looking for good friends right now, people to hang out with or have fun doing things. Just need some fun in my life other than the usual day to day. Doing what I can to stay busy and preoccupied. Idle hands are the devil's playground and all that! I like people who can teach me new things and who aren't judgmental. Took the needs test. The biggest thing I think I disagree with is that I actually DO need some "me time". I don't want to be glued to someone else ALL the time. That's not healthy. Regarding the wanting a relationship, I do eventually, but right now friends are what I need most. I don't want to think past that just yet except I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss the good things that come with a relationship. I'm working hard on various aspects of my life and need people who are fun, supportive, caring, and understanding which I try to be as well. Although I DO eventually want a relationship, I really want to feel comfortable with you first.BTW, I'm a fly by my seat kind of person. Plans tend to be a jinx for me. So please don't try to pin me down right away to a certain anything. I prefer to get to know you a little bit first and go from there. Like chat here or online first, then move to texting , if good, then the phone, then meet if we do alright. That being said, I'm not trying to waste your time or mine and I'm not going to try and go on and on for nothing like I've heard many complain about. If we're cool and both free at the same time wanting to go do something, talk about it and do it. Not that I won't make plans. I just have a lot going on at home right now. Am ***friendly, but no hard drugs which is why I checked the no drugs about messaging. I don't consider weed a drug unless you cannot live without it barring health issues...People who feel they have to have it to feel normal ALL the time tend to annoy me. Hippie parents. lol What can I say? BTW, I rarely smoke tobacco these days. Actually I vape preferring a blend of coffee, vanilla, and caramel. Snickerdoodle is yummy, too. LoL! NOW, if you managed to read this book, I want to thank and commend you! If I sound like someone you'd be interested in knowing or you think I might enjoy your company, message me :D Let's go!! It's been awhile and sadly, we sort of skipped that part during my last major relationship. So let's make it a non-stressful event... or non-event. Be natural and have a good time enjoying each other's company doing whatever we feel like doing at that time whether it be coffee, music, etc. As long as you don't ask me to pay for yours, I'm open! LOL Maybe call it a meet or meet and hang out *** a date. Just the word date brings on a certain stigma to it with expectation attached, don't you think? Yes, I know some of you consider this a dating site. I consider it a SOCIAL site so be sociable. :D Dates come and go. A true friend does not go.Don't get me wrong, I love the old fashioned notion of a date where doors are opened and held, the man walks by your side and not six paces ahead of you, and looks you directly in the eye when he speaks to you. Occasionally picking up a check is awesome, too, but that's not the reason I'm here AT ALL, I assure you. Meeting at an out of the way kinda place - coffee house or restaurant is fine. If things go well, could end up anywhere doing anything. Live music is always great, but I'm fairly easy to please most of the time and would love to have someone bring me up to speed on some of the newer, decent bands of the last few years.

  • Nickole

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    About MeI am a mother, sister and friend. I am confident, determined, strong willed, independent, and self sufficient. I call things as I see it, and honest sometimes to a fault. I believe in loyalty, commitment, compassion and being yourself at all times. I enjoy camping, bon fires, fishing, football, nascar, motocross, (anything with speed) anything outdoors....country dancing, photography, dining, movies, staying indoors or bbqin with family and friends. I am a very easy going and laid back person with a up beat personality.I am not a Barbie or Cinderella, what I am is honest..... Obviously, I am not petite or morbidly obese. I do not work out right now bc I am restricted to only a recumbent bike until after the 1st of the year due to a previous surgery and one coming up in November. I do have a few pounds or several that I can stand to lose so I have changed my eating habits. However, I will not tell you what you want to hear or be someone I am not. If you are looking for something on the exterior then may you have the best of luck. I know who I am inside and out and that is what makes me special. I am beautiful to me and the man upstairs and that is only opinion I am concerned with... I put this in here bc even at the age of 45 guys seem to be about the body and not about what is inside. Granted, there has to be a physical attraction before anything else. Now... for the rest of my profile.... I am happy with my life, however, always looking for ways to improve it, have more fun, live like I have never done. I am a free thinker with a deep passion for people. I tend to draw people to me with my Kind words and positive attitude. My glass is never half full or half empty, I'm just glad I have a glass with something in it. I enjoy a man that is intellectual and stimulating to the mind. One that is not afraid to go out in a limb or change and doesn't go with the flow of what others think.PLEASE Men, I am looking to date with the possibilities of a relationship not fill the void missing in your marriage.I would think this is a given but I am surprised it's not. I am not a drama person and I do not want it around, not looking for a daddy for my boys nor money. I can take care of myself.Oh, one more thing... you MUST have your teeth. I know in East Tx it takes about 5 ppl to make a full set IF you are lucky. If your interested in knowing me, please do not be afraid to ask away. :-) I enjoy meeting new people without expectations so the visit is casual and laid back. ;-) :-)

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