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Jacalyn, 39
United States, Colorado, Durango

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You managed to climb in your flip flops, with the help of a Bedouin. You take in the beautiful and breathtaking scenery, but now it's time to climb down and go back to camp. You are frozen...stiff...and cannot move...did I mention I am afraid of heights ? Long story short, yes, I made it down safe and sound and no I will never rock climb in the dessert, in my flip flops again! Most days of the week you can find me motivating, influencing and shaping young minds. As someone who has always loved learning, teaching and being with children, capturing teachable moments; what could be better? Well, maybe just a few things. Not to say that being in a classroom with 28 grade 5 students doesn't keep me on my toes, I do make time for doing the things I like and spending time with the people I care about. I love hitting the gym after a busy day at work. I am a bit of a gym nut and I am involved in several different classes that keep me motivated and strong. Also, I enjoy jogging and going for walks. I do take time to listen to music, read, cook and go for coffee (along with a good conversation and laughter); this will loosen me up for the week-end. Waking up Saturday morning, having breakfast in my p.j.'s, cleaning, going to the gym and making plans with family and friends, or having a quiet night in, is my way of winding down from a long week at work. I have an amazing life and want to share it with a great person. I am in a good place, happy and secure. I know how to balance hard work, fun and adventure. I love trying new activities and visiting new and interesting places. I like people who have brains, humour, wit, spunk, self-confidence (not narcissism), resilience, strength of character, a willingness to learn and be taught (humility), those who have been through some hardships in life and pushed through it (I am not going to make your lemonade for you). My nature is generous, sensitive and always sweet. My friends know me as an honest, responsible, genuine and a kind person. I am someone who looks at life challenges as lessons from which we can grow and become stronger. The perfect match for me should be a down to earth, open-minded, honest and a genuine person who is active both physically and mentally, enjoys a healthy lifestyle, has similar interests, family values, is ready for a serious committed relationship and is open to the idea of having children. I am looking for that special someone to share my experiences with and hopefully a future as well. A relationship based on trust, respect and keeping one another focused on our mutual goals in life is what I desire. If you know what you want and aren't afraid of having fun while going after it, send me a message and let's chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Terry from Durango | Woman | 39 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a single mom with two children. I enjoy traveling and seeing new places any chance I get. I am goal oriented and currently going back to school to get my bachelors degree. I am pretty independant and not looking for someone to take care of me, but someone to enjoy traveling and other interests with me. I own my own house and vehicle. ( maybe in the next 20 years or so :***I am looking for someone between the ages of 34 & 45. Someone that is Positive, active, in good shape, likes getting out and going places, and enjoys life! Please DO NOT send me a message if you do not have pictures on your profile. You will just be wasting OUR time. I am not going to give you my cell # or *** you can send pictures to me. Oh and NO farmboys please, they just don't seem to be my type ( but I do like guys with cowboy hats)........... Something simple.....

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  • Darcy from Durango | Woman | 39 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Looking for some interesting conversation, a warm smile, a twinkle in our eyes and everything else wonderful. I work hard during the week and I am looking for someone to have lots of fun with on the weekend. You should have lots of energy to keep up with me.... Lets face it during the week we work and go to the gym so there is not much time to run around town for dates so the weekend is what it is all about.You should be financially and mentally stable. You should have a stable career. Please make sure you have a picture on your profile if you want to chat or get an answer back. That shows that you are single and serious and let face it there should be an attraction. I would really like to meet someone 27 to 47 years old. Ask yourself how much time would you really have anyway for a single girl that is free most of the weekend anyway? I am not looking for someone I can live with, I'm looking for someone I can't live without. Life is not only about doing the things you love, but its MORE about doing things with the one you Love!I am looking for someone special to date, get to know and fall in love with and marry. In no rush as it takes time to find someone special........If you are cheap and easy click click away. I am looking for Quality not quantiy! I am seeking a special person that still believes in love..... Lunch or Dinner someplace quite to chat.....I love asian, italian, french, greek food.....and there men to LOL ReallyDo!1. Talk about your hobbies2. Talk about your goals/aspirations3. Talk about yourself and what makes you unique4. Talk about were you have traveled or dream to travel5. Talk about dance, art, the arts in general what you last watched at the NAC6. Talk about why you want to fall in love 7. Laugh, chill and just take it easy8. Talk about the trees and flowers in your garden9. Talk about my days as a professional mermaid LOL10. Talk about what you do to stay in shape11. Talk about your favorite restraunts12. Talk about your favorite spa location13. Talk about the books you like to read14. Talk about how cute we are together LOLDo not1. Talk about our ex's more than 2 minutes(the past is the past lets move on together)2 Talk about how stressed out we are at work ever leave it at work3. Talk about work for more than 5 minutes the weekend is about fun3. Talk about sex it is to soon for that it takes time to get to know someone4. Have your cell phone or blackberry on the table and keep checking it (leave it in the car) don't waste my time

