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Jacalyn, 39
United States, Colorado, Durango

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You managed to climb in your flip flops, with the help of a Bedouin. You take in the beautiful and breathtaking scenery, but now it's time to climb down and go back to camp. You are frozen...stiff...and cannot move...did I mention I am afraid of heights ? Long story short, yes, I made it down safe and sound and no I will never rock climb in the dessert, in my flip flops again! Most days of the week you can find me motivating, influencing and shaping young minds. As someone who has always loved learning, teaching and being with children, capturing teachable moments; what could be better? Well, maybe just a few things. Not to say that being in a classroom with 28 grade 5 students doesn't keep me on my toes, I do make time for doing the things I like and spending time with the people I care about. I love hitting the gym after a busy day at work. I am a bit of a gym nut and I am involved in several different classes that keep me motivated and strong. Also, I enjoy jogging and going for walks. I do take time to listen to music, read, cook and go for coffee (along with a good conversation and laughter); this will loosen me up for the week-end. Waking up Saturday morning, having breakfast in my p.j.'s, cleaning, going to the gym and making plans with family and friends, or having a quiet night in, is my way of winding down from a long week at work. I have an amazing life and want to share it with a great person. I am in a good place, happy and secure. I know how to balance hard work, fun and adventure. I love trying new activities and visiting new and interesting places. I like people who have brains, humour, wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some hardships in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you). My nature is generous, sensitive and always sweet. My friends know me as an honest, responsible, genuine and a kind person. I am someone who looks at life challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become stronger. The perfect match for me should be a down to earth, open-minded, honest and a genuine person who is active both physically and mentally, enjoys a healthy lifestyle, has similar interests, family values, is ready for a serious committed relationship and is open to the idea of having children. I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully a future as well. A relationship based on trust, respect and keeping one another focused on our mutual goals in life is what I desire. If you know what you want and aren't afraid of having fun while going after it, send me a message and let's chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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Greek Italian
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