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Halina, 39
United States, Colorado, Glenwood Springs

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After doing a lot of wondering if I should be here, I have decided, why not? I am going through some health issues and a little fresh from a relationship which is why I want to be friends first. Dealing with Fibromyalgia, which can be painful from time to time and I'm also tired sometimes. I'm not rich.. but not too broke to pay my own pay unless you absolutely insist. So, if that puts you off, look for a woman with money who rock climbs. I don't see why it would be a problem for people who want just friends or friends with potential, but unless you have a big heart and your own money, lol, we may not fit as more than friends. I don't really like being alone and "sick" or just dead tired, but brain fully on at times, but I also hate to burden others with my problems. Any ideas? I wonder if this will weed out the ones who are looking for the wrong thing and keep the ones with good hearts, minds, and motives.. This was some of the worst of it. We all have our issues in life. It's just a matter of who keeps trying to overcome them.I love music, especially live, and movies . Movies have gotten me through some rough moments by being able to take my world away and immerse my imagination into theirs. I'm a firm believer that the mind is powerful and many things can be done by using it in the right ways. I'm not looking to be too serious at first right now, but want to have a good time and get to know you well. I need new people who are refreshing, interesting, kind, FUN and diverse!!! Intelligence would be fantastic, too. No, don't feed me bullsht and think that's gonna do it! I'm one honest girl who prefers to be around the same... except I prefer guys. lol Obviously a gamer or a liar isn't gonna say that's them, but if you think you are, move along. I want REAL friends because I love REAL people. I'm far from perfect, but I try to be upfront about my intentions and needs when that conversation arises. If we meet and click after awhile, I wouldn't be totally opposed to taking it to a different level, but I'm just being very cautious about it right now. If all I get from being here are some really good friends and good times, then it's worth it, right?***IMPORTANT: I do NOT want to be a text buddy. I'm don't mind texting a little, but there are many things that can be misunderstood or misconstrued, not to mention you cannot get a real feel for a person that way. If we chat here and it's cool, then I do give you my number, texting awhile is fine, but I want to hear a voice, too, especially before meeting you.***My looks are considered pretty in a more exotic type way, but I'm not skinny Barbie or her evil twin SWITCHED INTERNET PIC BARBIE... dun dun dunnnn! Come to think of it, I'm not Barbie at all! LOL! I have curves, but they're in good places and I'm good at shaping back up which I'm doing! I will probably never be a complete health nut, but prefer to eat healthy and get exercise through fun activities ;D like...dancing or swimming. Hey, you, get your mind out of the gutter! LOL! I want to take some Yoga soon, though. Will my yoga friend pls message again as I lost your message and wanna do that?!Will write more later, but if you wanna know somethin', just ASK! I'm really just looking for good friends right now, people to hang out with or have fun doing things. Just need some fun in my life other than the usual day to day. Doing what I can to stay busy and preoccupied. Idle hands are the devil's playground and all that! I like people who can teach me new things and who aren't judgmental. Took the needs test. The biggest thing I think I disagree with is that I actually DO need some "me time". I don't want to be glued to someone else ALL the time. That's not healthy. Regarding the wanting a relationship, I do eventually, but right now friends are what I need most. I don't want to think past that just yet except I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss the good things that come with a relationship. I'm working hard on various aspects of my life and need people who are fun, supportive, caring, and understanding which I try to be as well. Although I DO eventually want a relationship, I really want to feel comfortable with you first.BTW, I'm a fly by my seat kind of person. Plans tend to be a jinx for me. So please don't try to pin me down right away to a certain anything. I prefer to get to know you a little bit first and go from there. Like chat here or online first, then move to texting , if good, then the phone, then meet if we do alright. That being said, I'm not trying to waste your time or mine and I'm not going to try and go on and on for nothing like I've heard many complain about. If we're cool and both free at the same time wanting to go do something, talk about it and do it. Not that I won't make plans. I just have a lot going on at home right now. Am ***friendly, but no hard drugs which is why I checked the no drugs about messaging. I don't consider weed a drug unless you cannot live without it barring health issues...People who feel they have to have it to feel normal ALL the time tend to annoy me. Hippie parents. lol What can I say? BTW, I rarely smoke tobacco these days. Actually I vape preferring a blend of coffee, vanilla, and caramel. Snickerdoodle is yummy, too. LoL! NOW, if you managed to read this book, I want to thank and commend you! If I sound like someone you'd be interested in knowing or you think I might enjoy your company, message me :D Let's go!! It's been awhile and sadly, we sort of skipped that part during my last major relationship. So let's make it a non-stressful event... or non-event. Be natural and have a good time enjoying each other's company doing whatever we feel like doing at that time whether it be coffee, music, etc. As long as you don't ask me to pay for yours, I'm open! LOL Maybe call it a meet or meet and hang out *** a date. Just the word date brings on a certain stigma to it with expectation attached, don't you think? Yes, I know some of you consider this a dating site. I consider it a SOCIAL site so be sociable. :D Dates come and go. A true friend does not go.Don't get me wrong, I love the old fashioned notion of a date where doors are opened and held, the man walks by your side and not six paces ahead of you, and looks you directly in the eye when he speaks to you. Occasionally picking up a check is awesome, too, but that's not the reason I'm here AT ALL, I assure you. Meeting at an out of the way kinda place - coffee house or restaurant is fine. If things go well, could end up anywhere doing anything. Live music is always great, but I'm fairly easy to please most of the time and would love to have someone bring me up to speed on some of the newer, decent bands of the last few years.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Snowboarding
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