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  • Jeneva from Durango | Woman | 39 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Just a little disclaimer... I have been on meetville for a few months now and I am learning that a lot of men are all about games. I prefer to get to know you a bit here before exchanging numbers. I am not going to be sending you anymore pictures of myself... what you see here is what you get. With that said... HI! I have been single for almost 2 years now and I am interested in expanding my horizons and meeting new people. Definitely friends first. I am a TALL woman and I love to wear heels when I go out, so take that into consideration! I do prefer someone I can look up to without my heels though. I am a very friendly, social and outgoing person who will talk to just about anyone, so you can't be a very jealous type because people will come and talk to me no matter where I am. I am very easygoing and I don't care to be judgmental. Everyone's situation is different and usually always difficult, so I don't feel I have the right to judge. My body type does not define me and neither does yours. I am interested more in personality and someone I can communicate with openly. I don't smoke or do any drugs and am looking for someone the like. I do like to have a few drinks every now and then, but only socially. I never drink alone, although sometimes I want to! I have been trying to rediscover myself lately (New Year/New ME), which isn't an easy thing I am finding out! I definitely wear my heart on my sleeve, which has not always proven to work well for me but I can't change who I am! I definitely love music... pretty much all genres. I have actually even started listening to some country music. I like to sing in the car as if I can and I'll jump on the dance floor when I hear something I like. I like to read and learn new things. I am up for trying new things. Some things you should know about me before you even message me: (I hope these don't make me seem mean... I am just being real) *I am NOT looking for a hook-up or a one-night stand. *I am not sending you any more pictures of myself and I don't want to see any of you that you can't post on meetville! *If I am not interested or you can't form a complete sentence... I am probably not going to respond to your messages.*My children are very important to me and take up a lot of my time, however, I can make time available. *.. which means if you are interested in seeing me, you should be open to traveling to the city or nearby. *I am currently in the middle of my divorce, however, the relationship was over 2 years before the process even started over a year ago. *Post CURRENT pictures of yourself please.. it's only fair to those of looking. When we meet you, we don't want to wonder if you are the same person we've been looking at on meetville. *Don't waste my time. If you are fake... don't even bother! I don't like games! And I can usually tell right away. I am a very caring and loving woman and need someone worthy of my affection. I am looking for a man to give me as much as I am willing to give. There are going to be times that I am tough and those are the times that I probably just need a hug and to be told that everything is going to be OK. I want to feel protected. I want to know that you are thinking about me at random times throughout the day. I am actually a hopeless romantic and want to be swept off my feet. Please do not confuse my personality with my attitude... because my personality depends on me, and my attitude depends on you. When I asked my friends if they could describe me, this is what I received: "Loving...good friend...honest...good-hearted..you are truly one of a kind!"; " A loving person, a great friend, loyal person, a daring person(lol), a great mom!!! U deserve the best!!!"; "Loyal , loving and the kinda friend that will always be there for u. To back u up in anything!!" I love quotes and life lessons... This one really spoke to me: "Life is precious; As unwanted as you may feel, one day you will mean everything to someone. Maybe today, maybe tomorrow, maybe in years. Maybe you already do and you just don't know it yet, but I promise it will happen. You may feel like the ugliest f/ck up in this world, but I promise one day someone will love you, and you will love them. There are laughs to have, amazing people to meet, places to see, and there is someone out there who is perfect for you. As worthless and empty as you may feel, there are great things ahead of you. Moments that will take your breath away, moments that will change everything. There are good times and there are bad times ahead of you, but I promise that even a life filled with hardship is better than being six feet under the ground rotting away. Replace self-hating thoughts with positivity. Eat as much as you want. Smile. Talk. Say the wrong thing. Break rules. Make mistakes. Fall in love. Laugh. Breathe. Live. Because this life is precious and this life is beautiful." So... if that isn't too much to handle... say hello! :) An ideal first date would just be a chance to sit down with someone over dinner or drinks and just get to know each other.

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